How to trust God when your life has been a series of bad events?

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I know being a Christian doesn't make everything better but it shouldn't be this difficult either.
I feel like I literally can not trust God--I feel He doesn't have my best interest at heart just what He wants.

I didn't get into my program (rejected)
struggling in poverty
toxic parents ( Tried to move out but there's always a block. Not lazy by any means)
No friends ( from as long as I can remember I've always been alone and lonely no one really stuck with me from school, college years, not in church no matter how friendly i am. It just doesn't work out.

My son's health issues
My own mental issues getting worse
Bad church experience
God's silence from the time I was saved to now..

Idk I feel like no matter what I do it's destined to fail. I truly feel like a Lazarus Archetype-- I'm just meant to tread wih my head above water until I die and then and only then will things get better. Sucks but I feel this is my cross to bear bc no matter how hard I work nothing comes together, I pray get no answers.

Idk I just have zero faith that God will do anything for me except what He wants which seems to be nothing. I just can't trust God because of this. I also dont have much self esteem or belief in myself because of this.


How to trust God when your life has been a series of bad events?

Actually, it is HOW to "Trust God" whether Either good or bad events,
because ALL of us are/have been IN THE SAME sinking boat of sin, Deserving
Eternal
Condemnation! {FAR FAR Worse Than Any "bad events" we go
through!:

God’s ETERNAL Salvation Is As Simple As Can Be = ”believe”

The Gospel Of The GRACE Of God!:

For I [ Paul! ] delivered unto you first of all That Which I also received,
How That CHRIST Died For our sins According To The Scriptures; And
That HE Was Buried, And That HE Rose Again the third day According
To The Scriptures!”
( 1 Cor 15 : 3-4 KJB! )
+
"For By GRACE are ye SAVED Through faith; and that not of yourselves:
It Is The Gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast!"
( Eph 2 : 8-9! cp Most of Romans through Philemon # KJB! )
{ GRACE [God's UNmerited Favor] Found 85 Times! }


No, God IS NOT "Silent" = Please, Read AND RE-Read THESE, To
"begin to KNOW" What God IS Doing, Today! HE LOVES you MORE
than you will Ever Know!:


# Romans – Philemon KJB! = God's GRACE/PEACE Love Letters
For us Today, For: Consolation, Comfort, Edification, Enjoyment,
Encouragement, And spiritual Building Up Of All The BLOOD-Washed
"members ( saints!" ) In The Body Of CHRIST!, HIS Church, Seated In
Heaven!
Amen?


"To The Praise And The Glory Of HIS {Amazing} GRACE!"
 
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I know being a Christian doesn't make everything better but it shouldn't be this difficult either.
I feel like I literally can not trust God--I feel He doesn't have my best interest at heart just what He wants.

I didn't get into my program (rejected)
struggling in poverty
toxic parents ( Tried to move out but there's always a block. Not lazy by any means)
No friends ( from as long as I can remember I've always been alone and lonely no one really stuck with me from school, college years, not in church no matter how friendly i am. It just doesn't work out.

My son's health issues
My own mental issues getting worse
Bad church experience
God's silence from the time I was saved to now..

Idk I feel like no matter what I do it's destined to fail. I truly feel like a Lazarus Archetype-- I'm just meant to tread wih my head above water until I die and then and only then will things get better. Sucks but I feel this is my cross to bear bc no matter how hard I work nothing comes together, I pray get no answers.

Idk I just have zero faith that God will do anything for me except what He wants which seems to be nothing. I just can't trust God because of this. I also dont have much self esteem or belief in myself because of this.
I lost those I love most, and am sometimes hesitant to pray, 'Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven', yet I do pray that, because I know His will is right.

It's hard for me to write this, but I feel I must: it's hard for me to talk about them, cause they were all my love...

--Thank the Lord that you still have your son, and that against all evil God has kept his life.

We must persevere, especially when things seem bleak.

I've learned to be more humble, and thankful, for everything.

I hope in God, that He will keep me until the day of His appearing, to restore my soul, from what I've lost.

Look out into the world and see, you are fortunate, very fortunate indeed.

Meditate on the good that you do have, and thank Him for it, everyday, for it is by His grace that it remains.

Be at peace sister, knowing that this time is just for a little while.

Amen.
 
