You don’t actually care about the women involved or the fetuses , you just want to punish the women
I think this comment kinda takes us full circle back to the politics of the issue, because it is a very political response. It's interesting because it is so similar to the kind of reasoning Trump uses to deflect from his own issues.
He regularly complains that all the investigations into his corruption are just an attempt to punish him. Trump is anti-abortion, you are pro-abortion, and yet you both use the same kind of reasoning about punishment.
In Trump's case there could be punishment if the investigation proves that there really is corruption, but the investigation itself is not a punishment. Punishment only has merit in the context of a deserved consequence for some kind of injustice.
Certainly I do not think anyone deserves improper medical treatment so it would not make sense to say that back alley abortions are some kind of punishment. I think, probably what you mean to say, is that some people believe they are morally superior to those women seeking out abortions and that any harm which comes to her in the process is deserved. Some people might see that as a punishment, but if so I think they do not have a right understanding of justice. I would think such a choice is foolish, but I would not say she deserved it.
Or, you could mean that expecting the pregnant mother to be responsible for the baby is punishment, but that, too, would not make sense, as the mother is the one behaving in a way that results in the punishment (i.e. unwanted pregnancy). Aside from those comparably rare cases of rape, it's her body, remember?
If she views an unwanted baby as a punishment, then the sensible thing to do would be to stop getting pregnant.
Impact on standard of living is the number 1 reason why women (
and men) opt for aborting unwanted pregnancies. Babies are expensive. They are time consuming. They require care and consideration 24 hours a day. It is very understandable that someone who gets accidentally pregnant would want a solution to avoid such commitment. But, that is not punishment. That is consequence.
If I'm too lazy to brush my teeth, I will get cavities. The cavities will hurt and it will be expensive to fix, but I will not accuse the dentist of just wanting to punish me when he tells me to be more careful about how I treat my teeth.
There would be little point is creating laws to safeguard unborn children only for the mothers to then be at risk of improperly performed medical procedures if life and safety is the goal. But I do not think there are only two choices (i.e. either safe abortions which harm children or dangerous abortions which harm the mothers). There is a third option; reduce the demand for abortion in the first place.