Should I quit watching the News?

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I have been thinking about this for years. In the past I thought I should limit my intake a bit, but as quite often when living at home our meal time coincided with the TV News broadcast it was unavoidable, sometimes resulting in anger over each others take, or comprehension of events. Occasionally we'd have something else on over meal times - a quiz, or a comedy. News doesn't make a good accompaniment to meal times I think. To be honest in the past the news never bothered me as much, I seemed to be able to take it or leave it, probably part an parcel of being young is one doesn't pay a lot of attention to it. I suspect most people are a bit like that - the News may be on but their minds are on other things half the time. I wish I could be like that, but I seem to take on board everything. I think it began years when I thought I was too unconcerned and uncaring about what was happening in the world, and I made myself take more notice, but after a bit I became very depressed and pessimistic, and nihilistic and unbelieving. I was drifting spiritually and my mental health was never great.

My argument for not watching is that I think its beyond most peoples capacity to cope with hearing all that is going on on a daily basis. I don't say one should never watch or read it. I began to suspect also some of the News coverage (and TV in general) was somewhat brain washing and manipulative.

At the present I have lost interest in nearly everything, I cannot pray, I feel like a hypocrite, I wonder if I ever really believed. Some days I spend a lot of it in bed, mainly because I sometimes sit up at night surfing the net, everything from WatchMojo to reading intellectual stuff. I have no social contacts, no work, am on two medications, about the only person I talk to regularly is my mum.

There has got to be good stuff happening, but how much does one hear about on the news.

I think the internet may be worse in a way, depending on where one surfs with all the conspiracy theorists and cranks having a platform, but there is a lot of useful stuff on it too.
 

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A California newspaper once tried to print only good news, and it went out of business after less than a month because there weren't enough stories to print.
 
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Grab a camera and go out and learn how to capture images of enjoyable things. Become connected with the goodness the world has to offer instead of what the people in it insist is important.
 
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A California newspaper once tried to print only good news, and it went out of business after less than a month because there weren't enough stories to print.
A tv show the other day mentioned that because the majority love to see others fail, there is little room in people's hearts for what is good.
 
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Grab a camera and go out and learn how to capture images of enjoyable things. Become connected with the goodness the world has to offer instead of what the people in it insist is important.

I did that a while back but even then I was never really that interested enough in stuff, I'd do it anyway - my camera packed in a while ago - I might get another sometime.
 
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My fiance doesn't watch news and I quit watching CNN, NBC and most other channels.

I got that i didn't care about what was happening - before that I used to pray about stuff in the News. I still struggle to really care about anything - I wonder sometimes if that is because I have narrcisstic traits, or if its depression?
 
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A California newspaper once tried to print only good news, and it went out of business after less than a month because there weren't enough stories to print.

To print only good news would be rather a tall order, but they could have maybe tried to increase the %.
There was a british news presenter Marytn Lewis (he used to present And Finally) who years ago said there should be a better balance and more "nice shocks" but he got criticised for saying it.


Being honest I got that even these light hearted News items I hardly cared about either.
 
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I have been thinking about this for years. In the past I thought I should limit my intake a bit, but as quite often when living at home our meal time coincided with the TV News broadcast it was unavoidable, sometimes resulting in anger over each others take, or comprehension of events. Occasionally we'd have something else on over meal times - a quiz, or a comedy. News doesn't make a good accompaniment to meal times I think. To be honest in the past the news never bothered me as much, I seemed to be able to take it or leave it, probably part an parcel of being young is one doesn't pay a lot of attention to it. I suspect most people are a bit like that - the News may be on but their minds are on other things half the time. I wish I could be like that, but I seem to take on board everything. I think it began years when I thought I was too unconcerned and uncaring about what was happening in the world, and I made myself take more notice, but after a bit I became very depressed and pessimistic, and nihilistic and unbelieving. I was drifting spiritually and my mental health was never great.

My argument for not watching is that I think its beyond most peoples capacity to cope with hearing all that is going on on a daily basis. I don't say one should never watch or read it. I began to suspect also some of the News coverage (and TV in general) was somewhat brain washing and manipulative.

At the present I have lost interest in nearly everything, I cannot pray, I feel like a hypocrite, I wonder if I ever really believed. Some days I spend a lot of it in bed, mainly because I sometimes sit up at night surfing the net, everything from WatchMojo to reading intellectual stuff. I have no social contacts, no work, am on two medications, about the only person I talk to regularly is my mum.

There has got to be good stuff happening, but how much does one hear about on the news.

I think the internet may be worse in a way, depending on where one surfs with all the conspiracy theorists and cranks having a platform, but there is a lot of useful stuff on it too.

I mainly stopped watching the news after Trump won in 2016. Just getting through all the debates and attacks prior to his win was enough to give a weaker person PTSD.. lol... It was all just too much at one point. So after that I began getting the news through my husband occasionally telling me this or that was going on, if it was interesting enough I'd look it up to read an article about the topic...

The only other place I get the news is here... which I do periodically read but even that is stressful which I periodically have to avoid and take breaks from.

There's too much anger even here... and it's everywhere... I can't do it much anymore.

And honestly? I'm not missing any thing.. these days you can take a break from hearing anything for a month and come back to it only to find it's the same as it was before. Nothing changes...