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This was so beautifully said. I just wish I pressed on like you but instead I made many many mistakes. Thankyou.

What I shared was a VERY edited version because I didn't want to be up in here writing a book ^_^. The only reason I made it to the other side of it all was because of the Godhead (God the Father, Jesus Christ, & The Holy Spirit). I don't want to give you the impression that I walked a straight line because that's just not true. I zigzagged all over the place.

I made many mistakes, sinned, fainted, gave up, wished for death...you name it. I was one hot mess but that never stopped God from being who He is in my life and accomplishing what He purposed both for me and in me. In part I think that's why it's such a private matter/process between the person and God because it is so messy. Sure I repented, surrendered, and submitted several times over but it really was the power of God that carried me through. To God be the glory and His alone.

One of the things I know to be true is that God redeems our mistakes and they are under the blood of the Lamb. Whatever consequences we may have to deal with, He's right there with us and we have access to His Wisdom, guidance, and resources.

It really did all work together for my good even though at the time when I was in it, I couldn't see it. It wasn't until I came through it all and looked back that I could see God's handiwork and Word all up and through my life.

One day you will say the same. He's bringing you through but right now you can't see it because you're in it but one day you will be on the other side of it all. God will give you a new song. He will heal/restore you and you will rejoice. I know right now that may be hard for you to believe but it's true. You're okay...God's got you...
 
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I suggest that you focus on your blessings. Do you have good physical health? If so give thanks for that. You have a son, give thanks for that. You must be using a pc or a phone to post this here, give thanks for access to that. Try and gather all the things that you are glad to have and give thanks to God for them.

I was born with a rare condition and started seizures at 13 months. I have had to take medication all my life. My first child died from a birth defect. My mind is foggy even on the best of days and I sleep poorly and I have physical health problems as long as your arm. My mother developed severe depression (was hospitalized for it at a mental hospital) later on she developed dementia before dying 2 years ago. I am all too aware of how serious mental health issues can be and keep a lookout on myself and my kids for any signs of it. The fact that I have 2 healthy children is another blessing. They both have learning issues but they have good physical health. I have never been prone to depression which is another one of my blessings as I do view myself as being blessed because without the sezure medication and all the supliments that I take, I would be in a much worse way. I am married and there is a roof over our heads.

Is your cup half-full or half-empty? Viewpoint is everything.
Right now I have a bucket on my kitchen counter to catch the drip since the roof needs fixing-again. This could be viewed as just another curse, but I say that drip could have been over my bed or in a closet where it went unseen until much later, so the fact it is easily seen and caught is a blessing.

Then take steps as another poster suggested. There is help available, search it out. Especially mental health. This is what is bringing you down so that the blessings are hidden and all you can see is the dark.

he's given you more than you ever lost what did he give you?
He gave us eternal life.
 
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Friend, God isn't going to magically come in and change your life. To change your life, you have to start with changing your mindset. Give up the negative for the positive.
Ok...you didn't get the program you wanted...what was your 2nd choice?
Your parents are toxic...you can deal with that in a variety of ways.

Change starts when YOU start on that road. Nobody's life is a bed of roses. I have been blessed in a number of ways but I lost the love of my life...I had to sit and watch as the cancer ate him away. I watched both my parents die. Yeah, that was horrid. I have 2 choices. I can sit and wallow in the darkness of the crummy stuff or I can reach for the light...Jesus. I can sit and wallow in the loss of my husband, my lifemate, my best friend, the best part of me...OR I can get up, go out, and DO something with my life. I had retired and was caring for him after his first major illness...then he died. So...I returned to teaching. I relocated closer to my extended family. Although I really don't like where I'm living, I like being close to family. I can fuss and cuss about being "stuck" in the frozen tundra I now call home, 800 miles from where I lived and loved living there OR I can get out, deal with the winter, deal with having to find a new church, deal with having to figure out how to get to the grocery store.
Friends...I'm not one for many friends...I'm an introvert. Teaching my students is enough face to face interaction for me. Physically, I'm not in great shape. Between a car accident and caring for my husband, I've managed to destroy myself. I haven't had a pain-free full night's sleep in years.
Again, I can fuss and cuss and cry about all this or I can get up in the morning, slap a smile on my face, thank God for my delicious coffee, my goofy puppy who is overjoyed every morning when her mommy gets up, for my overly affectionate cats that have no concept of personal space.

