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I've been wanting to go on a 10 day fast for spiritual health and physical health but, I fail each time I try to fast. I dedicate my day to a fast then boom 24 hours later I fail again. I see other spiritual friends talk about how easy it is for them and I just feel like a failure. Which im not thats just the enemy but I used to be very disciplined now I fell off the wagon. I'm eating bread which is bad for me by the way. I want have a fasting life style and I can't fast most days past 6-6pm. or 24hours. eventually I'll eat something I shouldn't therefore with my health im back at square one. I just want prayer that I can resist temptation to eat food and be successful on a 21 day fast that can be limited down to beans water fruits and vegetables. I want to do 10 days but to stretch my faith 21 days would be best. I didn't realize how hard it is to just let go of food. Seems like a small battle but its warfare man lol Can someone pray for me and in return i'll pray for you. Thank you.
 

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First off, NEVER compare yourself to others. God does NOT care how you measure up to the next person. God cares about how much you love Him and His other creations. These are the GREATEST commandments in the Bible. (Luke 10:25-37, Mark 12:28-34, Matthew 22:34-40)

I highly recommend learning the Fruit of the Spirit compared to the Acts of the Flesh in Galatians 5.
1 Corinthians 13 is also a good read to know what true love is, even when spiritually gifted.

1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. 2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.

4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

8 Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part. 10 But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away.

11 When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. 12 For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.

13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
~1 Corinthians 13:1-13 (NKJV)

Bible Gateway passage: 1 Corinthians 13 - King James Version
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7 You ran well. Who hindered you from obeying the truth? 8 This persuasion does not come from Him who calls you. 9 A little leaven leavens the whole lump. 10 I have confidence in you, in the Lord, that you will have no other mind; but he who troubles you shall bear his judgment, whoever he is.

11 And I, brethren, if I still preach circumcision, why do I still suffer persecution? Then the offense of the cross has ceased. 12 I could wish that those who trouble you would even cut themselves off!

13 For you, brethren, have been called to liberty; only do not use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. 14 For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” 15 But if you bite and devour one another, beware lest you be consumed by one another!

Walking in the Spirit
16 I say then: Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh. 17 For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, so that you do not do the things that you wish. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.

19 Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, 20 idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, 21 envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. 24 And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.
~Galatians 5:7-27 (NKJV)

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If you cannot do fasting, then you are not expected to nor should you attempt it if it is only hurting you. I personally cannot fast, especially because I have suffered dizzy spells in the past due to poor eating habits. Certain acts of worship are certainly not for everyone. God desires mercy, not sacrifice. (Matthew 9:9-13)

Instead, I would pray for the following things each day: Humility, discernment, wisdom, effective communication, and good sleep. You cannot go wrong with these in your life.

Take care, stay safe, and God bless!
 
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I've been wanting to go on a 10 day fast for spiritual health and physical health but, I fail each time I try to fast. I dedicate my day to a fast then boom 24 hours later I fail again. I see other spiritual friends talk about how easy it is for them and I just feel like a failure. Which im not thats just the enemy but I used to be very disciplined now I fell off the wagon. I'm eating bread which is bad for me by the way. I want have a fasting life style and I can't fast most days past 6-6pm. or 24hours. eventually I'll eat something I shouldn't therefore with my health im back at square one. I just want prayer that I can resist temptation to eat food and be successful on a 21 day fast that can be limited down to beans water fruits and vegetables. I want to do 10 days but to stretch my faith 21 days would be best. I didn't realize how hard it is to just let go of food. Seems like a small battle but its warfare man lol Can someone pray for me and in return i'll pray for you. Thank you.
Maybe try approaching this from the other direction. Start with a 24 hour fast. You can do that. Next try a 48 hour fast, you did 24 now you can do 48, success builds on success. Keep going by increasing the fast one day at a time. You do not become a distance runner by trying to run 10 miles the first day.
 
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Fasting too much can be bad for your health. It is actually starving your body, and can weaken your adrenals and if that happens, they may never recover and that leads to other health problems. Yes, Moses and Messiah fasted for 40 d & n, but they ain't us!

I have found that a 24 hour water only fast just once a week, with prayer of course, can work wonders.

I pray you will be given the strength to fast if and as the Lord wishes.
 
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I've been wanting to go on a 10 day fast for spiritual health and physical health but, I fail each time I try to fast. I dedicate my day to a fast then boom 24 hours later I fail again. I see other spiritual friends talk about how easy it is for them and I just feel like a failure. Which im not thats just the enemy but I used to be very disciplined now I fell off the wagon. I'm eating bread which is bad for me by the way. I want have a fasting life style and I can't fast most days past 6-6pm. or 24hours. eventually I'll eat something I shouldn't therefore with my health im back at square one. I just want prayer that I can resist temptation to eat food and be successful on a 21 day fast that can be limited down to beans water fruits and vegetables. I want to do 10 days but to stretch my faith 21 days would be best. I didn't realize how hard it is to just let go of food. Seems like a small battle but its warfare man lol Can someone pray for me and in return i'll pray for you. Thank you.


Never compare your journey to anyone else's. God made us all unique in our own way. I have googled and discovered that there are different types of fasting methods that may or may not work for you. Prayers sent that you are able to do so to make this fasting journey an easy and blessing for you! ;)
 
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You're not a failure at all. The Lord knows your heart and He cares, so much for you.

Be very prayerful about it and let the Lord lead. Try simpler things like setting aside, one day in each week where you get to spend some quality time in His presence, in prayer, as you also take something light like fruits. Slowly you'll be getting yourself into a routine by so doing. But don't forget to, pray for strength and a heart that continues to chase after Jesus.
 
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