This is the part that I suffer social anxiety from right now. I did have a talk with the lady about choosing between two parishes, hers and another's (I wrote a thread about this recently). She didn't have the most favorable opinion of the other church, and I was kind of surprised. She said that church has a different vibe in that it's a wealthy church and the people there can be more haughty. Frankly, the deacon and parochial vicar of that church she is talking about were wonderful with us; they were willing to give my mom a funeral Mass, so maybe she's talking about the parishioners. As I said, I was surprised to hear about that. I didn't get any haughty vibe from that church, but who knows - maybe the staff isn't haughty but something else might be wrong. She did say that in spite of the fact that she lives only a few minutes away from a Catholic church in her own town, that she didn't like that particular one and chose the one she works at now.
I still get worried over how I might be treated. If the staff at this church (particularly the priest) doesn't treat me well, what is my next recourse of action?
