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Hi everyone
I’m coming back today to seek emergency help.Today while I was working,I believed and trusted in Jesus and confessed him as lord and savior and believe in him in my heart.Right when I thought everything was ok,my anxiety spiraled once again into chaos.Basically in a prior post I spoke of how great my beginning of being a Christian was,but I began to think that it was because I believed Arminian theology,I believed wholeheartedly that God wanted to save me and he loves me and wants me to repent.But when I learned of reformed theology,that’s when that “God wants to save me” changed into “God doesn’t want to save me or want to love me” and that’s where I believe the birth of a fear of hell began.
This all went through my head in a matter of seconds then like yesterday,I thought “If God doesn’t want to save me or want to love me or want a relationship with him then I hate him” now this sent fear so bad,so intense,so unbelievably powerful im still shaking in fear an hour later,I felt nothing for countless minutes then began to think “How can I love someone and want to follow someone who doesn’t want me?”I began to feel so hopeless,with only one option,to turn to Jesus.
However I still keep saying to Jesus “I don’t hate you”,but I feel like and scared that I’m becoming an atheist,Iv,I’m the past hour have even thought “I’d rather be in hell than in heaven with a God who doesn’t want to love me”,that shocked more fear into me.I’m now scared and depressed that I’ve committed the unpardonable sin and/or apostasy.It’s all over the doctrine of election,I don’t want to hate God,and I’ve never thought this up until today and yesterday.I’ve thought what’s the point of following Jesus if I’m not an elect.
Could anyone please help,especially a Calvinist help me.Does God want me to be in a relationship with him.I don’t want to upset anyone who has repeatedly helped me ,but I’m so scared,I have no desire to sin or take the lords name in vain.I love the Christian life,and I love a relationship with Jesus.I don’t deny who Jesus is,I believe who Jesus is who he says he is. Could someone help me understand why I’m going through this.I’m so scared of and refuse becoming a atheist or agnostic.I’m scared of Gods wrath and scared that I’m a false Christian.
I’m coming back today to seek emergency help.Today while I was working,I believed and trusted in Jesus and confessed him as lord and savior and believe in him in my heart.Right when I thought everything was ok,my anxiety spiraled once again into chaos.Basically in a prior post I spoke of how great my beginning of being a Christian was,but I began to think that it was because I believed Arminian theology,I believed wholeheartedly that God wanted to save me and he loves me and wants me to repent.But when I learned of reformed theology,that’s when that “God wants to save me” changed into “God doesn’t want to save me or want to love me” and that’s where I believe the birth of a fear of hell began.
This all went through my head in a matter of seconds then like yesterday,I thought “If God doesn’t want to save me or want to love me or want a relationship with him then I hate him” now this sent fear so bad,so intense,so unbelievably powerful im still shaking in fear an hour later,I felt nothing for countless minutes then began to think “How can I love someone and want to follow someone who doesn’t want me?”I began to feel so hopeless,with only one option,to turn to Jesus.
However I still keep saying to Jesus “I don’t hate you”,but I feel like and scared that I’m becoming an atheist,Iv,I’m the past hour have even thought “I’d rather be in hell than in heaven with a God who doesn’t want to love me”,that shocked more fear into me.I’m now scared and depressed that I’ve committed the unpardonable sin and/or apostasy.It’s all over the doctrine of election,I don’t want to hate God,and I’ve never thought this up until today and yesterday.I’ve thought what’s the point of following Jesus if I’m not an elect.
Could anyone please help,especially a Calvinist help me.Does God want me to be in a relationship with him.I don’t want to upset anyone who has repeatedly helped me ,but I’m so scared,I have no desire to sin or take the lords name in vain.I love the Christian life,and I love a relationship with Jesus.I don’t deny who Jesus is,I believe who Jesus is who he says he is. Could someone help me understand why I’m going through this.I’m so scared of and refuse becoming a atheist or agnostic.I’m scared of Gods wrath and scared that I’m a false Christian.
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