PloverWing
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- May 5, 2012
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@Paidiske has said it well, but I wanted to add my agreement. Sports competition is one of the few areas where body type matters, so I think it does make sense to have men's and women's divisions for some sports. But cognitive abilities and spiritual wisdom are different; they don't depend on one's height, or the width of one's shoulders or hips.
Like Paidiske, I don't fit well into the boxes. I make my living teaching math and logic to (mostly male) college students, and I'm pretty good at it. I wasted way too many years of my young adult life wrestling with self-doubt, because of some statements by some Christian leaders that women weren't good at mathematical fields. Eventually, I figured out that if there's any truth in that assertion, it's like the bell curves in Paidiske's post, and why should a tiny difference in the center point of a bell curve keep me from living my life? (It was satisfying that the solution to my conundrum came through a deeper understanding of mathematics. )
@Direct Driver , surely you're not suggesting that there's a spiritual difference between men and women, that there are two spiritual boxes that we're supposed to stuff ourselves into?
Like Paidiske, I don't fit well into the boxes. I make my living teaching math and logic to (mostly male) college students, and I'm pretty good at it. I wasted way too many years of my young adult life wrestling with self-doubt, because of some statements by some Christian leaders that women weren't good at mathematical fields. Eventually, I figured out that if there's any truth in that assertion, it's like the bell curves in Paidiske's post, and why should a tiny difference in the center point of a bell curve keep me from living my life? (It was satisfying that the solution to my conundrum came through a deeper understanding of mathematics. )
@Direct Driver , surely you're not suggesting that there's a spiritual difference between men and women, that there are two spiritual boxes that we're supposed to stuff ourselves into?
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