The Love Motive: Where Obedience Starts.

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The story of Christ saying to people before him at the Final Judgment, "Depart from me. I never knew you," is well-known among Christians (Matthew 7:21-23), sometimes offered as a chilling threat from the pulpit, in tandem with exhortations to live righteous lives, to "do the will of the Father in heaven." The result is a sort of "do it or else" teaching, a doctrine of fear, really, that frightens believers into short-lived periods of terrified obedience to God. These days, there are many believers laboring under a constant burden of anxiety, afraid of a wide variety of things, among them the fear of straying to the cliff's edge of disobedience to God and falling off of it into eternal damnation. But is this what Jesus was teaching in Matthew 7:21-23? Was he teaching that a truly born-again Christian could be surprised at the Final Judgment with the news they had become a stranger to Christ?

Here's the story in its immediate context:

Matthew 7:15-27
15 “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves.
16 You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles?
17 So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit.
18 A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit.
19 Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.
20 Thus you will recognize them by their fruits.

21 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.
22 On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’
23 And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’

24 “Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock.
25 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock.
26 And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand.
27 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it.”


Verses 15-20 emphasize how the "fruit" of one's life testifies to one's true nature. The "good fruit" that a righteous, Christ-centered life produces is external, as the fruit of a tree always is, evident in the general character of one's living. Such a life is love-motivated, holy, uncompromising, truthful, peace-loving, etc.. (Galatians 5:22-23; Ephesians 5:9) The "fruit" of a "bad tree" is also unavoidably evident, appearing in the content of a "bad tree's" words and deeds, though sometimes, in the case of a practiced hypocrite, only subtly.

Verses 21-23 expand on the point Christ just made about trees and their fruit, pointing out that claims of fidelity to Christ must be coupled to a life acting in accord with the will of the Father. Here, it's worth asking, "What is the will of the Father?" It seems to me, casting out demons, and preaching, and performing miracles in Christ's name would all fall, generally, within the bounds of God's will. Why, then, does Jesus say to those who claimed obedience in these things that he never knew them?

That word "never" is important, by the way. It indicates that those to whom Jesus was speaking were never saved: They had not once possessed salvation and then lost it, but had never had it at any time.

Anyway, why do the various acts of obedience, the good deeds, of those in the story of Matthew 7:21-23 not qualify as "good fruit" from a "good tree"? Well, if you were going to make a case to God for your obedience to His will, would you not start with the command God Himself called the First and Great Commandment? (Matthew 16:24-25) Makes sense to me. But this isn't what the people in the story do. They don't mention their faithfulness and care in keeping this most important of all commands; they don't say that in exorcising demons, and performing miracles, and preaching, they were trying to demonstrate their love for God. Why not? Jesus gives the reason: They were unknown to Christ as his followers, as children of God. In other words, they had no real love for God, which is at the heart of the born-again life and obedience to God.

In fact, the "bedrock" of the believer's walk with God (verses 24-27), of their relationship with Him, is love. Paul the apostle emphasizes this in his comments to the Corinthian believers:

1 Corinthians 13:1-3
1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Here, Paul explained that no matter what the Christian may say, or know, or do, if love - first for God and then for others - isn't the ground out of which these things spring, they are all spiritually useless. That's a pretty powerful, sweeping statement. It would rule out a great deal of the obedience - for some, maybe all of it - Christians might claim as proof of their membership in God's family and kingdom.

This seems to be the case for those who are cast out from Christ in the Matthew 7:21-23 story. They never claim the all-important love for God that constitutes the First and Great Commandment and is the foundation upon which all Christian obedience rests (or ought to). This calls into serious question the idea many Christians have that love for God is tantamount to obedience, to doing good deeds. Clearly, mere obedience is not necessarily indicative of a heart of love for God. This was true of the Pharisees of Christ's day who honoured God with their lips but had hearts that were far from Him. (Matthew 15:7-8) Though their lives were centered upon careful obedience to God's law, like those cast out from Christ at the Final Judgment, they were unknown to God as members of His kingdom and family. Instead, Christ frequently condemned the Pharisees in the harshest terms, calling them the "brood of vipers," "sons of hell," "white-washed tombs," and hypocrites.

