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Title was too long, so the end of the title would be: But ended up getting married and having kids anyways?
I am 23 this year, none of this has ever been on my mind.
But I do think about it, because what if this is the reality of the future?
I wouldn't want to do things right now, that would inhibit my chances of a good partner and also parent. And I would think more deeply about my actions and the way I live.
Because I noticed, when people depend on me that I tend to be more responsible as a person. Because I don't want them suffering for my mistakes as well.
I don't know where the future will go, part of me thinks this will never happen. But how many people thought they would of never gotten married and had kids and it did happen?
From what I know my dad, thought he would of never had been a father and wasted his 20's a way, only to later get married, and have kids later on. I'm sure if he knew this would of been his future he would of sharpened up much quicker.
I just don't want to do things I will regret later on. Because the way I see myself living as of now wouldn't be good if I were to continue living the way I am if I were to get married and so on.
I am 23 this year, none of this has ever been on my mind.
But I do think about it, because what if this is the reality of the future?
I wouldn't want to do things right now, that would inhibit my chances of a good partner and also parent. And I would think more deeply about my actions and the way I live.
Because I noticed, when people depend on me that I tend to be more responsible as a person. Because I don't want them suffering for my mistakes as well.
I don't know where the future will go, part of me thinks this will never happen. But how many people thought they would of never gotten married and had kids and it did happen?
From what I know my dad, thought he would of never had been a father and wasted his 20's a way, only to later get married, and have kids later on. I'm sure if he knew this would of been his future he would of sharpened up much quicker.
I just don't want to do things I will regret later on. Because the way I see myself living as of now wouldn't be good if I were to continue living the way I am if I were to get married and so on.