It doesnt naturally happen, I feel like its impossible to love someone who abuse you for a long time. We are just little humans we have feelings we are not robots. God wants us to bless are enemies and love them, if i pray to god to bless my enemies and love them i will be lying, I dont like pretending to love someone. I just can't . Animals dont even love their abusers
Thanks .
I would say without God whose very essence is Love and not just a attribute of His power. Without that power or authroity it is impossible to forgive.
He gives us his understanding or hearing of new faith and it defines forgiveness. If we do not know the thoughts and ways of each other seen , how could we say we hear God unless he did the first work the hearing of His understanding called faith in us again not of us who have no faith by which we could understand. ?
Roman 3: 11 There is
none that understandeth, there is
none that seeketh after God.
I would offer as a fallen dying creation that has no power to please God not seen, therefore having no desire to seek after a understanding . If they have no agreement with him how could you seek after his will to begin with and therefore disagreement.?
He works the first supernatural works in us giving us ear to hear His Holy Spirit and a desire or new heart to perform "believing God with us" (Emanuel) It would seem to be the same forgiven love we return to if we harden our hearts .Receiving the end of our new faith from the beginning . . the very salvation of our new soul.
It can be a hard work loving ones enemy forgiving them. Only God can forgive and cast the guilt as far as East is from West. We must work hard to remember we have forgiven. . . empowered by our forgiving father. .
We are not in the place of God the one and only who can forgive and cast the guilt away as far as South is of West.
How many times per day ? 7 times 70 = to many times.
Pray as a blessing coming from God working with you for strength or a desire to bless our enemies and love them and not like Jonah who choose the sufferings of hell rather than work with the Holy Spirit, three times Jonah asked for strength then denied the power knowing God was a God of mercy and would forgive the Ninevites just as he was personally forgiven receiving the end of his new born again faith from the beginning..
The Son of man Jesus did the will of the father with delight. Pray he lighten the load. So the we can call him our forgiving Holy Father.
With God all things are possible without nothing is possible that could please His Spirit of truth
Philipiains2:13-12 For
it is God which worketh in you
both to
will and
to do of
his good pleasure. Do all things
without murmurings and disputings: