- Oct 28, 2020
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I'm not sure if I'm blowing this out of proportion, maybe I am but at this moment in time I don't feel that way.
I'm not the one that usually checks the bank, its probably been almost a year since I looked in it. My wife knows this. Today I wanted to invest some money and wanted to check my bank and found a few western union transfers that she has been making and sending it to her family in her country. I asked her about it and she just looked at me, I told her that I wouldn't deny sending money to her family if she asked me. In my eyes she is stealing from me and stealing behind my back and keeping quiet about it.
Do you guys see it as stealing or am I blowing it out of proportion? I also have caught her in the past, long long ago doing this and I asked her to please stop and ask me, that I wouldn't deny her the money to help her family. I'm willing to bet that if I went further back in my account I would find more, I've also sent her family thousands when she asks me to help them in the past so she knows I wouldn't say no
Thanks in advance/.
I'm not the one that usually checks the bank, its probably been almost a year since I looked in it. My wife knows this. Today I wanted to invest some money and wanted to check my bank and found a few western union transfers that she has been making and sending it to her family in her country. I asked her about it and she just looked at me, I told her that I wouldn't deny sending money to her family if she asked me. In my eyes she is stealing from me and stealing behind my back and keeping quiet about it.
Do you guys see it as stealing or am I blowing it out of proportion? I also have caught her in the past, long long ago doing this and I asked her to please stop and ask me, that I wouldn't deny her the money to help her family. I'm willing to bet that if I went further back in my account I would find more, I've also sent her family thousands when she asks me to help them in the past so she knows I wouldn't say no
Thanks in advance/.