Actually, God did make promises to both Paul and Barnabas, but I digress...
Neither of whom missed anything promised to them.
I don't understand your reason for trying to exclude Barnabas from the "apostle" category. He was clearly called an "apostle", along with Paul in Acts 14:14. Different task given to each man, but both sent on a mission for God. Barnabas and Paul were not the only example of apostles besides "The Twelve". There were many, many more in those first-century years, with the Holy Spirit being "poured out on all people", according to the prophet Joel.
If the apostleship was only promised to a mere 12 individuals, that hardly equates to a "pouring out on all people", now does it?
The apostles were those
whom
Jesus chose (
Acts 1:2),
who exercised apostolic
authority (
Acts 5:2;
Acts 8:18),
those on whom the church was
founded (
Ephesians 2:20),
those whose names are on the 12 foundations of the
New Jerusalem (
Revelation 21:14),
those sitting on 12 thrones
judging the 12 tribes of Israel (
Matthew 19:28),
the 12 apostles of the Lamb (
Revelation 21:14).
Others, including Jesus himself (
Hebrews 3:1), are referred to as "apostles" in the sense of "one who is sent," not in the sense of the authoritative 12 and Paul who were chosen by Jesus.
Elsewhere they are referred to as
disciples, from whom Jesus chose 12 and designated as "apostles" (
Luke 6:13).
Jesus delegated apostolic authority to no other outside the 12 but Paul, making him an apostle as well (
Romans 1:1;
1 Corinthians 1:1;
Ephesians 1:1;
2 Timothy 1:1).
It seems that you are attempting to limit the "apostle" term solely to "The Twelve". Is it your intended motive to avoid the prospect of anyone today claiming the "apostle" title?
No, but that is a good question.
I am distinguishing for the sake of their authority as the foundation of the church. The church has only one foundation, and it's the 12.
They are in a class apart, founders and leaders, personally taught and trained by Jesus himself, not just part of the disciples.
This lumping them all together as one group, on the same footing, is not the Biblical view nor purpose of the 12.
Well, I also limit the "lay apostles" category to that first century, when those sign gifts of apostleship were given to establish and confirm the New Covenant. There is no need for these sign gifts of "apostleship" to keep confirming the inauguration of the New Covenant today, and therefore, the miraculous sign gifts of apostleship were phased out when the "shaking" process in the AD 70 era had done its work in getting rid of all the Old Covenant elements, leaving the unshaken New Covenant to stand alone.
That sounds quite plausible.
I would agree with you that "prophesying" or speaking a message in the assembly is not exercising authority over men. This would apply to both men and women doing this. CHRIST IS THE "HEAD OF ALL THINGS TO THE CHURCH" (Ephesians 1:22), not any man or woman in ministry, if you want to concentrate on who gets the "authority" in the church.
Yes, Christ is over all things, but he has appointed shepherds (evangelists, pastors and teachers) for the building up of the body of Christ.
You don't run all the daily operations from the Home Office.
It's been nice conversing with you on this. . .