DO LCMS PEOPLE SEE THEMSELVES AS "STANDOFFISH, MYSTERIOUS AND DON'T PLAY WELL WITH OTHERS"?

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I found this video online where LCMS Pastor Will Weedon and other LCMS members talk with a non-LCMS person who is a church historian/Christian. He gives his and others he has interviewed perspective of the LCMS church and it's members.

Please listen to PART 1 (and PART 2) of this video series at:

If you are a member of the LCMS church, what did you think of these videos?

Do you understand why non-LCMS Christians see you as hard to understand and relate to?

Thanks
 

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I am not LCMS but some of my best friends are, so that has never been my experience. No Holier than thou attitude. And having resigned from a ministerial position at a mainline congregational parish in a church that resulted from a merger of the Prussian reformed churches in America which broke away from the LCMS many years ago because I believe we should never put a comma where God intended a period (you can guess which denomination that was), I experienced plenty of Holier than Thou on my way out the door. I really should have gone with the LCMS, that was a bad career choice on my part...
 
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I don't believe the people who said they saw the LCMS people as standoffish, don't play well with others or mysterious were saying this in a disparaging way. They were just making an observation.

It seems obvious you did not listen to the videos I provided a link to. I suggest you do so, and you will better understand the reason for my question.

Thanks.
 
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I don't believe the people who said they saw the LCMS people as standoffish, don't play well with others or mysterious were saying this in a disparaging way. They were just making an observation.

It seems obvious you did not listen to the videos I provided a link to. I suggest you do so, and you will better understand the reason for my question.

Thanks.
The only people I hear that from are ELCA/ELCIC and their clergy; and certainly some of the other "Liberal" groups; but in their case, theologically and confessionally, the Word of God and the Holy Spirit compels us to be standoffish.
 
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The only people I hear that from are ELCA/ELCIC and their clergy; and certainly some of the other "Liberal" groups; but in their case, theologically and confessionally, the Word of God and the Holy Spirit compels us to be standoffish.

You know, there is that (herchurch and all) and also due to various autobiographical details I don’t want to get into, it kind of hurts me when people call the LCMS standoffish. I mean you’re certainly not, you are one nice outgoing Christian guy and my friendship with you and a few other members like Paidiske was by itself worth my joining ChristianForums.
 
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How do you witness/evangelize?

From what you are saying (that you are "required to be standoffish") it appears that Rev. Mark Wood, Director of LCMS Witness & Outreach Ministry - and the LCMS "Every One A Witness" program is a waste of time!!!

Not wishing to answer for Mark, but, wouldn’t it be grossly discourteous if members from one Lutheran denomination went to another Lutheran parish from a different Lutheran denomination to witness and evangelize?
 
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How do you witness/evangelize?

From what you are saying (that you are "required to be standoffish") it appears that Rev. Mark Wood, Director of LCMS Witness & Outreach Ministry - and the LCMS "Every One A Witness" program is a waste of time!!!

The reply of @MarkRohfrietsch is using some rhetoric ... or at least that's how I take it. I am from the LCMS, and this issue does come up from time to time. My impression is that it's said by people who don't like our firm stance on theology. Theology is not negotiable; we don't subscribe to the American mantra of "You do you" and "Live your truth". With that said, the LCMS I know will give the shirt off its back for those who are hurting, and welcomes everyone to join us.

The trite yet true phrase is that God loves you too much to leave you where you are.

Not wishing to answer for Mark, but, wouldn’t it be grossly discourteous if members from one Lutheran denomination went to another Lutheran parish from a different Lutheran denomination to witness and evangelize?

If they went to an actual service or Sunday school with the intention of arguing and telling them they're wrong, yes, that would be rude and very ineffective. But sharing what we believe with people who happen to attend other denominations is perfectly fine in other situations.
 
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The reply of @MarkRohfrietsch is using some rhetoric ... or at least that's how I take it. I am from the LCMS, and this issue does come up from time to time. My impression is that it's said by people who don't like our firm stance on theology. Theology is not negotiable; we don't subscribe to the American mantra of "You do you" and "Live your truth". With that said, the LCMS I know will give the shirt off its back for those who are hurting, and welcomes everyone to join us.

