how can I say I don't want it?

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Why don't you pm tenthaven he seemed helpful and him being a man I think he could help you a lot if he would.
I mean...I’m only 22, and I’ve never been married. But if I can be some help, then great.
 
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I mean...I’m only 22, and I’ve never been married. But if I can be some help, then great.
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You knew what he was talking about, lol, and that was a step in the right direction. Thanks
 
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Was it really that obvious?
Maybe everyone noticed, but didn’t want to mention it. It was a bit cryptic, but given the context, one could put two-and-two together. Like she said, nothing to be ashamed of. Women tend to be a bit more insightful.
 
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Wasn't to difficult. You should be proud as being a virgin these days is commendable.
MY apologies to the boys as I wasn't thinking that they might be celibate and when I noticed they were I realized that made a world of difference in how much they could say, which would be very little which is exactly what they did. I hope there was some answer in there for you.
 
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LOL I read the OP last night but didn't have time to reply. I knew immediately what he was talking about. Does that mean I have a dirty mind? :scratch:

Single Dude, I think it might be more helpful for you if you went to a different section of the forums with your question. This forum is filled with other celibate and single people who would have trouble answering your question in a meaningful way, like alllivesmatter pointed out. Perhaps Requests for Christian Advice would be a good place to try. You might have to be a little more blunt if you go there though.
 
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LOL I read the OP last night but didn't have time to reply. I knew immediately what he was talking about. Does that mean I have a dirty mind? :scratch:

Single Dude, I think it might be more helpful for you if you went to a different section of the forums with your question. This forum is filled with other celibate and single people who would have trouble answering your question in a meaningful way, like alllivesmatter pointed out. Perhaps Requests for Christian Advice would be a good place to try. You might have to be a little more blunt if you go there though.
YES! lol:tearsofjoy:
 
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Maybe everyone noticed, but didn’t want to mention it. It was a bit cryptic, but given the context, one could put two-and-two together. Like she said, nothing to be ashamed of. Women tend to be a bit more insightful.
You are wise beyond your years!:hug:
 
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It took me a minute, but I've had similar thoughts ("if marriage is a good thing, but I can't have it, then is it really a good thing? How can I say marriage isn't for me if I've never even tried dating?"). I just wasn't brave enough to suggest it, & didn't want to put words in his mouth.
 
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LOL I read the OP last night but didn't have time to reply. I knew immediately what he was talking about. Does that mean I have a dirty mind? :scratch:

Single Dude, I think it might be more helpful for you if you went to a different section of the forums with your question. This forum is filled with other celibate and single people who would have trouble answering your question in a meaningful way, like alllivesmatter pointed out. Perhaps Requests for Christian Advice would be a good place to try. You might have to be a little more blunt if you go there though.
Good advice, you redeemed yourself.
 
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LOL I read the OP last night but didn't have time to reply. I knew immediately what he was talking about. Does that mean I have a dirty mind? :scratch:

Single Dude, I think it might be more helpful for you if you went to a different section of the forums with your question. This forum is filled with other celibate and single people who would have trouble answering your question in a meaningful way, like alllivesmatter pointed out. Perhaps Requests for Christian Advice would be a good place to try. You might have to be a little more blunt if you go there though.
Hay! why do you have to be so rude!!!:tongueout:
 
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