Your post came across as "Put the baby up for adoption to a married couple," which is not a biblical commandment or admonition.
I never said that.
I responded to one poster who said they could not ever adopt a child out and I responded to them by saying "I couldn't either, but if she truly doesn't have the means to care for a child, having someone adopt them is the loving thing to do."
Seems like many people these days
don't know that.
Many, many converts to Christ marry berfore they are brought to Christ. If those converts weren't raised as Christians, how do they know how to choose a mate? If they were raised by a Christian and non-Christian, do they know who is a Christian? Do they know the definition of a Christian? Do they know how to identify a Christian?
Again absolutely nothing to do with what I wrote. I made no hints to any of that. I don't know what you are reading but it certainly isn't my posts
Again, I was trying to say that children from single parent families are at greater risk -denial on this is not helpful to a single parent. A wise parent not only acknowledges this but takes active steps to try to negate the risk. We all need help at times and not seeking it when its needed is called pride. Well we all know what comes after pride.
2) Anything below this is not the ideal.
1 Samuel 16:7 NIV
But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."
Mortality isn't ideal --- no thanks to Adam.
That quote is how the Lord looks upon the heart of a man not how he looks. Again absolutely nothing to do with what I was saying.
And yes no thanks to Adam, but I fully believe whoever God created, it would have gone the same way.
So the ideal is something most people haven't experienced.
Out in the world no, but this is a Christian forum on a Christian only section and hopefully the number here is considerably larger.
1 Samuel 16:7
But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."
Only the Omniscient Lord sees people's hearts.
Yes of course. Yes again this has nothing to do with children of single parents being at greater risk or single parents being wise to address the issues. Which is what my posts are and were about not appearances.
I don't think we intentionally read anthing into your post what isn't there.
It certainly feels that way.
Your communication wasn't clear. I wasn't trying to make you angry. Please forgive me. Some of us imperfect humans neglected to ask you what you are trying to say. I know that I have trouble communicating. Let's try to understand one another.
God bless and thank you for clearing things up a little.
I'm not angry, somewhat frustrated and a little upset. I'm a mother of 3, 2 earthy and 1 heavenly and as a mother I know how hard it is. Being a single parent would be extremely tough and I wasn't trying to criticize anyone but giving some advice. Sorry if what I wrote wasn't clear, I may not always be the best with words.
Of course, please forgive me too.