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Sure. There's no question that marriage between male and female is the typical case. But we make accommodations for exceptions all the time. God created Adam and Eve with two legs each, but we use wheelchairs for exceptions. To use a more controversial example, Jesus prohibited divorce, but there are times when staying in the marriage is even worse. (Matthew and Paul cited specific examples of exceptions.) I consider gay marriage an accommodation for people for whom heterosexual relationships would be impossible or dangerous. 1 Cor 7:9 notes the dangers of trying to maintain celibacy when you don't have the gift.
Indeed the discussion of AIDS and other STDs points in that direction. You really want to encourage gays to be faithful to a single partner. It's even more important for them to provide the kind of social support for such a relationship that marriage provides.
I'm aware that divorce is still controversial, although not as much as a few decades ago. There are Christians who don't agree that exceptions are allowed. But they don't confidently proclaim that people who disagree aren't Christians or that Western civilization is about to fall because of it. (Although frankly, the inability and in some cases lack of desire of heterosexuals to maintain faithful marriages may well be a danger to Western civilization larger than a few married gays ever could be.)
After reading Jeremiah 23 it looks like the acceptance and promotion of those very sins is wrong. Christians can't have a hand in helping them to continue in or even make it more acceptable. We can only try to turn them towards what is right. I can find nothing in the teachings that says we are to make accommodations.
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