Randy: "I don't know of a single Christian who doesn't lose his temper on occasion, who doesn't say something hurtful, who doesn't want to have his or her own way on occasion. In fact, I think these temptations and our concession to them are happening all the time, because it is in our nature."
Randy, here is a question for anyone reading this reply to your statements regarding Christianity, and Christ our Lord Jesus Christ.
Jesus told the men of this world ( worldly men) that they err ( greatly) not knowing the scriptures nor the power of God, and my question towards Randy is, how does he not err exactly the very same way in his above statement?
Matthew 22:29 Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God.
Randy says, a Christian who loses his temper on occasion ( they seem to all love using this term, such as a believer rarely, to sin on "occasion" as biblehighlighter expresses often) then when they lose their temper ( on occasion) they say something out of that temper/hurtful.
Now, first looking and remembering, ( as is right to do, remember the Lord God and His word of salvation) the example of Christ, Jesus being grieved for the hardness of peoples hearts was angry, but did not speak hurt ( because by the Spirit, God speaks the words of God, and man cant understand this)..
Mark 3:5 And when he had looked round about on them with anger, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts, he saith unto the man, Stretch forth thine hand. And he stretched it out: and his hand was restored whole as the other.
Into the verses we go, and the way to the Lord God ( to worship in His Spirit and His Truth) is to instead of being hasty, ( in anger) to wait patiently for Him, this then is to cease from anger, to forsake wrath, ( as the wrath of man works not the righteousness of God) then the man ( of God) needs to understand the way is to be swift to hear, but slow to speak and this is SLOW TO WRATH ( slow to anger)..
James 1:19 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:
20 For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.
Psalm 37:7 Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass.
8 Cease from anger, and forsake wrath: fret not thyself in any wise to do evil.
Then when wrath is forsaken from us, we get to know the Lord ( in Spirit and truth) how He is slow to anger, instead is greatly merciful, gracious, full of compassion, ( which we must be too when we put away anger) Then kindness reigns ( not anger any more reigning) and through the tender heart they forgive ( that is Gods slow to anger/wrath forgiveness, through grewat mercy and compassion instead)
Anger is put off, along with wrath ( or we do not put on the righteousness which is of God/put on Christ/ the bond of perfectness) but the new man is renewed in knowledge after the image of God who created us..
Psalm 103:8 The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy.
Psalm 145:8 The Lord is gracious, and full of compassion; slow to anger, and of great mercy.
Ephesians 4:31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Colossians 3:8 But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.
9 Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds;
10 And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him:
The deceivers may think only God can be perfect, and only God can be all of the things told to us, slow to anger, slow to wrath ?
The wrathful man is strifeful, but the ones slow to anger appease strife ( are the blessed peace makers)
The ones slow to anger are better than the mighty as they rule their spirit, unlike those who do not have any rule over their spirit, they are broken down, but as the Epistles reveals/confirms, some have POWER OVER THEIR OWN WILL..
Proverbs 15:18 A wrathful man stirreth up strife: but he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife.
Proverbs 16:32 He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.
Proverbs 25:28 He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.
1 Corinthians 7:37 Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well.
Continuing on, of all man errs from, discretion shall preserve us, understanding shall keep us, when wisdom enters our heart ( Christ is wisdom ) and delivers us from the evil man, they speak froward things, they leave the path of uprightness, to walk in darkness and then rejoice to do evil, as their ways are crooked ( of the crooked serpent their father) and the knowledge ( of Christ/salvation) delivers us from the flatterers.
Discretion of a man defers his anger ( slow to anger slow o wrath to avoid the wrath/ judgment of God) and it is glory to him, to escape the fear of a king ( the King) who on judgment day is as a roaring lion, and who provokes Him to anger sins against their own soul...
Proverbs 2:10 When wisdom entereth into thine heart, and knowledge is pleasant unto thy soul;
11 Discretion shall preserve thee, understanding shall keep thee:
12 To deliver thee from the way of the evil man, from the man that speaketh froward things;
13 Who leave the paths of uprightness, to walk in the ways of darkness;
14 Who rejoice to do evil, and delight in the frowardness of the wicked;
15 Whose ways are crooked, and they froward in their paths:
16 To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth with her words;
Proverbs 19:11 The discretion of a man deferreth his anger; and it is his glory to pass over a transgression.
Proverbs 20:2 The fear of a king is as the roaring of a lion: whoso provoketh him to anger sinneth against his own soul.
Hebrews 10:31 It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God
Wrath is cruel, anger is outrageous ( Randy excused them both to be unavoidable by all ones he ever knew)
But anger rests in the bosom of fools, and we should not be hasty in our spirit to be angry ( required to be of Gods Spirit, renewed in the spirit of our mind, which is then slow to anger, slow to wrath to be the righteousness which is of God)
Proverbs 27:4 Wrath is cruel, and anger is outrageous; but who is able to stand before envy?
Ecclesiastes 7:9 Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools.
These are just supporting verses, about patience ( and not anger and wrath) and the trying of our faith is that patience ( to not allow anger, or we follow the many who are not chosen on the wide path to destruction) and patience has her perfect work then ( in us)
An example of the just not returning evil for evil but good, is, the just when condemned do not resist ( the evil )
Above it mentioned to cease from anger, this is also to cease from sin, ( the sinless perfectionism they hate and do not follow at all )..
James 1:3 Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience.
4 But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.
James 5:6 Ye have condemned and killed the just; and he doth not resist you.
1 Peter 4:1 Forasmuch then as Christ hath suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves likewise with the same mind: for he that hath suffered in the flesh hath ceased from sin;
2 That he no longer should live the rest of his time in the flesh to the lusts of men, but to the will of God.
Randy: "There is no room for two paths to God--only Christ is the path that both overcomes sin and overcomes judgment, as well. Please don't stress over your humanness, over your flaws. You're not going to have a perfectly loving attitude 100% of the time.
But you can choose a path that is willing to be corrected in each and every occasion that sin rears its ugly head. Christ is that way. Christ is our perfection. And following him is the way that we "perfect ourselves."
Speaking of a perfectly loving attitude, then we should see how love works, and what love does, when it does work ?
Love ( of Christ in us) works no ill, and fulfils all of those commandments which do work ill against our neighbour, by us being a transgressor/ law of God breaker, which is, the defiled, for thiefs, for liars, all that is against the sound doctrine of the glorious Gospel of Christ, then the works of darkness are cast off, to put on Christ, without strife and envying ( which is their dishonesty) by them still making provision ( in their doctrine and lifestyle/belief) to FULFIL THE LUSTS OF THE FLESH, instead of fulfil the law of love ( the law of Christ)..
Romans 13:8 Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.
9 For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, Thou shalt not covet; and if there be any other commandment, it is briefly comprehended in this saying, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
10 Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
11 And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed.
12 The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armour of light.
13 Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying.
14 But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof.
1 Timothy 1:10 For whoremongers, for them that defile themselves with mankind, for menstealers, for liars, for perjured persons, and if there be any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine;
11 According to the glorious gospel of the blessed God, which was committed to my trust.
Now then the feast is kept in a different way, with sincerity and truth, no longer malice and wickedness, as the coveteous and fornicators, are not the unbelievers, the believers are also, fornicating and are coveteous ( they then are the same wicked person)..
1 Corinthians 5:8 Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.
9 I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators:
10 Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world.
11 But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolator, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.
12 For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within?
13 But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person.