What this brings to the surface is the danger of thinking that obedience and love are identical things. While they can be highly related, as many passages in Scripture give us cause to think (John 15:8-10; 1 John 2:3-6, etc.), they aren't the same thing. Love precedes and produces obedience; obedience is supposed to be a manifestation of love for God. But, because these two things are so closely related to each other in the Bible, many have adopted the notion that they are identical. Paul's comments in 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 in particular, though, highlight that there is a distinct difference between love and right action. Paul wrote that even dying as a martyr can happen apart from love, failing entirely to be an expression of it, which would be impossible if a such a self-sacrificing, noble deed was identical to loving God.

What a thought this is: Giving one's life as a martyr may not express love for God but may actually be an act of disobedience to the First and Great Commandment of God! How many other acts of obedience by Christians are really acts of disobedience because they are totally divorced from a love for God?! This is a very sobering thing to consider.

If love for God isn't, at bottom, self-sacrificing obedience to Him, what is? The Psalmist gives us a lot of help in answering this question:

Psalm 42:1-2
1 As the deer pants for the water brooks, So my soul pants for You, O God.
2 My soul thirsts for God, for the living God; When shall I come and appear before God?


Psalm 143:5-6
5 I remember the days of old; I meditate on all Your doings; I muse on the work of Your hands.
6 I stretch out my hands to You; My soul longs for You, as a parched land. Selah.


So does the prophet Isaiah:

Isaiah 26:9
9 At night my soul longs for You, Indeed, my spirit within me seeks You diligently...


At the core of love, it's "beating heart," is desire, a deep longing, a thirst of the soul and spirit, for God. This is the ground out of which all of our obedience to God is to arise; not fear (1 John 4:16-19), not obligation or duty, not religious or self-righteous pride, not guilt, but a deep, abiding desire to know and commune with God.

When this longing for God motivates our obedience, we have our eyes on Him rather than ourselves; we take deep joy in righteousness and holy living because we see that obedience is not an end in itself but is merely the avenue to rich fellowship with God; we find the self-sacrifice of agape love natural and consistent, flowing from us without struggle or hesitation. As this is the believer's life in Christ, rooted in love, obeying the will of the Father in its most crucial respect, their life becomes all it was made to be, incredibly fulfilling and spiritually powerful, attracting those lost in darkness and sin like nothing else can.

So, is your Christian obedience in disobedience to the First and Great Commandment? Are you thinking to stand before Christ, justified by a life of good deeds, but with a heart far from him, confident you will gain entrance to God's heavenly kingdom? I hope and pray not.
 
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Hello Aiki; This was a very good and informative article. Reading it all the way through was a pleasure you did a good job in expanding the scripture and nailing down to the truth of the matter when it comes to using it in context.

Would like to add a bit more in conjunction with the love for God; and the thoughts of what the heart produces from which Jesus had spoken about in (Mark 7:15-23)

Mark 7:15 there is nothing outside the man which can defile him if it goes into him; but the things which proceed out of the man are what defile the man.

Jesus was speaking to the indignant and demeaning Pharisees, whom were struck at the idea of going against the elders tradition was absolutely to that of a spit in the face to them. Afterwards of talking to them: Jesus said to everyone there. There is nothing outside the man which can defile him if it goes into him: (food goes through the stomach) but the things which process out of the man are what defile the man.

Jesus Christ is making a clear cut decision in what He is saying here from what proceeds outward from the mouth. Because of Jesus Christ being able to read hearts (Matthew 9:4) he understood the darkness of man kind and that thoughts came from with-in the heart; in which proceed from the mouth are what defiles a man.

16 [If anyone has ears to hear, let him hear.”]

