Teacher Resigns After Parent Complains Pride Flag Is "Personal Agenda"

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Oh, the disingenuous equivocation is palpable: the Confederate flag is associated with traitorous losers that tried to secede on the basis of wanting to retain slavery as a "right". The rainbow flag is about tolerance and accepting that there are people who don't fit into the comfortable box WASPs prefer so that they don't have to think about gender or sexuality in a critical way.

Nope.

These are symbols....whether Confederate flag or Pride flag. You don't get to decide what they mean for other people.

In removing one because it offends some....you open the door to remove the other.

You only have the left to blame here.
 
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I'd post a video of a gay pride parade, but it's not fit to be posted on this forum. There is no defense for that sort of behavior, no matter how you try to sugar coat it.
Children are not forced there and you don't get to decide what is in their best interests arbitrarily or with ignorance that assumes the children are going to be traumatized somehow. Sex negative, bigoted against sexual and gender minorities, virtue signaling, tone policing, the list goes on of how you keep digging a hole with this moralizing tripe.

You'd likely also flip your wig if a drag queen read to children, as if that's going to "indoctrinate" children. Except it really doesn't, drag queens are not sexual, much as you very likely believe them to be based on cherry picking.
 
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Short memory much?

This was followed by a series of articles in left wing rags about how the left doesn't need to tolerate or respect opposition.
And you proved my point by showing your confirmation bias, ignoring any consideration that people might not agree with that. A vocal minority does not necessarily represent the majority. And you consider yourself rational?
 
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Nope.

These are symbols....whether Confederate flag or Pride flag. You don't get to decide what they mean for other people.

In removing one because it offends some....you open the door to remove the other.

You only have the left to blame here.
And you don't get to arbitrarily act like they are equal: symbols have meanings that are more common, someone feeling otherwise doesn't invalidate the others, but they don't get to be treated as equal based on irrational and inaccurate Lost Cause of the Confederacy nonsense

It is not mere offense, it is damaging in the historical reality of what that flag represents, you can't conveniently ignore history because it doesn't suit you. And I'll be the first to admit there might be some ugly aspects of the early LGBTQ pride movement, that doesn't negate the positive contributions by the innate nature of accepting those that are sexual minorities that harm no one by merely being who they are.

But Confederacy advocates normalize slavery and marginalization of black people, that isn't comparable and the dishonesty with which you equivocate only shows how privileged you are to never have struggled as black people continue to against those who would make apologies for the Confederacy as if it was EVER good.

Except conservatives have responsibility in this as well by acting like a pride flag is even comparable to a Confederate flag in what it represents. Or are you conveniently ignoring how often that is a complaint from conservatives as relates to LGBTQ pride in any sense, even far more legitimate extracurricular groups? This isn't a left leaning only issue, this is you trying to be partisan and dishonestly ignore right wing reactionaries.
 
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I agree that the teacher isn't teaching them "to be gay" however, I think there shouldn't be anything displayed in a classroom that can't be completely discussed with the students. If a student asks a question about something they see in class the teacher should be able to honestly explain if they can't do that, for any reason, the item shouldn't be there. A gay pride flag is such an item.
The discussion of point was that the teacher was supportive of LGBTQ and would offer them support, but not necessarily in class when they were doing things unrelated to that. Same as my professors in college being a safe space for LGBTQ when they taught religious studies.

No, it really isn't, because this isn't like displaying a flag that creates a polarizing environment about American nationalist pride or notions about how the Confederacy was just about state rights.

A pride flag or BLM flag is advocating on behalf of a minority that is not harmful and is not suggesting that people who disagree don't matter or evangelizing on behalf of some idea that "liberals are bad and black people are overreacting". This white fragility, straight fragility, is pitiful to even hear people try to defend, because they aren't the victims here, they're making themselves victims because they don't feel like they're as important as they should be.

When LGBTQ and black people have been demonstrably marginalized, the flag's display is not controversial to voice that basic support rather than create needless boundaries as many other flags brought up explicitly do.
 
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And you apparently didn't read what I said: I didn't claim it didn't protect individual rights, I said it didn't give an ABSOLUTE right, major difference that you glossed over to claim I'm some gun control extremist.
You said "initially and primarily written with the intent of citizen militias" that isn't true, per SC ruling.
 
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You said "initially and primarily written with the intent of citizen militias" that isn't true, per SC ruling.
So the historical context and even explicit statement in the 2nd amendment that focuses on the militia is irrelevant? The SC wasn't undermining that point, it was BALANCING it with the idea that, yes, individuals have a right to bear arms.

And I wasn't debating that part either, if you'd read my statement carefully, because the latter is not an absolute right of an individual, same as a right to speech, religious exercise, press, etc. There are reasonable limitations on all of them, so it cannot be free for all, that's anarchy
 
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No one was claiming a pledge of allegiance was involved to the LGBTQ flag, that's a non sequitur and literally just making up something in the context that is not demonstrable.
That is, however, what reportedly happened when the student protested about the "rainbow" flag and no pledge of allegiance.
 
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Perhaps focusing on the free speech rights in the state in question might be a better starting point than invoking a state in an entirely different region.


The document dealt primarily with national level guidelines.