The trite yet true phrase is that God loves you too much to leave you where you are.



If they went to an actual service or Sunday school with the intention of arguing and telling them they're wrong, yes, that would be rude and very ineffective. But sharing what we believe with people who happen to attend other denominations is perfectly fine in other situations.

Absolutely. I feel the same way about doctrine as the LCMS and I have had throughout my life close connections with your church, because many of the Gassmanns were members, being German Americans of Prussian and Saxon descent, and some of the Swedish American members on my paternal grandmother’s side joined the LCMS in recent years because of changes in some former Augustana Synod parishes of the ELCA in recent years. They stuck it out through the “Green Book” phase, but the new hymnal and the new theology that started to really appear in 2006, the same year as your denomination produced the excellent Lutheran Service Book, caused increasing dismay, and while some of the Johnsons and Larsons are still in the ELCA, others have joined the LCMS, the NALC and WELS.

In fact, I love the LCMS so much, and agree with its essential doctrines to such a degree, that I have considered joining it several times in recent years; I want to see if my current missions pan out because given my background in the UCC and the seminary I attended, I would not be surprised if all things being equal, the LCMS refused me colloquy, and indeed, strictly speaking, given my resume, they should, because I spent most of my ministerial career working as a junior pastor in a denomination that is opposed to the good things LCMS stands for, and which supports those things the LCMS rightly opposes (albeit in the hope, as yet unrealized that the confessional movement in the UCC, which is a thing, but most have given up - it was much more of a thing in the 2000s, could make a difference and restore the doctrinal orthodoxy which the LCMS solidly has, to some of the oldest parishes in North America, although at the time I was also a 5-point Calvinist and since then I have moved on, influenced by Wesley, Luther and Melancthon, and also less well known figures including Archbishop Laud, Edward Pusey, Gregory Palamas, Athanasius of Alexandria, Soren Kierkegaard, Kallistos Ware, and, ironically, John Calvin himself).

And, insofar as the LCMS might not grant me colloquy based on my CV, I support them - this doctrinal firmness is why the LCMS is a pillar of stability and Lutheran Orthodoxy, and has inspired the Mission Province to attempt a reform of the Church of Sweden, and similar conservative movements in Norway and Finland and elsewhere in Europe.

What I don’t understand is why the ELCA, whose precursors, the LCA and ALC, were so close to the LCMS, at one time, became less standoffish if you will.

Because I think if the LCMS is standoffish, then we all should strive to be as standoffish as the LCMS.
 
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The reply of @MarkRohfrietsch is using some rhetoric ... or at least that's how I take it. I am from the LCMS, and this issue does come up from time to time. My impression is that it's said by people who don't like our firm stance on theology. Theology is not negotiable; we don't subscribe to the American mantra of "You do you" and "Live your truth". With that said, the LCMS I know will give the shirt off its back for those who are hurting, and welcomes everyone to join us.

The trite yet true phrase is that God loves you too much to leave you where you are.



If they went to an actual service or Sunday school with the intention of arguing and telling them they're wrong, yes, that would be rude and very ineffective. But sharing what we believe with people who happen to attend other denominations is perfectly fine in other situations.
Especially, if they ask.
 
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Absolutely.

What I don’t understand is why the ELCA, whose precursors, the LCA and ALC, were so close to the LCMS, at one time, became less standoffish if you will.

I would see if you could get this book by the belated Kurt Marquart, Anatomy of an Explosion: A Theological Analysis of the Missouri Synod Conflict.

This gets into the history of the JAO Preus and Seminex years of the 1960s and 70s.

The LCMS church I grew up in was a central player in this as one of our members was the attorney for the conservatives. I experienced the aftermath as I grew up in the late 70s and 80s.
 
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I would see if you could get this book by the belated Kurt Marquart, Anatomy of an Explosion: A Theological Analysis of the Missouri Synod Conflict.

