What is currently on your mind?

Michie · Sep 27, 2021

MehGuy said:
Nice.

The weather is pretty normal here.. sad it's about to be October.. where I live.. the winters are not pretty.. and my new job has a pretty long commute. Lol.

It was too hot! Close to 90! It was offset with a breeze but I really enjoy the Fall temps. Was not happening today.

MehGuy · Sep 27, 2021

Michie said:
It was too hot! Close to 90! It was offset with a breeze but I really enjoy the Fall temps. Was not happening today.

What part of the country do you live in if you don't mind me asking?

That sounds horrible.

Yeah I like the fall temps.. the orange leaves.. probably my favorite season.. but sadly it just leads into my least favorite one.

Michie · Sep 27, 2021

MehGuy said:
What part of the country do you live in if you don't mind me asking?

That sounds horrible.

Yeah I like the fall temps.. the orange leaves.. probably my favorite season.. but sadly it just leads into my least favorite one.

Yeah I wish Autumn lasted longer. After about 2 months of Winter, I’m over it. I live in the Midwest.

Robban · Sep 27, 2021

Michie said:
Yeah I wish Autumn lasted longer. After about 2 months of Winter, I’m over it. I live in the Midwest.

Winter is ok...............

on a postcard.

newwaytobehuman · Sep 27, 2021

What's on my mind?

Hay. Eating it. Snuggling in it.

Hay hay hay

newwaytobehuman · Sep 27, 2021

Michie said:
Yeah I wish Autumn lasted longer. After about 2 months of Winter, I’m over it. I live in the Midwest.

Autumn is better.

timothyu · Sep 27, 2021

newwaytobehuman said:
Autumn is better.

Once we adapt to the chill.

bèlla · Sep 28, 2021

Michie said:
So far no. His side of the family are not easy to deal with to be honest. Tom does not want it. It’s funny how people are not around and someone gets ill and they just coming crawling out of the woodwork. I know they are grieving but they still have not lifted a finger to help with the heavy lifting. But I can’t let it get to me. I need to look after my mother as well. I just want peace and for everything to go smoothly for everyone.

That’s the lone thing movies get right. I wonder if their behavior is the result of guilt. You never know. But I think your attitude is best. You have enough on your plate to worry about without extras. I pray your wish is granted and will hold you in prayer too.

Honestly, I do not know how you do it but if you feel you have a calling then the strength comes out if you feel it has a purpose.

I don’t know either but we’re working on my schedule. My sewing classes were six weeks and new sessions began right after. We had very few breaks. But I didn’t have homework.

Fatigue is forcing me to outsource things. He’s onboard with that. Luckily he cooks and enjoys baking too. We’ll share the burden and eat out.

I think it wise to connect to others that seem to have achieved the goals we seek. Of course every marriage is different but listening and observing is always the smart thing to do.

His marital ideal is really high. His parents have a wonderful relationship. Lots in common, no disagreements, and a close bond. I suspect it’s a combination of fit, culture, and upbringing. I don’t feel pressured to do the same but I respect its value.

I’m looking at it from natural and spiritual angles. We’re a lot like that except I work. His mother is the spirited one. I don’t need help there. It’s a different kind of surrender. An invitation to be and rest. He’ll take care of things. That takes some getting used to.

Seems like you raised Little Miss pretty well. I’m sure you will do the same with any future children. It will be fine. By the way, crypto currency = Little Miss now. I still don’t understand it. Lol

Thank you. I wouldn’t be the woman I am without her. She brought out the best in me. Future littles will be fine. He’s hands on. Yes, that’s her forte. She has me looking at digital fashion. You read that correctly! That’s the future we’re heading towards.

It appears we like a lot of the same things so I’m always looking for the latest videos you present. It’s a nice way to decompress.

I’m very domestic. More than I show. I’m glad you like the content and it helps you decompress. The threads are enjoyable. Good Vibes are my favorites and Love and Marriage is for couples and marriage minded singles. A lot of things I add there we don’t discuss. But they’re useful nonetheless.

The Prayer for Relaxation on the L&M thread would be helpful. You feel it immediately.