17 When he had left the crowd and entered the house, His disciples questioned Him about the parable.

After having left the crowd; and entered the house (staying for the night), His disciples questioned Him about the parable that He had spoken just earlier after leaving the scene with the Pharisees and teachers of the Law.

What is a Pharisee you may ask yourself: Pharisee, member of a Jewish religious party that flourished in Palestine during the latter part of the Second Temple period (515 bce–70 ce). The Pharisees' insistence on the binding force of oral tradition (“the unwritten Torah”) remains a basic tenet of Jewish theological thought.

18 And He *said to them, “Are you so lacking in understanding also? Do you not understand that whatever goes into the man from outside cannot defile him,

He spoke to His disciples say; "Are you so lacking in understanding also?"
Jesus is saying do you guys not get it? What do I need to do here to make you understand? He goes on to say whatever goes into the man from outside cannot defile him. (Eating foods)

19 because it does not go into his heart, but into his stomach, and is eliminated?” (Thus He declared all foods clean.)

Because the food does not not go into the heart; but into the stomach and is eliminated? (it comes out from us after eating). So foods are able to be eaten, if one desires to eat at any time.

You may ask yourself what does Jesus mean about the heart? Strong's Greek: 2588. καρδία (kardia) -- heart

20 And He was saying, “That which proceeds out of the man, that is what defiles the man.

Going further Jesus says "That which proceeds out of the man that is what defiles the man.

21 For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed the evil thoughts, fornications, thefts, murders, adulteries,

From with-in (the inner person / soul / mind(heart)/ will/ emotion). Proceed evil thoughts; fornications, thefts, murders, adulteries,

22 deeds of coveting and wickedness, as well as deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride and foolishness.

Seeking to do deeds of coveting, and wickedness, as well as deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, and foolishness.

23 All these evil things proceed from within and defile the man.”

Jesus concludes with telling his Disciples; all of these evil things proceed from within and defile the man.

Jesus Christ is teaching an lesson of the value of looking upon your heart and too see the darkness of the reality of who we are as human beings are in this case. No not everyone may have done the same things but all of these thoughts still reside with and lying center to the heart. So the question is what is the heart content of your life and how does it effect your relationship with seeking and having a close relationship with God?

That choice is totally up to you. God is forgiving, is merciful, is loving; and desires for all people to come to seek and look towards His Son and to come to the Father as a son here on earth would want to come to his Father. But God is much greater than us humans ever will be and is a God who desires to people to come to the knowledge of the truth about who He is and who His Son is.

Job 33:12 “Behold, let me tell you, you are not right in this, For God is greater than man.
 
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Okay so let's say ive quit a certain pet sin out of the motive of fear. What am I supposed to do now? Am I locked in to that wrong motive? How do I change it into a love motive when this sin has already been subdued by a fear/selfish motive?
 
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Okay so let's say ive quit a certain pet sin out of the motive of fear. What am I supposed to do now? Am I locked in to that wrong motive? How do I change it into a love motive when this sin has already been subdued by a fear/selfish motive?

How does one exchange a motive of fear for one of love? Good question.

Why isn't fear an acceptable motive for obedience, alongside love? Why can't we obey a bit out of fear and a bit out of love? I think, at least in part, fear is unacceptable to God as a motivation for our obedience because it is focused on Self, on Self-protection, rather than on God. We fear because we don't want harm to befall us, not because we want to please God, to honor Him as an expression of our love for Him. And this is why, I think, fear can't be a motivation for our obedience that He finds pleasing.

God's transformation of us always has as its chief aim the expansion of our knowledge of Him personally (Colossians 1:9-10; Philippians 3:7-10 John 17:3, etc.), a deepening of our fellowship with Him (1 Corinthians 1:9; 2 Corinthians 13:14; 1 John 1:3). He intends that out of this rich communion with Him we glorify Him with our lives. (1 Corinthians 10:31; 1 Corinthians 6:19-20; Matthew 5:16)

Our obedience to Him is, of course, an integral part of how our knowledge of Him, of His power and truth, increases. As we seek to live in obedience to God our weakness is exposed, our deep selfishness is revealed; we try, typically, to live the Christian life our way, relying upon ourselves to achieve God's will by our effort, producing only short-lived success, frustration and, ultimately, failure as we do. By means of this failure, though, a genuine child of God is pressed to Him, depending upon Him more and more to do for them what they have come to understand is impossible for them to accomplish in their own resources of strength and will. As they do, they discover that God is as powerful, His work as incredibly transformative, as He has said in His word it will be. Confidence, and joy, and love are the result, engendering in the genuine child of God the sincerest of praise and worship of Him.

