Jesusfann777888
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If you view the messages as boring, you Conceptually do not understand your need for a saviour.so basically the title says it. I can't stand going to church. My fiance is the worship director and shes going to start preaching after we get married. I also sometimes volunteer for the tech stuff. I recently told her how much i really don't like going to church ( I've told her this before, but i really drove home the point this time). I don't like the music, the messages are boring, or too shallow, i never get anything from it and I'm very introverted. Ive been to many churches in my life, and church always feels like a chore. I'm not a "feeler" either though, so i have never really "felt" God, and probably never will. However, i DO believe the bible and what it says. I'm just a very logic brained person.
She was really upset by me telling her this and she feels like we need to share the same values and etc if we are going to be married. I told her we DO share the same values, i just don't like going to church, but she is still bothered by this and says it's important to her because its a big part of her life and she wants us to share that i guess.
I wish i could just flip a switch and like it, but i can't. I'm not sure what to do about it, i just needed to vent and get some advice. I'm also not the best at communicating, so if something is unclear, let me know please
I have a few questions for you. you say you are logically-oriented. what do you think of science and where do you find yourself having the most fun? I'll try to get you to take your focus off of science and by determining what interest's you have, I'll talk to you about why. You need to be honest about your interest's however.boredom at church could have a few reason's, second, how on Earth Scripturally does your fiance believe she can preach? this is not allowed by Scripture, for a Very Good Reason!
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