Michie · Sep 28, 2021

bèlla said:
That’s the lone thing movies get right. I wonder if their behavior is the result of guilt. You never know. But I think your attitude is best. You have enough on your plate to worry about without extras. I pray your wish is granted and will hold you in prayer too.

Yes I do not know their motivation but they seem clueless about most things. I just think his kids are very odd. Did not see anything of them for years unless they wanted something. I’d rather have a happy blended family but there are people out there that are addicted to drama and try to keep things stirred. I pray for them but after my stepdad passes, I will not let them bully my mother. It’s going to be an experience but I do covet your prayers. You seem to have a gift in that area.

I don’t know either but we’re working on my schedule. My sewing classes were six weeks and new sessions began right after. We had very few breaks. But I didn’t have homework.

No homework is a blessing. How long does this schooling last?

Fatigue is forcing me to outsource things. He’s onboard with that. Luckily he cooks and enjoys baking too. We’ll share the burden and eat out.

That is nice that he is so supportive of you. It sounds like you all will make a great team and ease the burden for one another.

His marital ideal is really high. His parents have a wonderful relationship. Lots in common, no disagreements, and a close bond. I suspect it’s a combination of fit, culture, and upbringing. I don’t feel pressured to do the same but I respect its value.

I’m looking at it from natural and spiritual angles. We’re a lot like that except I work. His mother is the spirited one. I don’t need help there. It’s a different kind of surrender. An invitation to be and rest. He’ll take care of things. That takes some getting used to.

My husband’s parents were the same. Which gave my husband high expectations concerning marriage. But I think that is a good sign. I’d rather have a husband that has a good family background and is very serious about his commitments. It does take some adjustment especially if you are used to acting independently and used to taking care of things yourself. But finding your groove as a couple should not be too hard. There will be new responsibilities and schedules but you’ll soon find each other falling into a new routine. I really think you’ll both grow into it and enjoy it. I think your outlook is very open to it and I think even with the differences as compared to his parents, you will both have the same. Even with you working.

Thank you. I wouldn’t be the woman I am without her. She brought out the best in me. Future littles will be fine. He’s hands on. Yes, that’s her forte. She has me looking at digital fashion. You read that correctly! That’s the future we’re heading towards.

That’s a wonderful thing to hear someone say about their child. It’s often the opposite. People complaining about missed opportunities and experiences. You do not do that and I find that admirable. Digital fashion?? I must look that up!

I’m very domestic. More than I show. I’m glad you like the content and it helps you decompress. The threads are enjoyable. Good Vibes are my favorites and Love and Marriage is for couples and marriage minded singles. A lot of things I add there we don’t discuss. But they’re useful nonetheless.

The Prayer for Relaxation on the L&M thread would be helpful. You feel it immediately.

I love both threads. I’m sure you have many going to those threads. I’m planning on taking a breather with them after the doctor appointment today. Thanks for letting me vent a bit Bella. I don’t usually do that here but it has made me feel better.

God bless you!

bèlla · Sep 28, 2021

Michie said:
Yes I do not know their motivation but they seem clueless about most things. I just think his kids are very odd. Did not see anything of them for years unless they wanted something. I’d rather have a happy blended family but there are people out there that are addicted to drama and try to keep things stirred.

That’s a positive attitude. Many are less accommodating and make things difficult. Maybe time will humble them and they’ll realize the error of their ways. Sometimes loss is necessary to bring people to that point.

I pray for them but after my stepdad passes, I will not let them bully my mother. It’s going to be an experience but I do covet your prayers. You seem to have a gift in that area.

Thank you. I’m happy to pray for you both. Why would they bully your mother?

No homework is a blessing. How long does this schooling last?

I finish the pattern-making program next year. Then 3 years of fashion school plus two more for special programs if I go. I’d do them on the front end. Once I graduate I’ll work on a collection. Possibly through an incubator. It depends how the market looks.

That is nice that he is so supportive of you. It sounds like you all will make a great team and ease the burden for one another.

That’s honestly the tipping point. He’s a cheerleader. I’m always encouraging others and he does the same for me. That’s a first from the opposite sex. It isn’t limited to certain areas. He’s just enthused about my work as he is about my personal growth.

