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Yeah, I dunno, it's just what came to mind when I read your posts about music, as I sit here at Denny's...waking up over coffee...about to tear into two pancakes, two eggs, two turkey bacons, and hash browns...!

When the Lord called me to fashion I spent a lot of time contemplating why I was the best fit for the job. How have my experiences prepared me for the mission and the people I'm meant to address. I found a lot of answers in my upbringing. It was the training ground for today. Although I lacked the technical skills I was conversant in the things that count.

Some may look askance at my behavior or interests. But they're not heading where I am. It matters not if others understand me. What matters most are the results. Did I get the job done?

That was the underlying message for my response. Your music may not be someone's cup of tea. But it could be an important factor for the ones you're called to serve. And it has a purpose.

Oh yeah, this post also....

Just seems like your words are more flowery of late, which you know I enjoy!

I was thinking of a poem I read about letting go. It describes a person who clutches a rose firmly in their hand and it withers. When they open their palm all that remains are broken petals. The bud is no more.

My vernacular is shifting for several reasons. I'm moving towards the standard the Lord imparted a few years ago and writing from that place. I feel a greater sense of settledness. I'm further along in my studies and doing the things I love.

I wouldn't call my writing flowery per se, but I'll acknowledge my digestion has a influence. If you look at the things I post on my thread you're seeing what I consume. Minus The Handmaid's Tale of course. But outside of that, the things I read and listen to are edifying. I'm being educated, uplifted, or inspired. That produces a different verbiage.

I don't follow the news, politics, engage in debates or topics that weigh down my spirit. Instead of dwelling on the negative I'm looking for fountain pens to practice my lettering. Or learning a technique that enhances my work or home life. I don't want to be inundated with the muck and I avoid it.

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.
 
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Only thing I can really hope is that the depression exhausts itself. Although I've also read that depression literally changes the brain structure. So yeah.. I'm probably in permanent trouble.
I've often heard of brains becoming 're-wired'. Perhaps the most obvious example is how narcotics 're-wire' the brain to create addiction. However, I think the possibility of a connection between gut health and depression is potentially much more interesting.

Evidence mounts that gut bacteria can influence mood, prevent depression

Possibly, if you eat foods that support the right kind of bacteria, then you could lift your mood. Maybe more live yogurts, and more green vegetables.
 
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I can confirm, anecdotally, that proper diet has a major influence on mental health. For me, excessive carbohydrates and fatty proteins lead to lethargy and depressed mood, while lean proteins like chicken and fish and abundant vegetables (raw or steamed), and adequate live cultured foods (kefir is my go-to cuz' I like the taste) lead to better sleep and overall improved and more stable moods.

My $0.02
 
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I've often heard of brains becoming 're-wired'. Perhaps the most obvious example is how narcotics 're-wire' the brain to create addiction. However, I think the possibility of a connection between gut health and depression is potentially much more interesting.

Evidence mounts that gut bacteria can influence mood, prevent depression

Possibly, if you eat foods that support the right kind of bacteria, then you could lift your mood. Maybe more live yogurts, and more green vegetables.

Mine is not gut health.. the depression came about for sensible reasons in response to life circumstances.
 
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When the Lord called me to fashion I spent a lot of time contemplating why I was the best fit for the job. How have my experiences prepared me for the mission and the people I'm meant to address. I found a lot of answers in my upbringing. It was the training ground for today. Although I lacked the technical skills I was conversant in the things that count.

Some may look askance at my behavior or interests. But they're not heading where I am. It matters not if others understand me. What matters most are the results. Did I get the job done?

That was the underlying message for my response. Your music may not be someone's cup of tea. But it could be an important factor for the ones you're called to serve. And it has a purpose.



I was thinking of a poem I read about letting go. It describes a person who clutches a rose firmly in their hand and it withers. When they open their palm all that remains are broken petals. The bud is no more.

My vernacular is shifting for several reasons. I'm moving towards the standard the Lord imparted a few years ago and writing from that place. I feel a greater sense of settledness. I'm further along in my studies and doing the things I love.

I wouldn't call my writing flowery per se, but I'll acknowledge my digestion has a influence. If you look at the things I post on my thread you're seeing what I consume. Minus The Handmaid's Tale of course. But outside of that, the things I read and listen to are edifying. I'm being educated, uplifted, or inspired. That produces a different verbiage.

I don't follow the news, politics, engage in debates or topics that weigh down my spirit. Instead of dwelling on the negative I'm looking for fountain pens to practice my lettering. Or learning a technique that enhances my work or home life. I don't want to be inundated with the muck and I avoid it.

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.


Nice, so what is key... relationships?

And you believe that people in the past had it right, or the most proper I should say?
 
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Nice, so what is key... relationships?

Obedience. We can't please man and God. They have an agenda. Sometimes it conflicts with His directives. We must determine the winner and stay the course.

And you believe that people in the past had it right, or the most proper I should say?

We have to weigh advances in their proper light. Some are beneficial and others are less helpful. It all depends on how you use them.

