You're kicking a dead horse, since you ask a question and make statements that have been answered long ago.
Answered in this thread?
My impression, based on what I've read in this thread, is that God sends miscarriaged babies to hell because they are under the sin of Adam. And I'm not making this up. If you would like to set the record straight for Calvinism, please do.
I wanted to add another consideration:
Jesus heals the cripple.
Mathew chapter 9.
Bible Gateway passage: Matthew 9 - Contemporary English Version
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When Jesus saw how much faith they had, he said to the crippled man, “My friend, don’t worry! Your sins are forgiven.” Mathew 9:2
Jesus saved this man's soul right there on the spot. When Jesus saw, then Jesus saved. Just as Jesus healed the paralyzed right there on the spot, so too did He save. The salvation of these figures in scripture has wasn't pre destined.
Matthew 15:29, Jesus heals the many. But what would it mean if of the many, only an elect few were exempt from eternal hellfire? Did Jesus selectively only heal those who predestined to save? No. People called upon His name, had faith in Him, and then He saved.
Jesus often used the line "follow me".
“If you would be perfect, go, sell what you possess and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.” Mathew 19:21
Jesus didn't say, only some of you follow me because only some of you are of my elected.
“If
anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me." Mathew 16:24
We never hear about someone choosing to give up their riches and possessions, choosing to follow Jesus, and then Jesus saying "sorry, you didn't make the cut and will be punished".
"Whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." John 3:16
It isn't "10% of whoever believes in Him shall have eternal life" nor is it "some of whoever believes in Him shall have eternal damnation".
When Jesus says "follow me", he's not picking 1 or 2 people out of the crowd and ignoring the rest.
"My brethren, if
any among you strays from the truth and one turns him back, let him know that
he who turns a sinner (which a chosen/free willed action, a verb, to turn) from the error of his way will save his soul from death" James 5:19.
Jesus didn't say "let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will have no role in his salvation because it's already predestined".
Jesus doesn't say "let him know that when I turn a sinner". No. People are choosing and acting and doing things that play a role in God's selection for salvation. Which ultimately boils down to a free will to "follow Him".
One could also wonder, if a man was already predestined to be saved, why Jesus would even go out of His way to discuss the value of others choosing to take action to turn people away from sin. Even though such a choice would allegedly have no bearing on whether or not they themselves would be saved. "Save their soul, but such an act and obedience will not actually be taken into account with respect to your own salvation".
So this person who puts his faith and trust in Jesus Christ then chooses and acts to turn another person away from sin. Then upon judgement day God simply informs the individual that he wasnt elected and predestined for heaven, but rather was elected for punishment and that's that. The logical issues that come with this philosophy are many.
We could go on and on.
The idea of Jesus electing those who will be saved and by default electing those who will be damned, before they are even born and regardless of any choice or action they make in life, runs utterly contrary to the character of Jesus. And it's written all over scripture. The idea that only an elect "remnant" or few are saved and the majority are otherwise elected for hellfire almost sounds like "partial salvation" where even those who put faith in Christ, in some instances are punished in hell because they weren't pre selected.
Maybe in some instances there is predestination, but this couldn't be a rule that always applies.