I’m new here but interested in the discussion. I’m curious what some of your thoughts are on Genesis 24:16 regarding Rebekah.
16 The woman was very beautiful, a virgin; no man had ever slept with her.
Is this a statement of fact that she was indeed beautiful and a virgin? Or is it just an opinion of the author and may not be necessarily true.
Welcome to the forums KTJ... What does scripture say? It's important that we not read into scripture our own personal feelings, but rather allow God's Word to teach us His truth. Let's try to find the truth in God's Word...
The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7). Nothing in a person’s outward appearance impresses God. God looks upon the inner beauty, the beauty of one's heart.
There are numerous Biblical examples of people who were beautiful to God, virtually nothing is known about their physical appearance. It was not their physique or stateliness but their faith and service that made them beautiful. The same was true of God's beautiful women: Rahab, Hannah, Ruth, Deborah, and Mary of Bethany. Those noted for physical beauty were often great spiritual disappointments. Rebekah was "very beautiful" (Genesis 26:7), but she was also a deceiver and manipulator. Saul was a man of physical beauty, but his disobedience against God hurt the nation of Israel.
Peter directed Christian women to focus on the inner, spiritual qualities in order to be truly beautiful: "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight..." (1 Peter 3:3-5)
"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised." (Proverbs 31:30)
A gentle and quiet spirit is even more beautiful in God’s eyes.