We must love Christ above everything else. I will admit that the times when I have been at my coldest, it has been much easier to bury myself in Church history books, translations of bits of Coptic or Syriac arcana, etc. than to pray. It is as Abba Amun, the disciple of Abba Anthony, put it (paraphrasing because I sadly lost my little booklet of his writings in a move about a year and a half ago):
when you see your heart in deep slumber, weighed down by many sins, arise and interrogate it so that it may become fiery again. No attachment to any aspect of Church, no matter how edifying to the intellect or the fleshly senses, will keep a person there if they do not have love and wise fear of Christ our God, and His good Father, and the Holy Spirit, the Lord and life-giver. Lord have mercy.
As for me, I can't say anything better than the Kievan emissaries said as quoted earlier, or what Fr. Matt posted. I honestly couldn't have imagined I'd be where I am now if I was not convinced that God is among us in the Coptic Orthodox Church. I know that's at variance with the official EO view re: the schism, so please don't take that as promotion here. I'm just saying that before I went to my first Coptic Orthodox liturgy, I'd never met or even spoken to an Egyptian person. I had no ties culturally or ethnically to anything Egyptian-related (still don't), and really no business trying another 'Eastern' church and expecting it to be anything different than the ones I had already experienced in my effort to either maintain my flagging Catholicism or just find some place to be. But it was quite different. But that's also not what did it. Plenty of things are different without having the effect of convincing a person to dedicate their life and their death to them.
Luckily for me, when I showed up I didn't find recreations of the pyramids and the sphinx or whatever (
after liturgy, there was some weird food and people yelling about stuff over it, but eh...you're gonna get that anywhere).
Instead I found an entirely other world
in this world, the real uniting of the heavens and the earth in the communion of the Body and the Blood of the One Who is Himself that union of perfect divinity and perfect humanity. It didn't just 'look nice' or 'sound exotic' or any of that stuff (in fact, a very real case could be made that it is significantly less pleasing to the ear than more familiar chant, less relatable to the eye than Byzantine icons, etc.), as though that in itself would be enough to stick around for when you start to notice how reedy the tones are, and the exotic becomes everyday with repeated exposure. It is the presence of God that permeates every gesture, every word, every prayer that reminds me why I am where I am. "The fullness of Him Who fills all in all."