It's an important topic and shouldn't be ignored. You need to ask questions. Everyone's conception of intimacy isn't identical. Appetite is one of them. Marrying someone with a strong libido and yours isn't is a mismatch. You'll need to compromise. That happens on both ends.
Yeah, but it rarely gets discussed upfront, and even less so in Christian circles. Even among non-Christians, typically people are already invested in a relationship by the time they start discussing that kind of stuff. Then they get married, and find they're totally incompatible in that respect.
You should ask how often? What's your ideal? Before you agree! And interests too. What do you want your wife to wear and so on. Paint me a picture. It gives you something to go on. Are you able to meet their needs or not?
LOL. Well, let me know when you find a Christian dating site that has options and check boxes for all those things.
You know if you're shy or adventurous. Like routine or trying new things. You don't become a different person in the marriage bed.
Maybe women get a better reception when they try to raise the topic. I expect most men wouldn't get another date, email, text, PM, phone call etc.
Wake up earlier. Locks are best. You don't want to traumatize them.
LOL. I'm not sure how many couples would want to keep trying after repeated interruptions. And none of this helps if one person is too exhausted to have any interest.
I couldn't live like that. We wouldn't make it three months before I insisted on therapy.
Therapy sounds awful. I'm British. As far as I'm aware we don't (yet) have the same enthusiasm for therapy as in America.
The bible addresses the subject. You can't opt out. If there's physical reasons you can't perform that doesn't prohibit you from pleasing your partner. They shouldn't be starved. It opens up temptations.
Yeah, but an entitled attitude for this (or anything else) is never attractive. Try being nice loving, patient, sensitive, and kind, and if all that fails then you've probably married the wrong person.
You can find it. If they don't like them beware! She's a handful. ~lol
LOL. Well, there's different levels of submission. And there's probably a few Alphas who like the idea of submission, but couldn't actually live with it, because the desire to seize control is too strong.
And this is all rather academic for me. It has no practical application. I'm single and will most likely remain so.
