The sister text to this is Matthew 5:28 with no brother or sister qualifier.
Overlooking the point that our intents also count as sins as vile as others, in this case, hating = murder, is quite the rotten camel to swallow.
Again, you overlook the obvious, and the critical:
"But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." --Matthew 5:28
The text says nothing about love or hate.
Hating is not equal to murder!
You're twisting the scriptures, and without any real reason! Why?
Only murderers hate their brother, but those who hate murderers have a heart after God's own:
"Surely thou wilt slay the wicked, O God: depart from me therefore, ye bloody men. For they speak against thee wickedly, and thine enemies take thy name in vain. Do not I hate them, O Lord, that hate thee? and am not I grieved with those that rise up against thee? I hate them with perfect hatred: I count them mine enemies. Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: and see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting." --Psalms 139:19-24
David's perfect hatred was only due to his fervent love toward God: so too is God's perfect hatred from His perfect love--for He is love, thus His hatred is perfect.
You can only hate solely as much as you love.
Take narcissists, for example, their great hatred of anyone who comes against them is due to their great love for themselves: for they love themselves above anyone else.
The more you love, the more you hate, it's inescapable.
It was by His great love for what was once good, that God destroyed the whole world by a flood.
It will also be by His great love for what is to come, that He will destroy the whole world by fire.
This hatred of evil only comes from the love of good.
--truly, I'm impressed with how far we've all gotten from what is simply true.
May God continue His mercy on us all. Amen.