I want to say a few things about WR, my kids, etc. I'll get the difficult point out of the way. If you have really harsh feelings about WR it would be good to remember that: a) You aren't required to go to one b) Since they are in place because of the decisions of bishops we should watch how we address them in discussion. Disagreement and questioning are both healthy. Harsh rhetoric is not.
Regarding my kids. Yes, the WR was instrumental in their conversion. I would say this is truer to my daughter in law than my son. I have zero idea if she would have converted to ER. I will never know because the ER parish near them didn't respond to my Orthodox son (younger) when he tried to find out how to sign up for one of their Covid slots. He has been attending the ER since he started college a year and a half ago. To tell you the truth he has been largely ignored for the entire period. One Sunday he had to get a ride to Liturgy. He felt like he was imposing. The parish is just a few miles from the campus. After coffee hour he called an Uber for a ride home because the priest was having meetings and he felt like others didn't want to take him home. I had even encouraged the priest and others there to engage my oldest son but they didn't follow through. This is not an ER problem, it is a local parish problem. However, it plays into their conversion. When my Orthodox son questioned what he should do, I encouraged him to try the WR parish since it was adjoining campus. The people there are warm, engaged in serious daily Orthodox living, and attentive to inquirers. My Orthodox son was helping them build an iconostasis some time later and asked his older brother for help. He showed up one Saturday and found an open door for beginning a conversation towards conversion. He was Anglican at the time. The warmth of the people got my DIL over the hump into attending. Honestly the liturgy was somewhat familiar to her since they attended a traditional Anglican parish. However it was not the only key to her attendance. My son is inquisitive about teaching, history, and doctrine. My DIL needed a relational connection to move past her hesitance. She was raised Calvary Chapel. The usual roadblocks were there for her. My oldest son was raised to seek truth wherever it may be found. So, together their needs were met at this local parish. Even my Orthodox son has grown tremendously there. A couple in the church took him in and gave him a place to live rent free (their house is where the church is located. It is quite large) instead of having to be in the horrendous atmosphere of the dorms. They knew he was struggling and had compassion. So, truthfully, the daily Orthodoxy of the people at the church made the biggest difference for my two oldest sons and my daughter in law.
Do I wish they were ER? Yes. My 19 year old prefers ER. Would I have that parish change to ER if it meant losing their integrity in daily Orthodoxy? No! Do I expect my kids to eventually move closer and attend the ER with us? Yes, and I don't think it will have any negative effects on my DIL.
Something really drove home the value of THIS local WR parish to me the other day. My oldest son was talking about their conversion and noted something his wife had said. She told him. "If I come across anything I disagree with in Orthodoxy, I just assume I'm wrong." All of us who have been in The Church for a bit of time know this is a very mature and important place for converts to arrive. Many, unfortunately, never do. So, I keep holding to the point that this local parish has helped her get to an important stage rather quickly. This speaks highly of them. For this reason alone I believe that the local parish does not hinge on which rite they use.
All of that being said... I find the most depth in the Eastern Rite. My wife and I would never seek out a WR Parish.