Hello everyone
I am new to this forum. I came here because I need advice. I find myself being sad quite often. There is nothing going on in my life. I have few social interactions. I feel disconnected from the world. For context I am an international student and I don't have anyone in my life besides my immediate family. I am in a foreign country and I do not fit in here, I struggle to connect with people and the sad thing is it is the same story in my own country. Moreover I even find I can relate to few people online and there are so many types of people online. I feel quite distant from the world because of this. There are many good things in my life, for example I do well in school, I have good prospects for the future, I have a lovely family, I'm on top of my life. I just want to know how I can feel better or what things I can do to change my life.
Dear one,
When we were lonely and afflicted! Didn’t we like someone to turn to us and be gracious to us ? Whom do we like to turn to us and be gracious and establish us enduring relationship? Yes, our dear Lord Jesus Christ.
For this is what we have heard:
For the LORD is good; His steadfast love
endures forever, and
His faithfulness to all generations. -Psalms 100:5
When we were lonely and afflicted! Didn’t we want to associate with someone good? Our Lord is more than qualified. He establishes His relations with His steadfast love. That is how He is gracious to us. Even, His faithfulness is proven through all generations. For He will not lie to us. How? Doesn’t our Lord make covenant relationship with us ? Yes, He has.
For this is what we have heard:
And the Holy Spirit also bears witness to us; for after saying, -Hebrews 10:15
"This is the covenant that I will make with them after those days, declares the Lord: I will put my laws on their hearts, and write them on their minds," -Hebrews 10:16
then he adds, "I will remember their sins and their lawless deeds no more." -Hebrews 10:17
Our Lord is gracious, and we just need to treasure His loving words in our hearts and minds.
For our Lord, indeed, establishes us enduring relationships through His covenant of love. For this, we should be grateful and be filled with overflowing thanksgiving.
Why ? Have we not considered many relationships don’t endure;
some fall away or fade away or may be coming into loneliness in even in friendship, marriage, family and relatives - it becomes numb.
Who can build enduring relations like the Lord? What is Jesus’s strength that makes Him faithful to all generations in spite of many human fallibility and weaknesses ?
It is REVEALED on how our Lord live His life. This is what we have heard:
Adonai is good, and He is fair;
this is why he teaches sinners the way [to live],
leads the humble to do what is right
and teaches the humble
[to live] His way.- Psalms 25:8-9 CJB
Then, what is God’s ways? This is what we have heard:
He made His ways known to Moshe,
his mighty deeds to the people of Isra’el.
Adonai is merciful and compassionate,
slow to anger and rich in grace.-Psalms 103:7-8 CJB
Don’t we need to show mercy to others in our relations with them? Otherwise, how relationships with our family, relatives, friends , and acquaintances endure ?
Don’t we also need to show sympathy and be sensitive to those who suffer ? Yes, we do. In that way, we are compassionate. Won’t our compassion attract others ? Yes, they do. Inasmuch as they like, we also like to receive this grace. In this love is manifested among us because we live through our Lord, who is love eternal.
Don’t we like others to be slow to anger ?Yes, we do. We find also grace if others don’t pay us back according to our iniquities. So let us not deal with others according to our sins, but let us deal with others with love and peace.
Then, how can be rich in grace ? Who is rich in grace ? Yes, our Lord. How do our Lord enrich us with His grace ? This is what we have heard:
You then, my child,
be strengthened by the grace that is in Christ Jesus, -2 Timothy 2:1
So we can consider that those who are strengthened in the grace that is in Christ Jesus are those who rich in grace.
Therefore, let us seek the Lord’s strength continually, that we may be rich in grace.
When we are strengthened with His strength! We have the strength to release forgiveness to others who wronged us, whether they are friends or family. So when we are reconciled ! Can’t we build enduring relationships with others through Christ? Yes, we can.
So dear one,
Won’t the righteousness of our Lord’s love deliver you out of all your afflictions or sadness?
Trust in Him. For His love is enduring. Just offer yourself to the truth of His love, that is found in His words.
Love Him much. Let overflowing thanksgiving be lifted to Him. For we makes all our relationships endure through Christ.