The choice is yours. You can cuss and fuss or you can stand up and DO.
 
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I know being a Christian doesn't make everything better but it shouldn't be this difficult either.
I feel like I literally can not trust God--I feel He doesn't have my best interest at heart just what He wants.

I didn't get into my program (rejected)
struggling in poverty
toxic parents ( Tried to move out but there's always a block. Not lazy by any means)
No friends ( from as long as I can remember I've always been alone and lonely no one really stuck with me from school, college years, not in church no matter how friendly i am. It just doesn't work out.

My son's health issues
My own mental issues getting worse
Bad church experience
God's silence from the time I was saved to now..

Idk I feel like no matter what I do it's destined to fail. I truly feel like a Lazarus Archetype-- I'm just meant to tread wih my head above water until I die and then and only then will things get better. Sucks but I feel this is my cross to bear bc no matter how hard I work nothing comes together, I pray get no answers.

Idk I just have zero faith that God will do anything for me except what He wants which seems to be nothing. I just can't trust God because of this. I also dont have much self esteem or belief in myself because of this.

All of this I can relate to (except I don't have children). From my birth to my twenties I have never had a real friend, and the strange thing is - I knew that deep in my heart even though from appearance I had many "friends". I also have lived a lonely life searching for love and its meaning. My parents were toxic to each other and spread to us, the children. I also wanted badly to move out, and like you, got road blocked.
I've also had bad church experiences, and been face to face with demons (I didn't know this then, but I do now).
God had been silent to me as well, many a time growing up.

I can go on and on, but when I look back now God has shown me why. In my life, God had to get me to a place of repentance so I could freely give my heart to Him. I thought I had done this (and I remember doing so many times throughout my life), but I never realized I had been half-hearted that entire time. I didn't know who Jesus Christ really was either even though I had read the Bible throughout my teens. I never understood His Word, never did I realize that I need God's help in understanding His Wisdom. I tried going by my own strength and my own way instead of His - was my problem. I had to truly let go and give God the reigns of my life, and allow Him to guide me in this new life with Him.

I truly hope my testimony helps you in some way. I was where you are now, and believe me - I know how you feel. Praying for you, friend. :yellowheart:
 
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There are a few important places in the Bible to look when dealing with this kind of situation...Matthew 5-7/Luke 6 and James 1. We look with human eyes and see how blessed people who live comfortable lives are, how the rich live easy and have things simply handed to them. Yet Jesus says that the poor are the ones who are blessed, the ones who are in the middle of suffering, the ones who are being done wrong by. Why? Because Jesus is with them, they have an opportunity to be in God's presence in a way that those who have no reason to perceive the wrongness of this world cannot fathom. When we find ourselves in suffering we can either look at that suffering and pity ourselves, or we can see the invitation from God to cast ourselves on Him and seek His peace that cannot be stolen. Yet it is so easy for us to get lost in the hard things, to let them blind us from the important truth. Blessed are the poor. Blessed are they that mourn. Blessed are you when you suffer persecution. Blessed.
 
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The Bible has warned that the Christian walk WILL be hard.

Also, I STRONGLY recommend NEVER getting involved in the Oppression Olympics. ALL participants believe themselves to be the gold medallist.

Jesus Sends Out the Twelve
1 Jesus called his twelve disciples to him and gave them authority to drive out impure spirits and to heal every disease and sickness.

2 These are the names of the twelve apostles: first, Simon (who is called Peter) and his brother Andrew; James son of Zebedee, and his brother John; 3 Philip and Bartholomew; Thomas and Matthew the tax collector; James son of Alphaeus, and Thaddaeus; 4 Simon the Zealot and Judas Iscariot, who betrayed him.

5 These twelve Jesus sent out with the following instructions: “Do not go among the Gentiles or enter any town of the Samaritans. 6 Go rather to the lost sheep of Israel. 7 As you go, proclaim this message: ‘The kingdom of heaven has come near.’ 8 Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse those who have leprosy, drive out demons. Freely you have received; freely give.