I’m drawn to early periods. Most of my interests are old fashioned. I’m not oblivious to culture but in my private life I want something different. Creating it is satisfying. But that isn’t for everyone. You have to find what resonates and honor it.
 
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Spotted on Tumblr. :scratch:

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Actually, that's .... pretty spot on. That's literally what the song was about, wasn't it?



My thanks, by the way, to everyone who prayed for me concerning my occasional unpleasant forks in the road while at my current work environment and profession. It appears everything is okay (otherwise I surely would have seen some trouble the moment I set foot into work the very next day).
 
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Romance is good. Squishy isn’t. That song is squishy. Just ask for her number. :cool:
I would be highly unlikely to ask for someone's number after a single, very brief encounter. But I might try and talk to them, especially if I'd seen them more than once. And I'd take note of any little clues that indicate what they enjoy. For example, if they're reading a book, what kind of book is it? Or if they have sports equipment with them, what sport is it for?

And these days, there is a lot of talk about 'toxic masculinity'. In the current climate it's quite easy to end up being vilified for taking an interest in a woman and approaching her. What do you think of the florist guy in this video?


I'm sure some would consider him to be a sweet romantic. Whereas people who are woke and feminist may well regard him as an example of toxic masculinity. Maybe it's different in America. I've heard that in America it's normal to be much more forward than it is in Britain.

And I'm reminded of an old joke, which goes something like this:
Question: What's the difference between a welcome approach from a guy, and a creepy stalker?
Answer: About $10,000,000 and a young fit body.

Certainly that Fifty Shades rubbish would never have been so popular if Christian Grey was an out of shape guy in his late 50s living on a trailer park. LOL!
 
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I would be highly unlikely to ask for someone's number after a single, very brief encounter. But I might try and talk to them, especially if I'd seen them more than once. And I'd take note of any little clues that indicate what they enjoy. For example, if they're reading a book, what kind of book is it? Or if they have sports equipment with them, what sport is it for?

I'd rather express my interest and fail than never speak up. They may be thinking the same. Who knows.

What do you think of the florist guy in this video?

I don't have an opinion. I've never been well acquainted with a shy man. But I imagine that's how it is for some.

Maybe it's different in America. I've heard that in America it's normal to be much more forward than it is in Britain.

I don't like innuendo. It's too easy to misinterpret their intentions. Which leads to speculation and endless rounds of what does he mean?

Certainly that Fifty Shades rubbish would never have been so popular if Christian Grey was an out of shape guy in his late 50s living on a trailer park. LOL!

I think the series reveals a woman's willingness to put up with challenges if most of her needs are met. He had problems but he was in a position to solve them. That's the difference.
 
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Sometimes I wonder if people understand what the last days implies. I see the term thrown around on the site a lot. "We're in the last days..."

Without fail, there's a continuum of complaint, sorrow, and disappointment for the consequences of its presence. Especially from the ones who say it.

Last days doesn't mean business as usual. It doesn't mean having what momma and daddy had. It means less.

Less marriage...togetherness...families...and so on. It means understanding the fact you won't get everything you want. Because things have changed.

There comes a point when you have to accept you were called for this time. Not one hundred years ago when picket fences were plentiful.

You don't choose your cross. He does. Bear it with grace.
 
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What is on my mind?

I was thinking about BTS. This is them: BTS - Wikipedia

They are a Korean pop group composed of 7 male members and I was just thinking how their leader, RM, said he was an atheist. And I was shaking my head because he has no faith and I was wondering how I could convince him to come to the faith. My witnessing skills are very poor. I don't think I could lead that guy to the LORD even if I tried. The fact that he is a superstar celebrity doesn't help either. :( I risk getting hurt and discriminated against by his fans because I'm a Christian.
 
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Hi Bella. I have been guilty of saying, "These are the last days" as well, in fact, MANY TIMES. But I am just referring to the fact that life is terrible sometimes.

That's understandable. :)
 
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Sometimes I wonder if people understand what the last days implies. I see the term thrown around on the site a lot. "We're in the last days..."

Everyone wants to be a prophet.

On other matters, I'm behind (as usual) on replying to posts. It's my fault entirely; I post in several forums, receive several notifications and "quotes" and inevitably things get lost in the shuffle.

I need to be a bit more selective I think.
 
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Obedience. We can't please man and God. They have an agenda. Sometimes it conflicts with His directives. We must determine the winner and stay the course.



We have to weigh advances in their proper light. Some are beneficial and others are less helpful. It all depends on how you use them.

I’m drawn to early periods. Most of my interests are old fashioned. I’m not oblivious to culture but in my private life I want something different. Creating it is satisfying. But that isn’t for everyone. You have to find what resonates and honor it.

Yeah, it feels like some shift is taking place...like society is splitting along some seam, like tectonic plates...

Some attempting to make the hyper jump to a neo space age, and others reaching back to being more connected to the land.

I guess this is what people are bound to do with their own understanding and strength.

I tend towards minimalism. I like the idea of having a slice of land somewhere and living sustainably on it, and also being highly mobile.

I also know that in Him is the proper balance...the union of heaven and earth.
 
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