My husband’s parents were the same. Which gave my husband high expectations concerning marriage. But I think that is a good sign. I’d rather have a husband that has a good family background and is very serious about his commitments.

It’s a blessing and I want to see it that way. We both have close knit families. I look forward to gatherings and time together. You really can’t imagine it until you’re there. I didn’t have preconceived ideas of what marriage would be like. No Pinterest wedding boards. Maybe I’m a weirdo!

But finding your groove as a couple should not be too hard. There will be new responsibilities and schedules but you’ll soon find each other falling into a new routine. I really think you’ll both grow into it and enjoy it. I think your outlook is very open to it and I think even with the differences as compared to his parents, you will both have the same. Even with you working.

The shift is starting to happen. I mapped out my life and realized I had to be willing to set aside and create a new plan with him. There’s change on both sides and sacrifices. He’s looking at jobs overseas. The salaries are higher here and the cost of living is greater there.

I’m leaving that in God’s hands. We’ll work together eventually and he’s doing my channel. We’re both entrepreneurial but being home would drive him nuts. It doesn’t bother me. We’ll find a happy medium.

That’s a wonderful thing to hear someone say about their child. It’s often the opposite. People complaining about missed opportunities and experiences. You do not do that and I find that admirable. Digital fashion?? I must look that up!

I really enjoyed being a mom. We’ve grown together and seeing what’s become is satisfying. Nothing I do will ever compare. A few more won’t hurt. I’ll need vitamins!

I love both threads. I’m sure you have many going to those threads. I’m planning on taking a breather with them after the doctor appointment today. Thanks for letting me vent a bit Bella. I don’t usually do that here but it has made me feel better.

You’re welcome Michie. Any time.

timothyu · Sep 28, 2021

Nice to hear two people with problems like everyone else try and maintain a positive attitude in life, being in the world but not of it.

Michie · Sep 28, 2021

bèlla said:
That’s a positive attitude. Many are less accommodating and make things difficult. Maybe time will humble them and they’ll realize the error of their ways. Sometimes loss is necessary to bring people to that point.

Praying that their hearts are softened.

Thank you. I’m happy to pray for you both. Why would they bully your mother?

When their father says things he wants or does not want, they direct the blame to my mother. But you know Bella, that just goes to show how little they really know their father. Tom does not do anything he does not want to do. But instead of dealing with him, they lay blame on her. She has already promised to follow his final wishes. But I’m on guard about it because of past history.

I finish the pattern-making program next year. Then 3 years of fashion school plus two more for special programs if I go. I’d do them on the front end. Once I graduate I’ll work on a collection. Possibly through an incubator. It depends how the market looks.

That is a long time! I am interested in your brand when you launch it. I’m thinking it will be gorgeous as you tend to look at the vintage dress styles from different decades in the 20th century. I think a lot of those styles are timeless. I’m sure you will do contemporary as well but given your attitude and style, I imagine the brand could be very popular.

That’s honestly the tipping point. He’s a cheerleader. I’m always encouraging others and he does the same for me. That’s a first from the opposite sex. It isn’t limited to certain areas. He’s just enthused about my work as he is about my personal growth.

That is a wonderful quality to have. A lot of people have these separate visions and assumptions when it comes to marriage. The willingness to grow and expand with your spouse is extremely important.

It’s a blessing and I want to see it that way. We both have close knit families. I look forward to gatherings and time together. You really can’t imagine it until you’re there. I didn’t have preconceived ideas of what marriage would be like. No Pinterest wedding boards. Maybe I’m a weirdo!

Lol! You aren’t a weirdo. You are practical and know that the wedding can be nice, you are seeing the big picture. With things the way they are now, you may have to have something more intimate while holding a bigger celebration later. The regular gatherings throughout the year is really the glue that helps bond families. It will be nice to develop new traditions along with the existing ones. I know you’ll be right at home doing that as well.

The shift is starting to happen. I mapped out my life and realized I had to be willing to set aside and create a new plan with him. There’s change on both sides and sacrifices. He’s looking at jobs overseas. The salaries are higher here and the cost of living is greater there.

I’m leaving that in God’s hands. We’ll work together eventually and he’s doing my channel. We’re both entrepreneurial but being home would drive him nuts. It doesn’t bother me. We’ll find a happy medium.