9 “Do not get any gold or silver or copper to take with you in your belts— 10 no bag for the journey or extra shirt or sandals or a staff, for the worker is worth his keep. 11 Whatever town or village you enter, search there for some worthy person and stay at their house until you leave. 12 As you enter the home, give it your greeting. 13 If the home is deserving, let your peace rest on it; if it is not, let your peace return to you. 14 If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, leave that home or town and shake the dust off your feet. 15 Truly I tell you, it will be more bearable for Sodom and Gomorrah on the day of judgment than for that town.

16 “I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves. 17 Be on your guard; you will be handed over to the local councils and be flogged in the synagogues. 18 On my account you will be brought before governors and kings as witnesses to them and to the Gentiles. 19 But when they arrest you, do not worry about what to say or how to say it. At that time you will be given what to say, 20 for it will not be you speaking, but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you.

21 “Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child; children will rebel against their parents and have them put to death. 22 You will be hated by everyone because of me, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved. 23 When you are persecuted in one place, flee to another. Truly I tell you, you will not finish going through the towns of Israel before the Son of Man comes.

24 “The student is not above the teacher, nor a servant above his master. 25 It is enough for students to be like their teachers, and servants like their masters. If the head of the house has been called Beelzebul, how much more the members of his household!

26 “So do not be afraid of them, for there is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known. 27 What I tell you in the dark, speak in the daylight; what is whispered in your ear, proclaim from the roofs. 28 Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell. 29 Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground outside your Father’s care. 30 And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. 31 So don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.

32 “Whoever acknowledges me before others, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven. 33 But whoever disowns me before others, I will disown before my Father in heaven.

34 “Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 For I have come to turn

“‘a man against his father,
a daughter against her mother,
a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law—
36 a man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.’

37 “Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. 38 Whoever does not take up their cross and follow me is not worthy of me. 39 Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it.

40 “Anyone who welcomes you welcomes me, and anyone who welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me. 41 Whoever welcomes a prophet as a prophet will receive a prophet’s reward, and whoever welcomes a righteous person as a righteous person will receive a righteous person’s reward. 42 And if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones who is my disciple, truly I tell you, that person will certainly not lose their reward.”
~Matthew 10 (NIV)

Bible Gateway passage: Matthew 10 - King James Version
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Bible Gateway passage: Matthew 10 - International Children’s Bible

The Cost of Being a Disciple
25 Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said: 26 “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple. 27 And whoever does not carry their cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.

28 “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? 29 For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, 30 saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish.’

31 “Or suppose a king is about to go to war against another king. Won’t he first sit down and consider whether he is able with ten thousand men to oppose the one coming against him with twenty thousand? 32 If he is not able, he will send a delegation while the other is still a long way off and will ask for terms of peace. 33 In the same way, those of you who do not give up everything you have cannot be my disciples.

34 “Salt is good, but if it loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? 35 It is fit neither for the soil nor for the manure pile; it is thrown out.

“Whoever has ears to hear, let them hear.”
~Luke 14:25-35 (NIV)

Bible Gateway passage: Luke 14 - King James Version
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Jesus Promises the Holy Spirit
15 “If you love me, keep my commands. 16 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— 17 the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you. 18 I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. 19 Before long, the world will not see me anymore, but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live. 20 On that day you will realize that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you. 21 Whoever has my commands and keeps them is the one who loves me. The one who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love them and show myself to them.”

22 Then Judas (not Judas Iscariot) said, “But, Lord, why do you intend to show yourself to us and not to the world?”


23 Jesus replied, “Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them. 24 Anyone who does not love me will not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me.


25 “All this I have spoken while still with you. 26 But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. 27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

28 “You heard me say, ‘I am going away and I am coming back to you.’ If you loved me, you would be glad that I am going to the Father, for the Father is greater than I. 29 I have told you now before it happens, so that when it does happen you will believe. 30 I will not say much more to you, for the prince of this world is coming. He has no hold over me, 31 but he comes so that the world may learn that I love the Father and do exactly what my Father has commanded me.

“Come now; let us leave.
~John 14:15-31 (NIV)

Bible Gateway passage: John 14 - King James Version
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The World Hates the Disciples
18 “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. 19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. 20 Remember what I told you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. 21 They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the one who sent me. 22 If I had not come and spoken to them, they would not be guilty of sin; but now they have no excuse for their sin. 23 Whoever hates me hates my Father as well. 24 If I had not done among them the works no one else did, they would not be guilty of sin. As it is, they have seen, and yet they have hated both me and my Father. 25 But this is to fulfill what is written in their Law: ‘They hated me without reason.’
~John 15:18-25 (NIV)

Bible Gateway passage: John 15 - King James Version
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Also, I STRONGLY recommend NEVER getting involved in the Oppression Olympics. ALL participants believe themselves to be the gold medallist.

