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Thank you to everyone who takes the time to read this. Thank you to everyone who takes the time out to respond to this.
I have a sister who is in love with a drug dealer. They needed my help because they are homeless and were in a motel. They needed money to stay in the motel. My sister called first and asked and I talked to her and I said no. A few minutes later, the drug dealer called and pressed me and begged me so I agreed to loan them $100, interest $50, so they owed me $150. The next day, my sister paid me $125 and said that the drug dealer would pay me the remaining $25 when he got paid 3 days later.
2 days later, the drug dealer called me and pressured me again and I agreed to lend him $75 for interest of $25. So he owes me $125. The 3rd day, the day I was supposed to get the $125, my sister and the drug dealer got into a fight and they broke up. About 2 days later, I found out my sister was with the drug dealer. I asked her about my money and she said she was done with me for refusing her and not refusing him and wasn't going to pay me. She said the deal was between me and him and not her, even though I did it to help both of them.
So this morning I believe I am traumatized. I can't get it off my mind how bad my sister treated me. I've done nothing but help her. I've given her clothes, my cross necklace, and helped her children. I've done nothing but help her but the first time I said "no" she's done with me. She said I have no loyalty and that I am weak.
So now I'm out $50. I'm okay with the money. I actually understood that they might get me, but I just wanted to help. I'm okay with the money, I'll get more money. Money is not a problem. It's the fact of how dramatic and how evil she was toward me. She's done with me, regardless of the other major things I've done to help her. She can't see past that one thing.
I shouldn't have done this, made deals with him but he's been so nice to me and everything. I thought he would keep his end of the deal. I didn't know until afterward he's been doing to this to people, borrow money and refuse to pay them. I also did not factor in the fact of how he's doing my sister with money, blowing her pay checks on drugs and whatever makes a person spend $9000 in 1-2 weeks.
I was a fool, but I only wanted to help. I did help them stay in the motel, so I'm cool with losing the $50. I wish she could consider it a gift.
Anyway, I believe I am traumatized because she said I was disloyal and weak. I can't get this situation out of my head. Then I have his card, he said lend him the money and I get to keep his card. So I have his pay card and this morning my mom will take it to my dad and let him give it to them.
I am through with my sister. I am so sick of these dramatic emotional games she plays. I don't want anything to do with her. Maybe I won't have to avoid her because she did say she was done with me.
Anyway, I'm traumatized and just needed someone to talk to. How do I get it out of my head and stop thinking about it?
Thank you to everyone who takes the time to read this. Thank you to everyone who takes the time out to respond to this.
I have a sister who is in love with a drug dealer. They needed my help because they are homeless and were in a motel. They needed money to stay in the motel. My sister called first and asked and I talked to her and I said no. A few minutes later, the drug dealer called and pressed me and begged me so I agreed to loan them $100, interest $50, so they owed me $150. The next day, my sister paid me $125 and said that the drug dealer would pay me the remaining $25 when he got paid 3 days later.
2 days later, the drug dealer called me and pressured me again and I agreed to lend him $75 for interest of $25. So he owes me $125. The 3rd day, the day I was supposed to get the $125, my sister and the drug dealer got into a fight and they broke up. About 2 days later, I found out my sister was with the drug dealer. I asked her about my money and she said she was done with me for refusing her and not refusing him and wasn't going to pay me. She said the deal was between me and him and not her, even though I did it to help both of them.
So this morning I believe I am traumatized. I can't get it off my mind how bad my sister treated me. I've done nothing but help her. I've given her clothes, my cross necklace, and helped her children. I've done nothing but help her but the first time I said "no" she's done with me. She said I have no loyalty and that I am weak.
So now I'm out $50. I'm okay with the money. I actually understood that they might get me, but I just wanted to help. I'm okay with the money, I'll get more money. Money is not a problem. It's the fact of how dramatic and how evil she was toward me. She's done with me, regardless of the other major things I've done to help her. She can't see past that one thing.
I shouldn't have done this, made deals with him but he's been so nice to me and everything. I thought he would keep his end of the deal. I didn't know until afterward he's been doing to this to people, borrow money and refuse to pay them. I also did not factor in the fact of how he's doing my sister with money, blowing her pay checks on drugs and whatever makes a person spend $9000 in 1-2 weeks.
I was a fool, but I only wanted to help. I did help them stay in the motel, so I'm cool with losing the $50. I wish she could consider it a gift.
Anyway, I believe I am traumatized because she said I was disloyal and weak. I can't get this situation out of my head. Then I have his card, he said lend him the money and I get to keep his card. So I have his pay card and this morning my mom will take it to my dad and let him give it to them.
I am through with my sister. I am so sick of these dramatic emotional games she plays. I don't want anything to do with her. Maybe I won't have to avoid her because she did say she was done with me.
Anyway, I'm traumatized and just needed someone to talk to. How do I get it out of my head and stop thinking about it?