I’m sure it will all work out. You are both very busy people and I doubt that leaves much time to feel neglected. Especially when both invest in quality time and communication. My impression is you both seem to be on the same page as it is right now.

I really enjoyed being a mom. We’ve grown together and seeing what’s become is satisfying. Nothing I do will ever compare. A few more won’t hurt. I’ll need vitamins!

I’m really excited for you. Sounds like such a wonderful time in your life.

You’re welcome Michie. Any time.

bèlla · Sep 28, 2021

Michie said:
Praying that their hearts are softened.

Love is the remedy for hardness. Pray love verses on their behalf. Not Lord make them. Affirm it instead. X is patient and kind.

When their father says things he wants or does not want, they direct the blame to my mother.

Pray against unforgiveness, bitterness, blame, slander, and resentment for each of them. Let the Lord fight your battle. His correction is best.

Start declaring peace and a smooth transition. Stand against anger and strife in your prayers.

That is a long time!

The pattern-making program was unexpected. I was taking class in person. The lockdown brought several things online. Including this one. I wanted to go but didn’t live in the area. The pandemic made it possible.

As a result, I’ll have more pattern-making training than most. Nearly 5 years. I’ll bring patterns to the market earlier than planned. Because of that, I’ll do a stint in tailoring. I don’t want to do men’s fashion but the disciplines are related. He loves suits and I’ll make his for him. I’m a lot cheaper!

I am interested in your brand when you launch it. I’m thinking it will be gorgeous as you tend to look at the vintage dress styles from different decades in the 20th century.

Thank you. Truthfully, most brands don’t make money on clothes. Chanel does. The majority earn the lion’s share from accessories. Including makeup and perfume. They’re less expensive. I don’t know if I want to do ready to wear. The cycle is grueling. There’s too many collections.

Fall/winter, resort, spring/summer, pre-fall, plus bridal, menswear, haute couture, and kids if you do them. All runway. That’s too much. Couture is the most creative and expensive. Bespoke is non runway.

You have to be very strategic about branding and pricing. I prefer bespoke and couture clients. For creative and ministry reasons. I might get into digital fashion. I could see that happening for the mainstream.

I think a lot of those styles are timeless. I’m sure you will do contemporary as well but given your attitude and style, I imagine the brand could be very popular.

I think outside the box. Digital assets are equally important with the increasing appeal of VR. That includes app development. Physically speaking, accessories, perfume, and home goods are equally appealing.

The upside of all of this is tenure. You can do it for a long time. Karl was 85. Ralph Lauren is 81. Thankfully, I don’t believe in retirement.

That is a wonderful quality to have. A lot of people have these separate visions and assumptions when it comes to marriage. The willingness to grow and expand with your spouse is extremely important.

I’ve seen that and it looks really odd. There’s another person involved who gets a vote. You can be wedded to fantasies and disappointed when reality strikes. I want to enjoy the moment and not get ahead of myself. There’s always the unexpected. Like children!

Between you and I, I have a slew of baby sewing patterns saved. I did it for a friend. She told me I’d have another two years ago. I laughed. Years ago I won 2 organic onesies. I was going to give them away. I think there’s caps too.

Lol! You aren’t a weirdo. You are practical and know that the wedding can be nice, you are seeing the big picture. With things the way they are now, you may have to have something more intimate while holding a bigger celebration later.

I want to elope and film it. I stumbled on a service that does everything for you. We can have a proper celebration later on. Planning two weddings is too much.

The regular gatherings throughout the year is really the glue that helps bond families. It will be nice to develop new traditions along with the existing ones. I know you’ll be right at home doing that as well.

We went to my grandparents growing up. But I’ll be in Martha mode. Having things at home and preparing the house is fun. I want to solidify traditions for us. Little Miss will be following suit. We’ll have lots of little people around.

I’m sure it will all work out. You are both very busy people and I doubt that leaves much time to feel neglected. Especially when both invest in quality time and communication. My impression is you both seem to be on the same page as it is right now.

He’s great with quality time. We had a nine hour phone call. I’ve never done that with a man. We talk for hours and get along well. Even when he’s out he’s in touch. If he’s riding I get pictures and his map. We’re foodies and share that. Videos and snapshots of things he sees and does. He’ll message me when he’s with the guys too. I’m spoiled in that regard.

