Hey guys, I'm back.
For better or for worse, I've kind of taken a break from Christianity altogether.
What I will say in response is this:
1. The overall cliquiness of a Church community. I find that a lot of broken people, inadvertently or not, come into the Church, where because of their brokenness, they are often ostracized and left out, particularly if there is an ethnic portion of the Church. In my Church community, I could be act very socially atypical at points (that is to say, I loved talking a lot and could be loud / obnoxious in regards to talking about theology); and I was ostracized by 90% of my peers near my age, and even by the rector Priest himself who very clearly didn't like me; especially the Greeks and Ukrainians. Most of them put on a fake smile and say "I love you like Jesus loves you" but you know that they don't by their actions (getting passive aggressive with you for no reason, leaving you in the dark in regards to social / Church events, trying to avoid you, getting easily upset at you, leaving you in the dark with people beginning to date each other / not inviting you to weddings, etc.). That led to disillusionment.
2. The foundation of a convert not being Christ or loving others. I think a lot of people come to Orthodoxy based on frustration towards their pre-existing religion, and communities who are on the defensive from other church communities often foster that anger / resentment. For example, many Catholics who are frustrated at the failings morally, spiritually, or socially of their own pastors (for example, the failings of the Pontiff, or the failings of the bishops); or many Protestants who are sick of the Jack-Chick or anti-intellectual attitude towards Christianity. Or worse, there may be some deep underlying issues and resentment towards one's state in life that one finds Orthodoxy as an escapist "Gnostic shield" against (Hey, I may be alone, unwanted, isolated, sad, depressed, and miserable, but at least I'm one of the few hundred thousand in America that knows "the Truth").
You get a "the candle that burns twice as bright burns half as long" kind of scenario, where the journey to Orthodoxy begins extremely zealously, even outshining in devotion some long time practitioners, but it ends abruptly when the light dims when that person has an epiphany of why they are converting to Orthodoxy.