Thats a stupid assumption. Do we refuse to allow men and women to compete against each other in boxing because we hate women? Do we refuse to allow children to drive cars because we hate them? Differential treatment does not equate to hatred. It can be done with love. To assume that it can't is a pretty big assumption that does not reflect the reality of life in this world. It's also true that the Bible says that teachers are to be judged a lot more harshly than anyone else, you could make the case that it's gracious not to allow women to put themselves on the line like that.
But we're not using this world to justify scripture.
We are using scripture to justify what we should be doing in this world.
Matthew 7:12
“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.
Luke 6:31
And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.
Galatians 5:14
For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
Leviticus 19:18
You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.
Ephesians 4
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Romans 13:9
For the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and any other commandment,
are summed up in this word:
“You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
Mark 12:31
The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”
Matthew 22:39
And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
Matthew 19:19
Honor your father and mother, and, You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
Matthew 5:44
But I say to you, Love your enemies...
James 2:8
If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself,” you are doing well.
Romans 13:8-10
Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. For the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and any other commandment,
are summed up in this word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
Luke 10:27
And he answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.”
Mark 12:33
And to love him with all the heart and with all the understanding and with all the strength, and to love one's neighbor as oneself, is much more than all whole burnt offerings and sacrifices.”
Matthew 22:37-40
And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.”
Ephesians 4:32
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.