Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (59)

GospelS · Jul 24, 2021

.Mikha'el. said:
Same one as always. I do need to find someone else because she's not interested.

I wish you tell me who that is.

.Mikha'el. · Jul 24, 2021

GospelS said:
I wish you tell me who that is.

I can PM you if you want. Don't worry, it's not you. :hug:

GospelS · Jul 24, 2021

.Mikha'el. said:
I can PM you if you want. Don't worry, it's not you.

Oh! Please do.

I knew it wasn't me.

Sketcher · Jul 24, 2021

MehGuy said:
Did I also mention we have a trans-woman at work who constantly checks me out? Lol.

I'm not sure what the ratio of transwomen to women is at my office, but I'm guessing at least 30% are trans.

It makes a lot of guys more vigilant.

MehGuy · Jul 24, 2021

Sketcher said:
I'm not sure what the ratio of transwomen to women is at my office, but I'm guessing at least 30% are trans.

It makes a lot of guys more vigilant.

Are you being serious? Why would that be?

Sketcher · Jul 24, 2021

MehGuy said:
Are you being serious? Why would that be?

The ratio of men to women in my field of interest is lopsided, so there aren't very many women to begin with. Several men transitioned during their tenures as well.

What makes it worse is the women who are smart enough to work for us know what they're getting into and they aren't interested in flaunting what they've got. Some of the transwomen, not so much.

MehGuy · Jul 24, 2021

Sketcher said:
The ratio of men to women in my field of interest is lopsided, so there aren't very many women to begin with. Several men transitioned during their tenures as well.

What makes it worse is the women who are smart enough to work for us know what they're getting into and they aren't interested in flaunting what they've got. Some of the transwomen, not so much.

Interesting. I guess they like to flaunt it because they want to entice other men in order to feel feminine. Of course I'm probably a bigot for admitting that this makes me uncomfortable at work.

Sketcher · Jul 24, 2021

MehGuy said:
Interesting. I guess they like to flaunt it because they want to entice other men in order to feel feminine. Of course I'm probably a bigot for admitting that this makes me uncomfortable at work.

No judgment here, one of the immodest ones had a desk by the water cooler, and would take the stairs while wearing short dresses. One of the perks of working from home is I don't have to see that anymore.

I'm not exactly sure why those who like to flaunt it do. Perhaps because expressing themselves in this way is new to them. Perhaps it's to show off their feminine "progress". Perhaps it's something else. Either way, it's not a conversation that I am going to start.

DragonFox91 · Jul 26, 2021

Her sisters definitely still go to my parents church....

.Mikha'el. · Jul 26, 2021

DragonFox91 said:
Her sisters definitely still go to my parents church....

I thought you'd given up on that?

DragonFox91 · Jul 26, 2021

.Mikha'el. said:
I thought you'd given up on that?

I did, but I don't know who else.

SarahsKnight · Jul 26, 2021

.Mikha'el. said:
I thought you'd given up on that?

Even if the one girl you did have a crush on is truly unavailable, why give up entirely when there are gorgeous sisters of hers still around?
:idea1:

DragonFox91 · Jul 28, 2021

Listening to the sermon online - Her family name-dropped on 2 separate occasions. Not sure why they haven't been there, but apparently they haven't cut ties w/ the church (which is what I was afraid of; the pastor had mentioned a lot of people were disappointed w/ how the church had handled COVID & wouldn't come back).........