None of this goes on when fear is the motivator for our obedience. Operating under the fear motive, we act like the inmate of a prison who will seek his own will and way whenever he thinks he can get away with doing so, when he thinks the Warden isn't looking. Like the prison inmate, fear of the "Warden," of the harm He can do us, produces resentment, it makes obedience to Him a burden rather than a delight, and its exhausting being afraid of the wrath of the "Warden" all the time. Such "obedience" has no power to move us toward God, toward the "Warden" whom we fear and resent, but only ultimately away from Him into moralism and hypocrisy.

Anyway, stamping out particular sins is a lot like stamping out fires started by the sparks of a bonfire: It's an endless effort because the source of all the sparks is unaffected by all our stamping. Until we douse the "bonfire" making all the sparks of sin in our lives, we really do very little to achieve spiritual success. Fear might enable us - temporarily - to resist a particular sin but the root problem causing us to sin hasn't been touched necessarily at all. This is why fear always fails to bring us into a consistently holy life. God's way is to understand what He's done for us already in Christ and to live in constant submission to Him all the time (See Romans 6; Galatians 2:20; Galatians 5:25; Colossians 3:1-3, etc.) In God's economy of things, love is the only correct motive for such living, the only motive for walking with Him that He accepts. (1 Corinthians 13:1-3)

How do we exchange fear for love as a motive for obedience? The apostle John provides part of the answer:

1 John 4:16-19 (NASB)
16 We have come to know and have believed the love which God has for us. God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.
17 By this, love is perfected with us, so that we may have confidence in the day of judgment; because as He is, so also are we in this world.
18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love.
19 We love, because He first loved us.


Walking with God in love begins with being firmly convinced of His love for you. John distinguishes knowing God loves you from believing it, implying in verse 16 that believing comes after knowing and is deeper than merely grasping the fact of God's love for you. Have you given time and space to carefully contemplate the magnitude of God's love for you? Have you steeped yourself, your mind and heart, in the wonderful truth of His awesome, enduring, patient, merciful love for you? Obeying God from fear indicates you haven't; for, as John points out, "perfect love casts out fear."

God doesn't want the sort of love from us that comes naturally to us. Our natural, human love is sin-corrupt, selfish, contingent and of no interest to Him. Instead, God desires from us His own holy, infinite, perfect love which He imparts to all of His children in the Person of the Holy Spirit:

Romans 5:5
5 and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.

The Holy Spirit does not share himself with us, giving to us a full experience of the divine love that he is, filling us with the love that he is, until we submit, yield, surrender ourselves to him, to his will and way (Romans 6:13, 22; Romans 8:14; Romans 12:1; James 4:7-10; 1 Peter 5:6; Micah 6:8). We are in a love-relationship with God in which coercion has no place. We must at every turn be humbly yielding ourselves to God as a "living sacrifice," and as we do, the Spirit of God, the Spirit of love, fills us with himself and the love, joy, peace, patience and so on that he is. As this happens, we find ourselves acting in obedience to God out of a life filled with His love.
 
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When the Holy Spirit arrive to you.

Well, many are indwelt by the Spirit who are not controlled by Him. This was Paul's point, in part, in his letter to Corinthians:

1 Corinthians 6:19-20
19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own?
20 For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.


Paul would not have had to write this if the Corinthian Christians were already living properly as temples of the Holy Spirit. Like many today, the Corinthian Christians had been saved but they were not "living sacrifices" to God.
 
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