A certain level of romantic fatalism has become fairly common in modern pop-religion. A lot of that is Western culture's infatuation with the kismet, that there is a destiny, a fate, involving our one true soul mate. Theologically speaking, this is problematic: Fatalism is contrary to a basic Christian understanding of God's relationship with creation. Fate is a distinctively Pagan teaching, in which quite literally there are cosmic forces pulling the strings, and all the events in our lives are the product of the fates, of the arrangement of the stars, etc.
But Scripture is clear, while God has a will for our lives (revealed in the plain commandments and instruction of God, namely that we trust in Jesus and love our neighbor) we remain morally culpable, the path set before us is not fated, but is the invitation to the unknown, to put our faith in Christ, and to use our conscience and our best judgment to navigate life as Jesus' disciples.
In spite of what my profile says, I haven't been in a relationship for several years (haven't figured out how to change it). Is there a specific someone--a "soul mate"--that God has chosen just for me? No, I don't think so. But that isn't said in a depressing or negative sense, If I find someone then great, and if I don't, that's also okay. The point is what I do now, how do I live my life now. Right now I am a Christian, and so right now I am to love my neighbor. If I remain celibate and chaste for the remainder of my life, then glory be to God; and if I find the woman of my dreams, then glory be to God.
Jesus isn't our match maker. He's our Lord, our King, our Savior, and our God.
-CryptoLutheran