This gets into the history of the JAO Preus and Seminex years of the 1960s and 70s.

The LCMS church I grew up in was a central player in this as one of our members was the attorney for the conservatives. I experienced the aftermath as I grew up in the late 70s and 80s.

I've dug around for resources on Seminex and didn't find much. Thanks, this sounds very interesting.
 
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I've dug around for resources on Seminex and didn't find much. Thanks, this sounds very interesting.

I imagine that finding free online resources is going to be difficult as a lot of the books are under copyright. FYI, a lot is going to be very biased in one direction or the other, so getting an objective point of view will be hard to find.
 
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I imagine that finding free online resources is going to be difficult as a lot of the books are under copyright. FYI, a lot is going to be very biased in one direction or the other, so getting an objective point of view will be hard to find.

It doesn't have to be free. I'll buy the book.

I understand about bias. Everything comes from a perspective. Thing is, Marquart comes from the LCMS seminary, so I would expect the book to present the LCMS view on the controversy. If you know of a resource that presents the opposing view, I'd be interested in that as well. Again, thanks very much for this. I didn't even know this book existed ... but then my experience is that most inside (and outside) the LCMS don't even know the controversy happened, so ...
 
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It doesn't have to be free. I'll buy the book.

I understand about bias. Everything comes from a perspective. Thing is, Marquart comes from the LCMS seminary, so I would expect the book to present the LCMS view on the controversy. If you know of a resource that presents the opposing view, I'd be interested in that as well. Again, thanks very much for this. I didn't even know this book existed ... but then my experience is that most inside (and outside) the LCMS don't even know the controversy happened, so ...

Seminex - Wikipedia

Mary Todd's book Authority Vested: A Story of Identity and Change in the Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod. would be from the opposing view as I recall.

I think all of the primary players are deceased now. Herman Otten died in 2019. Ralph Bohlmann died in 2016. I just found my own pastor's obituary from Nov 2020 (Memory Eternal!) and he would have been in the thick of things from the conservative side as he was ordained in 1966.
 
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Seminex - Wikipedia

Mary Todd's book Authority Vested: A Story of Identity and Change in the Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod. would be from the opposing view as I recall.

I think all of the primary players are deceased now. Herman Otten died in 2019. Ralph Bohlmann died in 2016. I just found my own pastor's obituary from Nov 2020 (Memory Eternal!) and he would have been in the thick of things from the conservative side as he was ordained in 1966.

Excellent. Thanks.

John Warwick Montgomery is still living, but he's 89 and hasn't lived in the States for quite some time.

One of my motivations for pursuing a degree in history was a second career working on the research staff of someone like Montgomery, but I don't think that's going to happen.
 
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I would see if you could get this book by the belated Kurt Marquart, Anatomy of an Explosion: A Theological Analysis of the Missouri Synod Conflict.

This gets into the history of the JAO Preus and Seminex years of the 1960s and 70s.

The LCMS church I grew up in was a central player in this as one of our members was the attorney for the conservatives. I experienced the aftermath as I grew up in the late 70s and 80s.
A bit later here in Canada; it took a few years for the liberal dregs to find their way north of the border; a few parishes are still recovering. I am not even kidding.

The worst were sucked up like a pool-pump by the then LCA, now ELCA; they are now reaping the fullness of the benefits.
 
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I don't believe the people who said they saw the LCMS people as standoffish, don't play well with others or mysterious were saying this in a disparaging way. They were just making an observation.

It seems obvious you did not listen to the videos I provided a link to. I suggest you do so, and you will better understand the reason for my question.

Thanks.
As a former Catholic, I think standoffish describes Catholics more than LCMS.
 
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I found this video online where LCMS Pastor Will Weedon and other LCMS members talk with a non-LCMS person who is a church historian/Christian. He gives his and others he has interviewed perspective of the LCMS church and it's members.

Please listen to PART 1 (and PART 2) of this video series at:

If you are a member of the LCMS church, what did you think of these videos?

Do you understand why non-LCMS Christians see you as hard to understand and relate to?

Thanks

I kinda see myself that way.
 
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