- Dec 23, 2016
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I can't possibly be the only guy like this.
I am a pretty quiet, reserved sort. I write a lot, but I don't really talk much. And when I do, it's straight to the point, I make my point, I move on.
I am also a technical professional that is working at home due to the pandemic, and I NEED time where I can continue studying to hone my craft as it were. (I work in IT, and need to stay on top of new releases, and technologies).
Here's the problem. My wife, wants to converse with me, from the moment she opens her eyelids, to the time she falls down from absolute exhaustion. Irrespective of what I am needing to do, or even my need for sleep etc...
And she goes over the same subject repeatedly. We should do blah in the kitchen. Then 5 minutes later, we should do blah in the kitchen, then 5 minutes later. lather rinse and repeat.
This whole process has left me feeling VERY disrespected, and honestly, physically, emotionally, and spiritually exhausted. And my responses to this behavior are honestly getting far too terse for me to be happy with, and I know she can't be happy about it.
Aside from praying my heart out, is there anything I can do to curb this behavior?
This is interfereing with my studies, my work, and my sleep. And if truth be told, leaving me with uh... less than optimal desires for my wifes affections.
Help!
I am a pretty quiet, reserved sort. I write a lot, but I don't really talk much. And when I do, it's straight to the point, I make my point, I move on.
I am also a technical professional that is working at home due to the pandemic, and I NEED time where I can continue studying to hone my craft as it were. (I work in IT, and need to stay on top of new releases, and technologies).
Here's the problem. My wife, wants to converse with me, from the moment she opens her eyelids, to the time she falls down from absolute exhaustion. Irrespective of what I am needing to do, or even my need for sleep etc...
And she goes over the same subject repeatedly. We should do blah in the kitchen. Then 5 minutes later, we should do blah in the kitchen, then 5 minutes later. lather rinse and repeat.
This whole process has left me feeling VERY disrespected, and honestly, physically, emotionally, and spiritually exhausted. And my responses to this behavior are honestly getting far too terse for me to be happy with, and I know she can't be happy about it.
Aside from praying my heart out, is there anything I can do to curb this behavior?
This is interfereing with my studies, my work, and my sleep. And if truth be told, leaving me with uh... less than optimal desires for my wifes affections.
Help!