But here is similar content for Missouri educators from The Missouri State Teachers Association:

Free Speech Update

A relevant quote:

School districts have the authority to control course content and teaching methods. You are generally considered to speak for the school district when you are in your classroom. Therefore, your speech in the classroom does not have First Amendment protection. Political speech in the classroom should be limited to courses where politics and current events are part of the curriculum. In general, you should exercise caution not to appear as advocating a particular religious or political view in the classroom. “Speech” also applies to classroom decoration, posters or displays.

 
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According to the story in the OP, the problem wasn't actually the flag. It was originally permitted. When he was told to take it down he did. But in addition he was asked to sign a pledge never to mention sexuality. In context this isn't about sex education, which he didn't do. Rather, it was about mentioning his own orientation.

As a manager, I'm pretty sure I can't make up a policy for one individual. You have to treat people equally. If you are going to ban the teacher from mentioning that he is gay, you have to ban teachers from saying anything about or showing pictures of opposite-gender partners. He has appealed to the DOE Office of Civil Rights.

The state he is in has no anti-discrimination policy based on sexual orientation. However the Supreme Court interprets the Federal policy against sex discrimination in employment as covering orientation. One can only speculate how they will treat things like girl's sports. But this is employment. I would think the Office of Civil Rights would support the claim. It's a decade or two too late to be doing this kind of thing.
 
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According to the story in the OP, the problem wasn't actually the flag. It was originally permitted. When he was told to take it down he did. But in addition he was asked to sign a pledge never to mention sexuality. In context this isn't about sex education, which he didn't do. Rather, it was about mentioning his own orientation.

I agree with this. The flag was what initially set off the controversy, but the pledge was what led the teacher to resign, according to the articles. In my state (which prohibits discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation), it would probably be illegal to bar someone from mentioning that they're gay, if other workers are allowed to mention their spouses, wear wedding rings, and so on. But Missouri permits discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. I'm less sure what the federal policy is, and whether it applies in a Missouri public school. I guess we'll see how the case plays out.
 
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And you don't get to arbitrarily act like they are equal

They are only "not equal" because you choose what is offensive based on your idea of what is right and good, and what is wrong.

And that is something everyone has their own opinion on... if your free to display your opinion of something that's good, then others must be free to do the same whether you agree with them or not.

Otherwise, it's "freedom for me but not for thee".. which isn't freedom at all...
 
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If there wasn't a personal agenda behind the flag, the teacher wouldn't have quit.
Wallis, an openly gay man. That's not in denial or being secretive about it. It wasn't just the flag thing. Of course he would have issues with being told to sign a letter promising not to discuss sexuality or gender with students. This is also Junior High School teens should be able to ask a question about religion and are you gay . Even elementary It should be okay , if teacher talked to students about these things. If they were asked about such things. I don't care if teachers have religious stuff on their desk. As long as they don't force students to convert or pray. Or humiliate a student.
 
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That is, however, what reportedly happened when the student protested about the "rainbow" flag and no pledge of allegiance.
You mean this story barely tangentially linked?

"A high school teacher in California was removed from her classroom after a TikTok video of her joking about telling students they could pledge allegiance to the Pride flag went viral and angered parents and the conservative internet at large"

Because someone can't tell a joke and has to get all huffy when someone insults their little nationalist sentiments? Show that the school has anything like a pledge of allegiance before class and maybe we could talk about it, but this is someone making a mountain of a molehill
 
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It's not arbitrary....they are equal.

One is a flag, the other is a flag.

Anything beyond that is subjective.
So nothing has meaning now because you want to equivocate? Good to know you're so "objective" when it suits you and then no symbols have any kind of consistent meaning alongside variable ones. It's not either/or, you want to keep splitting, it just ends up showing confirmation bias on your part or, even more dishonest, both-sides-ing, as if the pride flag is regarded with the same notions as the modern revival of the Confederate flag in direct response to the black civil rights movement

So the American flag as we associate it is purely a subjective thing and someone else and just say it means something else? That's how your logic sounds in applying it to symbols and flags. Maybe want to rephrase that so it doesn't sound like you're going full relativist
 
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The document dealt primarily with national level guidelines.

But here is similar content for Missouri educators from The Missouri State Teachers Association:

Free Speech Update

A relevant quote:

School districts have the authority to control course content and teaching methods. You are generally considered to speak for the school district when you are in your classroom. Therefore, your speech in the classroom does not have First Amendment protection. Political speech in the classroom should be limited to courses where politics and current events are part of the curriculum. In general, you should exercise caution not to appear as advocating a particular religious or political view in the classroom. “Speech” also applies to classroom decoration, posters or displays.
So the school wants to just be "neutral" about acknowledging and supporting LGBTQ students? The problem therein is where students don't feel protected, accepted, or safe and the school is supposed to be concerned about their welfare.

It'd be little different if they just say, "Oh we want to protect black students, but BLM is 'controversial', so we'll just remove virtually any sense of acceptance and just leave them to the dogs," as if a free market solves all problems versus needing executive actions from an authority, like in the case of applying a policy with some nuance instead of zero tolerance, which can lead to the kind of legalistic tripe that harms students more than helps them

But when they pick and choose with regards to something people make political in a divisive sense rather than it being reflective of a political issue incidentally (as in it isn't a partisan thing, Log Cabin Republicans exist, it's not just for left leaning people), it doesn't send a good message about the idea that they have to maintain neutrality based on people's perceptions rather than the facts of the case on an individual basis.
 
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