This is a recent one. I love the hues. The church is in Sweden.

I’m really excited for you. Sounds like such a wonderful time in your life.

Thank you Michie for your kindness and encouragement.

Robban · Sep 29, 2021

A song,
playing on my mind, found it.

Paidiske · Sep 29, 2021

I am pondering the ways notions of purity drive unhealthy dynamics (exclusion, contempt, pride, shame, disgust, harshness, etc).

timothyu · Sep 29, 2021

Anyone who puts themselves in a box, be it a closed community or a way of belief/thinking, will shortly see all outside that box as some sort of enemy.

Michie · Sep 29, 2021

bèlla said:
Love is the remedy for hardness. Pray love verses on their behalf. Not Lord make them. Affirm it instead. X is patient and kind.

Pray against unforgiveness, bitterness, blame, slander, and resentment for each of them. Let the Lord fight your battle. His correction is best.

Start declaring peace and a smooth transition. Stand against anger and strife in your prayers.

The pattern-making program was unexpected. I was taking class in person. The lockdown brought several things online. Including this one. I wanted to go but didn’t live in the area. The pandemic made it possible.

As a result, I’ll have more pattern-making training than most. Nearly 5 years. I’ll bring patterns to the market earlier than planned. Because of that, I’ll do a stint in tailoring. I don’t want to do men’s fashion but the disciplines are related. He loves suits and I’ll make his for him. I’m a lot cheaper!

Thank you. Truthfully, most brands don’t make money on clothes. Chanel does. The majority earn the lion’s share from accessories. Including makeup and perfume. They’re less expensive. I don’t know if I want to do ready to wear. The cycle is grueling. There’s too many collections.

Fall/winter, resort, spring/summer, pre-fall, plus bridal, menswear, haute couture, and kids if you do them. All runway. That’s too much. Couture is the most creative and expensive. Bespoke is non runway.

You have to be very strategic about branding and pricing. I prefer bespoke and couture clients. For creative and ministry reasons. I might get into digital fashion. I could see that happening for the mainstream.

I think outside the box. Digital assets are equally important with the increasing appeal of VR. That includes app development. Physically speaking, accessories, perfume, and home goods are equally appealing.

The upside of all of this is tenure. You can do it for a long time. Karl was 85. Ralph Lauren is 81. Thankfully, I don’t believe in retirement.

I’ve seen that and it looks really odd. There’s another person involved who gets a vote. You can be wedded to fantasies and disappointed when reality strikes. I want to enjoy the moment and not get ahead of myself. There’s always the unexpected. Like children!

Between you and I, I have a slew of baby sewing patterns saved. I did it for a friend. She told me I’d have another two years ago. I laughed. Years ago I won 2 organic onesies. I was going to give them away. I think there’s caps too.

I want to elope and film it. I stumbled on a service that does everything for you. We can have a proper celebration later on. Planning two weddings is too much.

We went to my grandparents growing up. But I’ll be in Martha mode. Having things at home and preparing the house is fun. I want to solidify traditions for us. Little Miss will be following suit. We’ll have lots of little people around.

He’s great with quality time. We had a nine hour phone call. I’ve never done that with a man. We talk for hours and get along well. Even when he’s out he’s in touch. If he’s riding I get pictures and his map. We’re foodies and share that. Videos and snapshots of things he sees and does. He’ll message me when he’s with the guys too. I’m spoiled in that regard.

This is a recent one. I love the hues. The church is in Sweden.

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Thank you Michie for your kindness and encouragement.

Those pictures are beautiful!

Michie · Sep 30, 2021

@bèlla I thought you’d get a kick out of this. I’m thinking early 60s?

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bèlla · Sep 30, 2021

Michie said:
I thought you’d get a kick out of this. I’m thinking early 60s?

Very nice! Calls for flats or kitten heels.

Michie · Sep 30, 2021

bèlla said:
Very nice! Calls for flats or kitten heels.

I found a big swath of old fabric as well. Have no idea what to do with it. The furthest I got was aprons. I don’t know. I’ll take a pic and post it.

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