Is there anything unChristian about reciting daily affirmations?

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So I've started a practice of doing daily affirmations based on some recent neuroscience research. I'm learning a person is most susceptible to suggestion first thing in the morning, apparently before the subconscious hijacks your brain and informs your perceptions, so to speak. So i started with productivity affirmations saying things like 'Today I am productive, today Im focused. Today I'm observant. ' And WOW!! more than three weeks into this and I am transformed and all expectations were exceeded.. I can't even really relax until I find new ways to be productive.
So more recently I'm applying this to more Christian ends e.g . "Today I will be patient, Today I will love my neighbor. Today I will not feel guilty.' Just like the productivity affirmations the emotional affirmations also seem to be working. toward the intended purpose. I saw a Christian themed moved called ' As A Man Thinketh' which was inspired by a 19th Century self help book which seems to promote this exact practice. (They seem to be alluding to the 'As a man thinketh' proverb23:7 out of context since it doesn't seem to have anything to do with the development of character or habits.) Anyway the affirmations also work apparently if recited as you fall asleep. Success seems to depend on doing the affirmations when the brain wave state at the time the affirmations are recited. I imagine this is similar to self- hypnosis. I may be wrong but I imagine self- hypnosis requires one to put oneself in that susceptible brain wave state whereas this break of day affirmations technique just exploits the natural wave state upon waking or drifting off.

I've now seen the results and know this works, at least in the short term. This just seems a little too easy and I'm wondering when the other shoe will drop. Who am I to tell myself whether or not I should feel guilty, for example, or charitable?
 

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Affirmations are a form behavioral conditioning. I write my own and wrap them around scripture and pray over them for a period of time. Usually a year.

James Allen is part of the New Thought Movement. You’ll see similar behaviors from adherents of The Law of Attraction. Neither are Christian. Henry Cloud wrote a good rebuttal called The Law of Happiness.

I don’t believe affirmations are bad. But I don’t view them as alternatives to prayer. I use them as spiritual reinforcements for things I’ve prayed for. They’re more akin to verbal confessions and mental touchstones.

Yours in His Service,

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So I've started a practice of doing daily affirmations based on some recent neuroscience research. I'm learning a person is most susceptible to suggestion first thing in the morning, apparently before the subconscious hijacks your brain and informs your perceptions, so to speak. So i started with productivity affirmations saying things like 'Today I am productive, today Im focused. Today I'm observant. ' And WOW!! more than three weeks into this and I am transformed and all expectations were exceeded.. I can't even really relax until I find new ways to be productive.

Interesting.

So more recently I'm applying this to more Christian ends e.g . "Today I will be patient, Today I will love my neighbor. Today I will not feel guilty.' Just like the productivity affirmations the emotional affirmations also seem to be working. toward the intended purpose.

Which is? To behave according to your affirmations? Is loving your neighbor or being patient an end in itself? What's a moral, holy life for, exactly?

I saw a Christian themed moved called ' As A Man Thinketh' which was inspired by a 19th Century self help book which seems to promote this exact practice.

Um, I don't think God is interested in self-help. Self-denial, yes, self-crucifixion, definitely (Matt. 16:24, 24; Jn. 12:24; Ro. 6:6; Col. 3:3, etc.) but not self-improvement.

I've now seen the results and know this works, at least in the short term. This just seems a little too easy and I'm wondering when the other shoe will drop. Who am I to tell myself whether or not I should feel guilty, for example, or charitable?

Who does the Bible say ought to be transforming you? You? Or God? (Romans 8:13; 1 Corinthians 1:7-9; Philippians 2:13; 1 Thessalonians 5:23-24, etc.) Whose way, do you think, is going to be better, more in line, with the purpose for which you were created?
 
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Dont see it as unChristian based on Scripture such as:

"My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings.
21 Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart.
22 For they are life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh.
23 Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life." Prov 4

"then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God." Rom 10:17

"But the word is very near you. It is in your mouth and in your heart, so that you can do it." Deut 30
 
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God wants us to rely on Him. Do you consider it self help by saying Scripture?

Rewording it such as "But the word is very near you. It is in your mouth and in your heart, so that you can do it." Deut 30 becomes - God your word is near me. It is in my mouth and my heart so I can do it
 
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Is loving your neighbor or being patient an end in itself? What's a moral, holy life for, exactly?

The intent is to achieve various short term and long term goals. For example, the Bible instructs us to work hard for our employers. My employer happens to insist on a high level of productivity. They deliberately set the bar just out of reach. (What else is new, right?) I'm drowning at work, but there is a difference between drowning a mile off shore or ten feet. So if I can focus I can be more productive at work, which means I can continue to put food on the table. Aren't those Godly imperatives too?
 
