HappyHope
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- Jul 22, 2019
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I doubt the problem it you if you have tried getting involved to no avail. I was mildly unscheduled for children’s ministries at one church. It made no sense to me. My education is in Christian ministry. My experience is in Christian homeschool, Sunday School teaching, and online ESL tutoring. I couldn’t believe them. I woke up early and stayed up late preparing for children’s church. I love love loved it. So much joy then suddenly lame flattery when I asked what was up. And I couldn’t move up the chain to address it. My coworker was the pastor’s cousin. The pastor’s wife was head of children’s ministry and the head elder was the pastor’s father. No way was I about to pit family against each other, so I left that church.To this day I am still at a loss as to what happened. Sometimes you never know where the breakdown is for sure.I take my walk with God very seriously that's why I'm reaching out and asking for advice I'm not trying to treat this like im shopping at a " supermarket" there is good to the church and that's why I'm so indecisive about leaving and I'm not trying to whine because somebody doesn't like me I'm no better then them and they aren't of me, we are all children of God I just wanted to seek some advice and suggestions. I've tried talking to them being involved in ministry and asking to serve but it seems like I'm pushed away on that I don't want to just leave when things get difficult but I also don't want to be treated like we don't belong either. I want there to be some growth in a church where I could eventually help serve in the church but if I'm ignored how can I ? how am I treating them badly exactly if I'm trying my best to love and appreciate them and get involved ?
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