Why can't I argue about subjective stuff?
My husband and I have argued many times over what to watch on TV, yet there is no objectively best option.
In any case, how can anyone argue over whether the food is burned or not? You really think someone's going to say, "The food is burned," and the other person will say, "No it isn't!" If it's objective, then shouldn't there be agreement?
Seems to me the only argument should be about the SUBJECTIVE things. For example, my husband likes his steaks very rare, I prefer mine medium to medium well. So a steak that is fine for me is burnt by his tastes, and what is fine for him is practically raw to my tastes. We've had arguments about that, and that's subjective.
To disagree is not necessarily to argue. You and your husband might disagree over which sort of steak tastes best, but the disagreement is probably not an argument. In the same way, toddlers disagree over who gets to play with a toy, but they aren't having an argument. They aren't presenting reasons and rebuttals for intellectual positions.
When you say, "Slavery is wrong," are you making the same sort of claim as, "Gilmore Girls is good," or, "Medium steak tastes good"?
My point is that if you think someone has said something false, then you can argue with them. Apparently you think it is false that slavery is permissible. But you don't think it is false that rare steak tastes good. The steak claim is equivocal. You and your husband are both saying, "My taste buds find [rare or medium] steak to be more pleasurable than [medium or rare] steak." So the claims do not contradict, for "my taste buds" refers to two different sets of taste buds. When your husband makes a claim about his taste buds, you do not think he is saying something false.
But the slavery claim involves no equivocation. When you tell Abaxvahl that, "Slavery is always wrong," you are both using the same definition of slavery and wrong, and you are engaging in propositional disagreement (i.e. there is a contradiction). In this case there are not two sets of "taste buds." So you tell him that what he has said is false. But truth and falsity are not subjective notions. They are objective. Propositions like "slavery is wrong" can't be true for some people and false for others. That's why you objected: because you believe he is objectively wrong.
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