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You’ll see similar behaviors from adherents of The Law of Attraction.
Yeah I did see the parallels. Just sticking to the affirmations seems less new agey. They seem to think you can manipulate external reality by though alone with no deference to God.. That seems that should be more in God's domain.
 
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God wants us to rely on Him. Do you consider it self help by saying Scripture?

Rewording it such as "But the word is very near you. It is in your mouth and in your heart, so that you can do it." Deut 30 becomes - God your word is near me. It is in my mouth and my heart so I can do it
I once heard a comedian say something like 'The Bible is a really really old, really really weird, self- help book. ' I agree but more respectfully of course than that comedian. Some of the OT figures were a little weird :)
 
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You may be referring to these and could certainly put these in affirmation
"And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; 24 Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ" Col 3:23-24
 
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The intent is to achieve various short term and long term goals. For example, the Bible instructs us to work hard for our employers. My employer happens to insist on a high level of productivity. They deliberately set the bar just out of reach. (What else is new, right?) I'm drowning at work, but there is a difference between drowning a mile off shore or ten feet. So if I can focus I can be more productive at work, which means I can continue to put food on the table. Aren't those Godly imperatives too?

Interesting question. And the Bible has an answer:

Matthew 6:31-33
31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?
32 (For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knows that you have need of all these things.
33 But seek first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.


I think I understand the purpose for daily affirmations. I think, too, that they can be helpful spiritually, using the basic human psychology with which God has endowed us all to achieve godly ends. There is, as I don't doubt you realize, a danger, though, in resorting primarily or first of all to such things in being spiritually transformed - especially when one's affirmations are not in line with God's will and truth.

What is God's most basic aim in our lives? (1 Corinthians 10:31) Is it that we are productive at work? As important as this is, it is not God's chief goal that He is pursuing in our lives (as I'm sure you know). Isn't it what God would want that we should order all our activities and goals under His purpose for our lives? If so, what, if any, impact would doing so have on your daily affirmations, do you think?

I really like tturt's quotation from Scripture about doing everything as unto the Lord. Now there's an affirmation you can really get into as a Christian!
 
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Yeah I did see the parallels. Just sticking to the affirmations seems less new agey. They seem to think you can manipulate external reality by though alone with no deference to God.. That seems that should be more in God's domain.

Most people employ affirmations to change behavior or accomplish something. If doing is your aim, you need to connect with like-minded people. You’ll get a lot wiggle room for non action from the masses.

The majority of the population aren’t doers. I posted the stats a few months ago.

Several years ago I read an interesting statistic on success and the role goal setting plays in its realization. It’s suggested that 5% of the population creates goals. But only 3% accomplishes them. I was struck by the number and grabbed my calculator. Then I headed to the population clock and plugged it in.

Using today’s numbers provides an interesting picture.

U.S. Population: 329,186,300 (as of this moment)
Goal Setters (5%): 16,459,315
Goals Accomplished (3%): 493,779.45

Many people have ideas they never pursue. It lives in their head. I believe in working in accordance to the capacity God bestowed. Not what’s comfortable or easy. That’s my standard.

I pay for training and services to help me improve and meet others like myself. We’re on the same page. They’ll encourage me when necessary and keep me accountable when I’m lax. We’re bettered through our acquaintance.

That’s what I need. Not a copout. :)

Yours in His Service,

~bella
 
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If the affirmations are Biblical or otherwise true and constructive, it's fine. If you think it's going to be something that will attract blessings, that's not right. You can't summon blessings by thinking positively. The best you can do is to help yourself.
 
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It’s easy to make it a prayer and include God. God gives the increase, of our prayers and efforts. If you try affirmations with a full time job you will see your flesh rebel. But with God you can overcome the flesh, because He overcame the world.
 
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Many people have ideas they never pursue. It lives in their head. I believe in working in accordance to the capacity God bestowed. Not what’s comfortable or easy. That’s my standard.

I pay for training and services to help me improve and meet others like myself. We’re on the same page. They’ll encourage me when necessary and keep me accountable when I’m lax. We’re bettered through our acquaintance.
If doing is your aim, you need to connect with like-minded people.

I think this is great advice. I'm pretty reliable in terms of completing short term goals, like power washing the house, or replacing the bedroom carpet. It's the long term, multi stage, high risk and high reward potential projects that end up getting shelved. (I'm mostly really only risking wasting time anyway.) But that's all going to change starting yesterday. :)
 
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There is, as I don't doubt you realize, a danger, though, in resorting primarily or first of all to such things in being spiritually transformed - especially when one's affirmations are not in line with God's will and truth.
Thanks, yeah that was my concern. The affirmations, or at least the way I'm doing them, are more effective than I anticipated or believed possible. I think it's more akin to self- hypnosis. I made the mistake a few days ago of doing creativity affirmations on a work day. That's not an appropriate mindset when focus is needed and imagination and daydreaming are distractions. I tried meditation, and the Christian opinions on that subject range from 'Highly Beneficial' to 'Invitation for Demonic Possession.' I guess both points of view can be true in different circumstances depending on the practitioner and the meditation methods employed.
 
