Hello everyone I hope all of you are well and thriving in the light of God.
As a relatively new member of the faith I have a couple of questions I am curiously trying to find a fulfilling solution to.
In my previous religion Islam we were taught that one must forgive and be kind to those who weong them it even goes as far as not only being good to those you have animosity with but also practicing good deeds towards them. Now in Christianity it goes up a notch and it is even more required to not just forgive since you can forgive someone and still hold to negative feelings towards them but you must also LOVE them. And this is where my problem lies. In the past as a muslim it was easy for me to forgive those who wrong me but as a christian God commands me to love my enemies as much as I love my self or my own. I sincerely want to be as close to abiding by Christs commandments but honestly it is very difficult for me to love those who wronged me in a very personal level. I wonder if my faith is at stake here because God also primarily cares about your heart and its well being. How can I love those who are considered to me to be my enemies without being regarded as passive or being taken advantage of. What does it mean to love your enemies and does extend to being kind to them or should we just avoid these people who may very well be believers or people who are good but you and them just don't get along.
I'm so excited for the discussion I hope it dwells into a deeper level.
So the main question is How do you apply the commandments pertaining to loving your enemies in an emotional and mental manner. For example should I be empathetic and put myself into their shoes and make justifications and excuses for them like if I was in their place I'd be no different or perhaps I should think of them as inherently bad people and that they deserve to be shown what they deserve or maybe even putting my own faith in question and worrying about the people which perceive me as an enemy and I need their forgiveness.
God bless
As a relatively new member of the faith I have a couple of questions I am curiously trying to find a fulfilling solution to.
In my previous religion Islam we were taught that one must forgive and be kind to those who weong them it even goes as far as not only being good to those you have animosity with but also practicing good deeds towards them. Now in Christianity it goes up a notch and it is even more required to not just forgive since you can forgive someone and still hold to negative feelings towards them but you must also LOVE them. And this is where my problem lies. In the past as a muslim it was easy for me to forgive those who wrong me but as a christian God commands me to love my enemies as much as I love my self or my own. I sincerely want to be as close to abiding by Christs commandments but honestly it is very difficult for me to love those who wronged me in a very personal level. I wonder if my faith is at stake here because God also primarily cares about your heart and its well being. How can I love those who are considered to me to be my enemies without being regarded as passive or being taken advantage of. What does it mean to love your enemies and does extend to being kind to them or should we just avoid these people who may very well be believers or people who are good but you and them just don't get along.
I'm so excited for the discussion I hope it dwells into a deeper level.
So the main question is How do you apply the commandments pertaining to loving your enemies in an emotional and mental manner. For example should I be empathetic and put myself into their shoes and make justifications and excuses for them like if I was in their place I'd be no different or perhaps I should think of them as inherently bad people and that they deserve to be shown what they deserve or maybe even putting my own faith in question and worrying about the people which perceive me as an enemy and I need their forgiveness.
God bless