Hello Clare I know this was posted to someone else. Hope you do not mind me passing a few comments....
This teaching of lawlessness under the new covenant that many have been deceived into believing is unbiblical nonsense not supported by the scriptures.
According to the scriptures unless we are born again we cannot enter into the Kingdom of heaven *John 3:3-7. We need to be born again into Gods' new covenant promise *Hebrews 8:10-12 from Jeremiah 31:31-34 and Ezekiel 36:24-27. We need to be Born again according to John because we commit sin and we do not have the love of God in us (1 John 2:3-4; 1 John 3:6; John 5:42) and sin is defined as breaking anyone of God's 10 commandments (James 2:10-11; 1 John 3:4; Romans 7:7 and Romans 3:20).
According to the scriptures Love (the Spirit of the law from the heart) is not separate from God's law (10 commandments). Love is expressed in obedience to God' law resulting in the fulfilling of the letter of the law". Therefore ""Love is not separate from God's law it is expressed in obedience to God' law.
This is actually expressed in the very scriptures you provided in your post in Matthew 22:36-40 and Romans 13:8-10 and also in James 2:8-12 and in 1 John 5:2-3 as shown below...
Matthew 22:36-40 [36], Master, which is the great commandment in the law? [37], Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. [38], This is the first and great commandment. [39], And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. [40], ON THESE TWO COMMANDMENTS HANG ALL THE LAW AND THE PROPHETS.
Jesus is not saying that love is separate from God's law he is says that on these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets which is what Gods' Word says that are not my words but Gods' Word which have been simply repeated to you verbatim. Paul agrees with Jesus when he says...
Romans 13:8-10 [8], Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loves another hath fulfilled the law [past tense]. [9], FOR THIS (or what this means), THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY, THOU SHALT NOT KILL, THOU SHALT NOT STEAL, THOU SHALT NOT LIE, THOU SHALT NOT COVET; and IF THERE SHALL BE ANY OTHER COMMANDMENT, it is briefly
SUMMED UP IN THE SAYING, NAMELY THOU SHALT LOVE THY NEIGHBOR AS YOUR SELF. [10], Love works no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law [present tense active].
Paul is agreeing with Jesus and not saying that love is separate from God's law he is says that love is expressed in obedience to Gods law and says that if we love another we will obey those commandments in God's 10 commandments (letter of the law) that show us how we are to love our fellow man by quoting those commandments verbatim. Paul is showing that to love our neighbor as our self is simply summing up those commandments in God's law that show us how we are to love our fellow man. These once again are God's Word not my words which have only been repeated to you from the scriptures. James also agrees with Jesus and Paul where he says...
James 2:8-12 [8], If ye fulfill the royal law according to the scripture, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself, ye do well:[9], But if ye have respect to persons, YOU COMMIT SIN, AND ARE CONVINCED OF THE LAW AS TRANSGRESSORS. [10], For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all. [11] For he that said, DO NOT COMMIT ADULTERY, said also, DO NOT KILL. Now if thou commit NO ADULTERY, yet if thou KILL, YOU ARE BECOME A TRANSGRESSOR OF GOD'S LAW
James agrees with Jesus and Paul where he links loving our neighbor as our self to obedience to all those commandments in Gods 10 commandments (letter of the law) that show us our duty of love to our neighbor. Once again these are God's Word not my words which have only been repeated to you from the scriptures verbatim. John also agrees with Jesus Paul and James where he says...
1 John 5:2-3 [2], By this we know that we love the children of God, WHEN WE LOVE GOD,
AND KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS. [3], FOR THIS IS THE LOVE OF GOD, THAT WE KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS: and his commandments are not grievous.
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Jesus did not fulfill the law so that we no longer have to. Jesus fulfilled the law because he is our example and we are to follow him *1 Peter 2:21. He also kept the law perfectly to be Gods' sinless sacrifice for the sins of the world because the wages of sin is death to all those who reject the gift of God's dear son and count the blood of the covenant an unholy thing doing despite to the Spirit of God's Grace (Romans 6:23; Hebrews 10:26-31). If God's law in the new covenant is abolished than Jesus would not have had to die for our sins. This is a teaching of lawlessness (without law) and is a false teaching that has led many away from God and His Word. According to the scriptures without holiness (that comes from God - Philippines 2:13) no man can see God *Hebrews 12:14 and unless a man is born again into Gods' new covenant promise *Hebrews 8:10-12 from Jeremiah 31:31-34 and Ezekiel 36:24-27 he cannot see the Kingdom of Heaven. According to Jesus Gods' salvation is from sin *John 8:31-36 not a license to continue to live a life of known unrepentant sin. If we live a life of sin we are in danger of the judgement according to Paul in Hebrews 10:26-31 and the wages of sin is death *Romans 6:23.
Hope this is helpful