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It's the long term, multi stage, high risk and high reward potential projects that end up getting shelved. (I'm mostly really only risking wasting time anyway.) But that's all going to change starting yesterday. :)

That’s an important observation. The solution is two-fold. Play offense against your weaknesses. If you struggle to accomplish long-term goals develop connections with people who excel in that area. They’ll rub off on you.

Reframe your concept of time and possibilities. I recommend The Magic of Thinking Big for mindset and The 12 Week Year for implementation.

Goal = X desire - Y distraction

That’s the formula for success. :)

Yours in His Service,

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I would urge you to take God's view of your life, not the World's. You weren't made for time but for eternity. The "Big Show" starts after your fleeting existence on this globe. And so, we read in God's word the following:

Colossians 3:1-4 (NASB)
1 Therefore if you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.
2 Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.
3 For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.
4 When Christ, who is our life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with Him in glory.


Matthew 6:19-21 (NASB)
19 "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.
20 "But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal;
21 for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.


James 1:9-11 (NASB)
9 But the brother of humble circumstances is to glory in his high position;
10 and the rich man is to glory in his humiliation, because like flowering grass he will pass away.
11 For the sun rises with a scorching wind and withers the grass; and its flower falls off and the beauty of its appearance is destroyed; so too the rich man in the midst of his pursuits will fade away.

Matthew 6:31-33 (NASB)

31 "Do not worry then, saying, 'What will we eat?' or 'What will we drink?' or 'What will we wear for clothing?'
32 "For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things.
33 "But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.


1 Corinthians 10:31 (NASB)
31 Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.

And so on.

I'm not suggesting you should be unproductive, just sitting on your hands waiting for heaven. But God's view of a "successful life" and the World's are very different. Who is at the center of your pursuits? Who orders your life decisions? In what are you making an investment of your "treasure" (time, energy, money)? The passages above indicate that God and His kingdom should be your first priority wherever you are and in whatever you're doing. And you are truly, eternally successful when you live this way. My Mom puts it this way,

"Only one life;
'twill soon be past.
Only what's done for Christ will last."

This is, I think, is the truth that leads to really successful living - the living for which God made you and me.
 
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I would urge you to take God's view of your life, not the World's. You weren't made for time but for eternity. The "Big Show" starts after your fleeting existence on this globe. And so, we read in God's word the following:

Colossians 3:1-4 (NASB)
1 Therefore if you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.
2 Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.
3 For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.
4 When Christ, who is our life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with Him in glory.


Matthew 6:19-21 (NASB)
19 "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.
20 "But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal;
21 for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.


James 1:9-11 (NASB)
9 But the brother of humble circumstances is to glory in his high position;
10 and the rich man is to glory in his humiliation, because like flowering grass he will pass away.
11 For the sun rises with a scorching wind and withers the grass; and its flower falls off and the beauty of its appearance is destroyed; so too the rich man in the midst of his pursuits will fade away.

Matthew 6:31-33 (NASB)
31 "Do not worry then, saying, 'What will we eat?' or 'What will we drink?' or 'What will we wear for clothing?'
32 "For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things.
33 "But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

1 Corinthians 10:31 (NASB)
31 Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.

And so on.

I'm not suggesting you should be unproductive, just sitting on your hands waiting for heaven. But God's view of a "successful life" and the World's are very different. Who is at the center of your pursuits? Who orders your life decisions? In what are you making an investment of your "treasure" (time, energy, money)? The passages above indicate that God and His kingdom should be your first priority wherever you are and in whatever you're doing. And you are truly, eternally successful when you live this way. My Mom puts it this way,

"Only one life;
'twill soon be past.
Only what's done for Christ will last."



This is, I think, is the truth that leads to really successful living - the living for which God made you and me.
Great advice. You're right of course. The problem with being obsessed with a pursuit for so long is that failing to see it to fruition feels like a tragic waste of precious time. Imagine if that inventor Dyson who claimed to have made 5127 vacuum prototypes never brought one to market. Not that his contribution is any greater than anyone elses in God's eyes.
 
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That’s an important observation. The solution is two-fold. Play offense against your weaknesses. If you struggle to accomplish long-term goals develop connections with people who excel in that area. They’ll rub off on you.

Reframe your concept of time and possibilities. I recommend The Magic of Thinking Big for mindset and The 12 Week Year for implementation.

Goal = X desire - Y distraction

That’s the formula for success. :)

Yours in His Service,

~bella
Thanks for the book advice. I like the idea of reframing the concept of time and possibilities. I remember one of Mark Zuckerberg's claims was that he basically coded the original Facebook in two weeks! Ill check out your book suggestions. :)
 
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