I notice in none of this did you define FreeWill, nor appeal to Autonomy or its synonyms. But I will respond as if you meant it to be a human ability for truly spontaneous action, truly uncaused, truly unfettered.
The autonomous free will choice I am referring to does not mean it was not very limited to just one mental only either/or choice. The mental decision of the person comes from
their heart’s desire. God is very much involved in limiting the choice, but it is still the person’s choice between at least two options.
So, God programmed them to eat from the tree?
This is a reference to an offering given beyond our outside the requirements.. Given the importance of the defense of FreeWill over against Sovereignty, it seems a bit strange that this is the only Bible reference with the term 'Freewill' in it. You may say that like Sovereignty, it is said in many different ways, but no, every reference taken to show true autonomy merely shows will and choice. This is not referencing true spontaneity.
Philosophically, “autonomous free will” would be the same as “will”. You are using a unique definition of will that fits your theology, making two definitions of will and thus impossible to discuss. “Will and choice” is free will.
You did not explain how God can have humans making a freewill offering without humans having free will?
No. He would have done it, had they not turned, but they did turn. Are you going to say that what he did to Jonah had nothing to do with convincing them to turn away from their evil ways?
You are saying it is all up to God and not “had they done this or that”.
Quoting you: “had they not turned”, but that is issue! They made the free will autonomous choice to turn and God reacted by not destroying them as He said He would do.
Jonah did not go to Nineveh and say: “Change, as God has programmed you to do”, but “warned them”.
What God did to Nineveh “warning them”, was the same thing God does for us in “warning us” to change, but, like Nineveh, it is up to us (“It is our choice”).
Seems strange to me that you don't see the 'two wills of God', taught in Reformed doctrine here. He has his Sovereign will, (or 'Hidden' will) --his overall plan-- and he has his 'Revealed' will, usually shown as a command or declaration such as what he said he will do 'if they do this', or what other thing he will do 'if they do that'.
When others talk of “God’s will” they refer to: “God’s desire” and What “God foreordained to happen”?
Not everything God desires “wills” to happen does happens, but everything God foreordains “wills” to happen does happen.
You are saying something similar but add the idea, everything is foreordained, but in the back ground. This would be highly misleading on God’s part to tell us it is up to us when it is not up to us.
You have to ignore quite a bit of common sense, it seems to me, when you press creatures into the status of first cause.
It is an oxymoron to say: Man has a choice and say God makes all man’s choices for them prior to them choosing His choice.
God is certainly not “pressuring people” by making it their choice, but allows them to become like He is, in that they can have Godly type Love. To not provide people with a very limited amount of autonomous free will, makes them nothing more than robots.
How does 'refuse to come' mean 'were able to come'? You might see it as unnatural or unjust, but the Bible does not say that the command implies the ability to obey the command. The lost are slaves to sin. The Bible says that "...the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God’s law; indeed, it cannot." There are many many related passages: "No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him"
The “refusing” is man’s free will part he played, since God is doing the inviting (wanting them to come). A person can certainly be fleshly, hostile to God, not wanting to follow the Law, be righteous, worthy, honorable and so on, but this is an invitation hungry and poor people to a huge wonderful free banquet, it would take a much greater effort on their part to refuse than accept.
Who said they do not choose? Why do you insist on saying Calvinism doesn't say that they choose? It not only admits that they do choose --it insists on it.
To be a
real choice the person has to be able to make, without any change from outside interference, another choice, then the one they made. They “…refuse to come to me that you may have life." (John 5:39-40) That is
their fault if they could have chosen to accept without changing the outside interference, but you seem to be saying they could only choose to accept with outside interference which would cause them to accept. This makes God at fault for not providing the right outside interference.
This is a complicated bit of thinking, on your part. First you say God is guilty of "not helping others to accept Christ", if they had no ability to do so apart from him. Are they punished for not accepting him, or rather, for their sin? How is God then made guilty?
It is not that complicated and what I just said: To be a real choice the person has to be able to make, without any change from outside interference, another choice, then the one they made. They “…refuse to come to me that you may have life." (John 5:39-40) That is their fault if they could have chosen to accept without changing the outside interference, but you seem to be saying they could only choose to accept with outside interference which would cause them to accept. This makes God at fault for not providing the right outside interference.
I am not saying: God is not participating in the person’s selection because God is a huge part of the selection (inviting, providing the gift and banquet, sending servants out to persuade people (but not kidnap them), providing wedding garments, hosting the event personally, and Loving them. The fact is it should be extremely hard to refuse, but the person can still refuse.
The difference between the person saved and the person hell bound is not the sin, but the acceptance or rejection of undeserved charity (forgiveness). The sins are what they are punished for, but both deserve the punishment.
But more ironically, you will say God is violating their will if he changes their heart, regenerating them by taking up residence within them, without first asking their permission! Did he ask your permission to make you with original sin? Did he ask your permission to even make you at all? Why complain if he changes you for the better?
I was not “made with original sin.” I was made with a conscience which provides knowledge of good and evil.
God makes man because God’s Love would compel God to make being which could become like Himself in the they have Godly type Love for the sake of those few who would humbly accept undeserving Love.
God made us all “very good” by God’s standard of “very good”, but that is not perfect like Christ is perfect, since God could not make clones of an uncreated being (Deity). “Very good” by God’s standard would seem to be as good as a being could be made, since God does everything as good as it can be done, so how could God do humans better?
I notice you keep using the term, 'accept him'. It will be a bit difficult to find that term in the Bible. It does say 'receive' which is quite a different thing. Given the language of Romans 9 concerning vessels of pottery, and the many references throughout Scripture concerning filling, placing into, and so on, it makes sense to say that those in whom the Spirit of God has taken up residence have received him as receptacles --and that not necessarily of their own will. (Again, it is true that we do will to receive him --I don't deny it. And that we will to love, obey, have faith and so on. But that does not mean that God does not work in us to do so --it is not truly spontaneous on our part.)
I do not have a problem with accepting=receiving, but the invitation to the banquets might have been received and discarded (refused), while accepting the invitation means you will go to the banquet.
The faithfulness, Love, obedience, righteousness, justification and Spirit all come as undeserved gifts, after the acceptance.
What seems the most egregious, to my mind about this, is the notion that we can operate on God's level, doing things that only God himself does. We do not do 'new'. Only God does 'new'. And in particular, the Gospel is all about that! --that salvation is of God alone, from first to last. Grace is not earned by any hint of fact. To say that God is not justly capable of doing something unless we spontaneously cooperate or give him permission is ...well, the nicest way I know how to describe it is to say it is self-elevating, not God-honoring. It is not the truth.
We are made in God’s image which means there are things we have been given over all the other animals that allows us to become like He is.
I fully agree salvation is God alone and grace is not earned or deserved, but our difference is with God not forcing His Love on a person who does not want God’s Help. If God were to try to force His Love on a person, the love received would not be Godly type Love, but a robotic type of love. The person willing to accept God’s help is doing it the selfish reason of needing undeserved help (charity) and thus being willing to accept undeserving help from even his hated enemy (God).