I agree with what you say but how would you describe the love we can have for God? Are there any similarities or differences compared to the love we have for other people? And a follow up question should you choose to accept it: what does the "as you love yourself" mean in the second commandment to love others as yourself?
Yes, there are similarities between the love we have for God and that we have for other people. We know when we love someone. We know what that means, in regard to our intentions for them, and we know how it feels. But the love we have for God is more fleeting in this life because we don't "have" Him here so closely as we do with people, even though He's right here, in us and in our midst.
We meet Him more directly, though, the more we believe, and act on that belief through the love, for neighbor, that comes from Him with that faith. He reveals Himself more and more to us as we do His will and the more we know Him, the more we love Him-that literally cannot be helped- even as our pride and the things of this world continue seeking to pull and keep us down into their realm of vanity and futility. He wants us to look
up, and keep looking there. And He can even reveal Himself so directly that you'll know in that moment a love and peace so profoundly deep and ineffable and exalting that you couldn't remain standing in its presence; it's simply that overwhelming. At His discretion, for His purposes. Meanwhile life remains hard, challenging, filled with pain, joy, suffering, beauty, pleasure, tests, sin etc. We'll never be fully satisfied until we meet Him "face to face". Then we'll know as we're fully known.
Just some thoughts on love of neighbor as ourselves. Whether we think we’re the greatest thing in the world or the worst, we probably still feed ourselves before we feed an even hungrier neighbor. But what we do “for the least of these” we do for God; expressing love for neighbor is a primary way that we
show love for God. It means that we already know there’s something “bigger” and more important than just me or the attractions of this world-and we show that by our actions, by that love.
And while there are times for honest and healthy self-scrutiny and conviction of sin, most of those times when we think we’re the lowest form of life on earth we are actually, generally speaking, dealing with
too much self-love, “inordinate self-love” as Aquinas put it: pride IOW. And this is because we’re way too concerned with ME in those moments, and
failing to look up. When we esteem ourselves too highly we’re concerned with ME and how I look to the world, and when we esteem ourselves too lowly we’re often as not still concerned with ME and how I look to the world, still based on pride, and
not the humility it may seem to be. Again, just some thoughts.