To the people discussing here with their own thoughts, ideas and opinions, it is exactly all you will have to answer with on judgement day, ( very soon) and do you have that much hope in your answers to God when your knee is bent, that He will let you stand again ?
Get some guidelines, know the full substance, and stop having differing conflicting opinions, it is your own soul you are throwing away, not anyone else's by not ceasing the strife, and instead of loving by "words" love by stopping that and begin deeds.
Speaking of love by deeds, do you think your soul will have an excuse that you are unaware/denying/hoping, that Apostle Paul was not chosen by God to be an example of turning from being the chief of sinners, to defend the faith he once destroyed?
Paul does not speak the words of God and not do them, he said hem and did them exactly. Have some stability in your minds sometime.
Read, Paul walked in the love of Christ now, and for that, did not do the ill that hurt others ( any more) because now was given to know by seeing the Holy one and Him being in us and one with us, that love ( who is God in us) of course works no ill through us to our neighbour, what nonsense to think we fail to love our neighbour as ourselves..
Romans 13:8 Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.
9 For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, Thou shalt not covet; and if there be any other commandment, it is briefly comprehended in this saying, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
10 Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
The first example of failure of Israel, is as told, them unable to continue in the covenant of God, so they and that, are disregarded, now all is different ( even if you deny, skip around and resist) that the unloving heart of stone is removed, that the mind that had no law in it is replaced, by the mind of Christ being your mind now, by the spirit of disobedience in all, Ephesians 2:2, being the Spirit of Christ ( Christ was obedient unto death) and on top of that, you no longer live in the flesh to the previous lusts of men, you now live to the will of God ( His will being your sanctification and knowing how to possess our vessel in honour and not in the lust as the Gentiles, which through that, know not God. Now stop teaching one another, you are testified to be teaching nothing as told, or ignore every word until you cannot..
Hebrews 8:9 Not according to the covenant that I made with their fathers in the day when I took them by the hand to lead them out of the land of Egypt; because they continued not in my covenant, and I regarded them not, saith the Lord.
10 For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, saith the Lord; I will put my laws into their mind, and write them in their hearts: and I will be to them a God, and they shall be to me a people:
11 And they shall not teach every man his neighbour, and every man his brother, saying, Know the Lord: for all shall know me, from the least to the greatest.
Ezekiel 11:19 And I will give them one heart, and I will put a new spirit within you; and I will take the stony heart out of their flesh, and will give them an heart of flesh:
20 That they may walk in my statutes, and keep mine ordinances, and do them: and they shall be my people, and I will be their God.
21 But as for them whose heart walketh after the heart of their detestable things and their abominations, I will recompense their way upon their own heads, saith the Lord God.
Ezekiel 36:25 Then will I sprinkle clean water upon you, and ye shall be clean: from all your filthiness, and from all your idols, will I cleanse you.
26 A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh.
27 And I will put my spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes, and ye shall keep my judgments, and do them.
1 Peter 4:1 Forasmuch then as Christ hath suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves likewise with the same mind: for he that hath suffered in the flesh hath ceased from sin;
2 That he no longer should live the rest of his time in the flesh to the lusts of men, but to the will of God.
1 Corinthians 2:16 For who hath known the mind of the Lord, that he may instruct him? but we have the mind of Christ.
1 Thessalonians 4:3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
4 That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour;
5 Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God:
6 That no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified.
7 For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness.
8 He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.
Philippians 2:8 And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.
No offence:
Philippians 1:10 That ye may approve things that are excellent; that ye may be sincere and without offence till the day of Christ.
1 Corinthians 10:32 Give none offence, neither to the Jews, nor to the Gentiles, nor to the church of God:
Acts 24:16 And herein do I exercise myself, to have always a conscience void to offence toward God, and toward men.