I'm not even close...and I know that. However, again, like everything else...I can choose to wallow in the pity pit, hiss, spit, fuss and cuss and cry "woe is me" OR I can haul my decrepit backside out of bed, find joy in the livestock that swear they're going to starve to death, and tell me about it quite loudly and insistently before I've had my coffee, enjoy teaching my class even when my students frustrate me and thank God I have another day to do whatever.
Personally, I am happy to have another day. I have the power within me to CHOOSE...to be happy
 
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I know being a Christian doesn't make everything better but it shouldn't be this difficult either.
I feel like I literally can not trust God--I feel He doesn't have my best interest at heart just what He wants.

I didn't get into my program (rejected)
struggling in poverty
toxic parents ( Tried to move out but there's always a block. Not lazy by any means)
No friends ( from as long as I can remember I've always been alone and lonely no one really stuck with me from school, college years, not in church no matter how friendly i am. It just doesn't work out.

My son's health issues
My own mental issues getting worse
Bad church experience
God's silence from the time I was saved to now..

Idk I feel like no matter what I do it's destined to fail. I truly feel like a Lazarus Archetype-- I'm just meant to tread wih my head above water until I die and then and only then will things get better. Sucks but I feel this is my cross to bear bc no matter how hard I work nothing comes together, I pray get no answers.

Idk I just have zero faith that God will do anything for me except what He wants which seems to be nothing. I just can't trust God because of this. I also dont have much self esteem or belief in myself because of this.
Hi Macchiato, I'm sorry that you are having such a horrible time. I think many of us have had times of difficulty, but I am one who can testify to the Lord bringing me through it. Prayer does work, and He definitely loves us - He gave His son to die for us (John 3 v 16).

I also believe He wants us to have an abundant life (John 10 v 10) - I don't mean in terms of wealth, but purposeful and joyful (in His love, even if circumstances are difficult). The kingdom of Heaven is in us; it's our inner spiritual life, if I'm understanding Luke 17 v 21 correctly. It starts when we are saved; and you say that you are. I don't mean that we won't have problems or be asked to do hard things sometimes, but the Lord will never give us more than we can bear, and as we live for Him He blesses us too. But we need to give everything to Him and put His kingdom first. Look at Matthew 6 v 25-34, especially v 33.

So our desire should be to see the Kingdom grow, and we work towards that even if we're doing our daily job, the housework, looking after children or any other legitimate activity. So how about asking Him where He wants you to live, what job He wants you to do and what church to belong to? Then believe that He will answer and go wherever He leads you. Pray for healing for your son and for any counselling or support He would like you to have for your mental health. Pray for your parents and your relationship with them and also for friends, especially Christian ones. I feel for you when you mentioned your life being lonely. Perhaps ask God why and ask Him to lead you to people who are kind and sympathetic.

Don't forget to read the Bible, so you get a clear idea of what God is saying. When I was struggling I found some of the Psalms helpful: 23, 34, 46, 91, 103, 139, 145 especially. Remember if you are saved you are covered by Jesus' blood so any promises for the righteous will include you. (Also it's our salvation which determines our future destination).

I think I had a wrong idea of God, and I found it helpful to read Genesis 1 very slowly, pausing every time it says "And God saw that it was good.". That is what God created for us: not problems and heartache. It's mankind and Satan who messed it up - not God. He is pure goodness and pure love. :)
 
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Thank you all for such amazing testimonies and stories its really helped me. I just thought if my life wasnt amazing like some christian youtubers ( house, married,kids, solid job) i wasnt doing things right.

Thank you all for your loving comments.
 
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Thank you all for such amazing testimonies and stories its really helped me. I just thought if my life wasnt amazing like some christian youtubers ( house, married,kids, solid job) i wasnt doing things right.

Thank you all for your loving comments.

Please go find a song named "The Grand Illusion" by Styx on YouTube. It's all about how the things in magazines, movies, social media is FAKE. That is SO not reality.
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