What do I do with a church where I suffered a lot of spiritual abuse at the hands of the church leaders? Do I go back and visit? I have been praying/debating whether or not to go back and visit. I have been in touch sporadically with several of the people and some of the church leaders from the church, mainly via text or phone call. I haven't been there in years and haven't seen anyone from there in years as I've avoided going back there (Because of the spiritual abuse I suffered, I've been so wary of returning to the actual building ... traumatized). Though we don't live far apart (within about 5 miles of each other) none of the church leaders have ever reached out to me to see me personally, though they've wanted me to come to their church programs. I'm not at enmity with them but I've just been deeply hurt and they feel justified in their behavior and the way they treat people. Am I obligated to go and visit the church and try to make peace with them for the sake of Christ, or should I continue to avoid the location and continue my sporadic communications and continue to work on healing from the abuse? It was bad... I'm not sure of what my obligation is here as a Christian.