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I feel so freaking lonely. I'm such a loser. My life's a waste.

For as long as you make these truths your truth your life will be like this. It is about growing a new life in Jesus. To try and keep the old is costing you the new.

Take stock brother. If you meet thorns and thistles on your way does that not teach you it it time to grow good fruit?

Please consider letting go of your old life, you hate it, why re-enforce it?
 
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For as long as you make these truths your truth your life will be like this. It is about growing a new life in Jesus. To try and keep the old is costing you the new.

Take stock brother. If you meet thorns and thistles on your way does that not teach you it it time to grow good fruit?

Please consider letting go of your old life, you hate it, why re-enforce it?
B/c i never see change.
 
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B/c i never see change.

Change will only come when you let Jesus change you. As you bring your pain to Him and you let His loving truth take it away. As it is you hold onto your misery because you don't want to loose your dream, yet that is precisely what needs to happen. The more you give air to your bad feelings and thoughts the more such will grow you a bad harvest.

Sow good thoughts and feelings into your heart. Thoughts and feelings sparked by God's loving truth, not those sparked by your inner misery.

Matthew 11:28-30
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.
 
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What hope is there for someone with a depressive illness?

The truth is Jesus builds us good life out of bad life, so our sufferings have the fullest meaning ever in His Kingdom. He will turn all our hardships to our benefit.

So please be of good courage! It is in the deepest darkness that we can find His greatest light. i know i did.

Isaiah 9:2
"The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of deep darkness a light has dawned."
 
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I find I shoud obey the laws of China, though they need improve. Today's Chinese constitution is the 1982 version, better than 1978、1975 and 1954 versions. God ask me to obey the secular order and pray for the laws and the government. This idea helps my depression recovery.May God not abandon me.
 
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God ask me to obey the secular order and pray for the laws and the government.

It is true that God does not like civil disobedience but that is only when social and criminal laws are right and good. When the government makes unbiblical laws we can be disobedient to those rules. For like Peter says to the high priest it is better to obey God then men.

Romans 13:1-6
Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, whoever rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves. For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and you will be commended. For the one in authority is God’s servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for rulers do not bear the sword for no reason. They are God’s servants, agents of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer. Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience.
 
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I have very horrible feelings, as if God have forsaken me and I have lost the salvation. I think probably it is the accuse from the liar, which tempts me not to trust God’s Love and Forgiveness to me any longer. So please pray for me that i can trust Jesus Christ’s loving truth more and resist the liar. Your prayers are very appreciated. :bow:Lord, please forgive me a serious sinner.:bow:
 
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Lord, please forgive me a serious sinner.

If you have sinned but you are truly sorry then God will always forgive you, the good feeling comes after you believe that. If you believe bad things about God then you feel bad, for God is sad within you, and that always feels bad.

i will pray you will not loose faith in Jesus. He will never forsake you, not even death can part you from Him.

You are completely safe in His salvation.

Here eat this truth into you, Romans 8:38-39
"For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."
 
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I feel so terribly anemic. I have been taking 2 irons a day for more than 4 years, I am supposed to go to 3 a day, but adjusting to 3 a day has always been difficult and could never achieve it. But the way I felt today was so bad that I just took a 3rd iron for the day and I'll see how I feel.
 
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I feel so terribly anemic. I have been taking 2 irons a day for more than 4 years, I am supposed to go to 3 a day, but adjusting to 3 a day has always been difficult and could never achieve it. But the way I felt today was so bad that I just took a 3rd iron for the day and I'll see how I feel.

sorry to hear you are having such a hard time at the moment. If you can't handle 3 irons a day then maybe try taking them every two or even three days apart, maybe that will work better.
 
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sorry to hear you are having such a hard time at the moment. If you can't handle 3 irons a day then maybe try taking them every two or even three days apart, maybe that will work better.
I definitely feel a heightened sense of anxiety upon taking 3 irons, but I also can't function on 2 irons anymore. Mind you this was the exact reaction when I started iron in the first place. I could not take it every day, but maybe every other day or 3 days apart. I eventually acclimated to that, but when I had to up to 2 irons, the same initial reaction ensued. It's been 4 years now, and I think the Cymbalta is causing my iron levels to plummet. Since I'm supposed to move up to 3 irons, I figured why not, but it's doing the same thing all over again. I'm trying to tough it out though, but definitely not take it every day, yet. Eventually I think I can, but definitely not yet.
 
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Eventually I think I can, but definitely not yet.

Strange how this is that way. Why would an increase in iron effect your mood so dramatically, especially because you lack it? Have you tried eating soybeans products? soybeans have a lot of iron in them. Have a nice meal, red lintels with tuna, onions, garlic and peas, or a nice piece of sirloin steak. That should take care of shortages in your iron levels. Such a meals have a lot of natural iron maybe your body can absorb that more easily.

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Strange how this is that way. Why would an increase in iron effect your mood so dramatically, especially because you lack it? Have you tried eating soybeans products? soybeans have a lot of iron in them. Have a nice meal, red lintels with tuna, onions, garlic and peas, or a nice piece of sirloin steak. That should take care of shortages in your iron levels. Such a meals have a lot of natural iron maybe your body can absorb that more easily.

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I eat more than my fair share of red meat, probably too much, and even then my iron levels are not up to par. My body doesn't seem to absorb the iron adequately. It goes beyond eating the right foods, although that can't hurt of course.
 
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Strange how this is that way. Why would an increase in iron effect your mood so dramatically, especially because you lack it? Have you tried eating soybeans products? soybeans have a lot of iron in them. Have a nice meal, red lintels with tuna, onions, garlic and peas, or a nice piece of sirloin steak. That should take care of shortages in your iron levels. Such a meals have a lot of natural iron maybe your body can absorb that more easily.

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I recently read that iron in spinach and moringa leaves is not easily absorbed by humans. I wonder if soybeans are the same, if it is just iron in plants in general.
 
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I may just have to resort to a half a cup of coffee instead. This iron is hard to adjust to this time around...it's just that anemia is so debilitating that it's not even funny, and you can't fool your body with coffee...
 
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I have very horrible feelings, as if God have forsaken me and I have lost the salvation. I think probably it is the accuse from the liar, which tempts me not to trust God’s Love and Forgiveness to me any longer. So please pray for me that i can trust Jesus Christ’s loving truth more and resist the liar. Your prayers are very appreciated. :bow:Lord, please forgive me a serious sinner.:bow:
Your post reminded me of the prodigal son. See how The Father ran to His lost son, welcomed him home and threw His arms around him. That’s how your Father loves you
 
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Feeling down again. i had a few days break but yesterday afternoon i crashed, and i'm still feeling pretty low. The lows are getting lower each cycle it seems. Not feeling the best.
 
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I recently read that iron in spinach and moringa leaves is not easily absorbed by humans. I wonder if soybeans are the same, if it is just iron in plants in general.

i think you might be right, red meat works better, still it can't do any harm eating food with a lot of iron in it.

i know that iron shortage is linked to depression, too much iron as well, so it is important to get it right.
 
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I may just have to resort to a half a cup of coffee instead. This iron is hard to adjust to this time around...it's just that anaemia is so debilitating that it's not even funny, and you can't fool your body with coffee...

i think coffee only stops iron absorption soon after and before a meal. If you drink coffee and wait two three hours before you eat iron laden foods it doesn't interfere with the iron absorption.

Are you supplementing vitamin B12 and foliate? Shortage in those can be part of the problem.
 
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