However on the flip side, out your front door nature is still beautiful and reminds you of the power God in its splendor and beauty, and if people can avoid talking about the news of the day, you find people are still nice and kind.. a nice break from the hatred we run into online..

Leaves you hoping we can hang onto this a little while longer... whereas if you watch the news, talk about the news, it leaves you without any hope at all...

I say what fills you with hope, is what is from God and what we should cling to - and if that means unplugging, then unplug...
 
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31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: 32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.

I take breaks from watching the news. Once in a while I check it. I pray for people because God helped me endure my childhood and I know He'll help others. A non-relative taught me to pray when I was about four. Thank God for that wonderful Christian! My parents and step-parents and the relatives I knew throughout my childhood weren't Christians --- except for one step-grandmother. She was kind and gentle but I barely ever saw her. I visited her in a nursing home after I married.

Read the Bible a lot. It has so much encouragement!
 
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We do not have to watch TV if we do not like it, esp if it causes unrest during a meal. My wife and I do most of the time BUT we do NOT watch news. We rarely ever watch the news, maybe once a month, and that is only because the online weather reports are not accurate enough. We live 10 mi from where everyone reports the weather for and it makes a big difference for us. Unfortunately, the "local" news is from Grand Rapids about 45mi away but they are more frequently correct than online.

We have been driven away from news due to the increasing bias against Christianity and increased catering to the "politically correct" ideologies over the past few decades AND that goes for regular entertainment programing as well. In order to get the news we have to go to an online live stream from that Fox TV channel as we have no access to regular TV channels: NO cable, satellite, or other TV. There is practically NOTHING there for us, surely NOT worth the expense. We have Netflix and a few other live streaming channels. And the cost of those TV program providers is so prohibitive that one could save a lot of money just buying all seasons of their favorite shows from the past on DVD and watching them. We have Manix, Paper Chase, Barnaby Jones, Mash, Kung Fu, I Love Lucy, Dick Van Dyke, Red Skelton, Lassie, Roy Rogers, Rifleman, Andy of Mayberry and Matlock, and so much more. And the movies......... I do wish that there were more live streamers which cater to the older TV shows in order to get a better variety and not to have to buy them all, if available and cheap enough.

That aside, dms1972, it definitely sounds like your problem with the news is a symptom of a bigger and much more serious problem and I suspect you know what that is. I will pray for your journey. It is very hard and scary work but needs to be done. You ARE worth it. God is holding you tightly if you are His child (believe in the deity and power and gift of and from Jesus) and He will NEVER leave or forsake you.

" For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, ...." Ro 1:20 NIV God's creation all around us is GLORIOUS. If you live in a cement jungle surrounded and engulfed by man-made things get away and take a trip into what God created and relish and breathe in the fresh and glorious wonder of God's creation. Take pictures like another said. If you are normally one who loves to engage with people and are not able to get out for such watch shows or movies which have great and dynamic personal dialog. Video call with those of whom you cherish time together.

There is good around us every where, we just have to WANT to see it. Sometimes that is VERY hard work to see it in humans; very hard for me to see it in others with the Bible telling me not to trust others, even my wife, along with my life's experiences telling me that and Jer 17:9 KJV telling me the condition of any human heart, which includes me, "The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?" The Bible says, "Seek and ye shall find." Whatever we seek we eventually find. This why it is so refreshing to take in the wonders and glories of God's creation around me of forests and lakes and sunsets and sun rises and the animal kingdom. How we can interact with such and enjoy its benefits, including learning to maximize the power of the volume and direction of the constantly changing wind in my sails. Wow! What a dynamic philosophical and theological metaphor! But you gotta know some depth in sailing of all the many things one can do to trim their sails and make boom and mast and ballast and hull adjustments in addition to just steering and swinging boom.
 
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Around WW2 Edward R. Murrow of CBS discussed how to use the new technology of TV best, he favored it to be used to educate and enlighten, CBS decided it should be used to entertain. TV programming morphed into a medium aimed at a 4th grade level, the dumbing down of the populace was in full swing, now hours, days and weeks are spent wasting the gift of time we have been given before we go home and our eternity is determined.
Now it has morphed again into a propaganda medium for that which wars against what is right.
Newsmax, OANN, Right Side Broadcasting, R-TV.com, are now sources of truth and news.
 
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You forgot to put in quotes "truth and news" but point taken by this "dumb" "4th grader." The "boob tube" has been known as such since I was a young kid in my 20's and 30's working hard at 3 jobs simultaneously. I had a great and notorious aversion and repulsion of TV, besides I had no time for it, or anything else but my family was provided for by a single-income earner. Now all of my joints & many of my bones are wore out and painful and my 3.925 agpa honor in the Arts and Sciences bldgat FSU covered with dust and tarnished and my mind having had had enough stress throughout to just scream for a little rest and some entertainment for a change. At least I watch things which challenge one's deductive reasoning and intellect and quick respnses. I do periodically have to tolerate ignorant and just stupid writers, directors, and producers, though more often than I'd like, but that is with the more recent productions (last two or three decades) where little, if any, research and familiarity is done in ANY depth on the niche or environment at hand. I guess that they think that they can distract you with high-speed action and special effects.
 
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got that i didn't care about what was happening - before that I used to pray about stuff in the News. I still struggle to really care about anything - I wonder sometimes if that is because I have narrcisstic traits, or if its depression?

Maybe, because there is so much to care about in the news, your watching so much of it resulted in caring burn out?
 
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