- Feb 16, 2021
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Hello,
To get to the point: a 'friend' of mine has invited me to his stag doo in a few months time.
This friend (an the majority of people that will be there) are people that i went to school with and hung around with until around a year ago.
I will say that i have never really been comfortable in their company and they are non christians (the engaged friend, even refuses to get married in a church because of how much he 'hates' religion).
I will also say that since the pandemic we haven't even spoken (and i havent missed any of them either); and to get an invitation now, i feel as though he is doing it from feeling obligated to invite me because we have known each other for so long.
My gut instinct is to decline the invitation; however this would effectively mean me 'cutting him' and those people out of my life.
* i am also invited to the wedding, which i would not attend, if i were not to go to the stag doo.
this is a big decision and I wanted to get Christian opinions over this, as to whether i would be doing the right thing by declining, telling him why, and having them 'on the boundaries' of my life.
thanks,
James.
To get to the point: a 'friend' of mine has invited me to his stag doo in a few months time.
This friend (an the majority of people that will be there) are people that i went to school with and hung around with until around a year ago.
I will say that i have never really been comfortable in their company and they are non christians (the engaged friend, even refuses to get married in a church because of how much he 'hates' religion).
I will also say that since the pandemic we haven't even spoken (and i havent missed any of them either); and to get an invitation now, i feel as though he is doing it from feeling obligated to invite me because we have known each other for so long.
My gut instinct is to decline the invitation; however this would effectively mean me 'cutting him' and those people out of my life.
* i am also invited to the wedding, which i would not attend, if i were not to go to the stag doo.
this is a big decision and I wanted to get Christian opinions over this, as to whether i would be doing the right thing by declining, telling him why, and having them 'on the boundaries' of my life.
thanks,
James.