Calvinist limited love for mankind

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The Calvins I`ve had issue with were very sure of themselves.

Yet their sureness is undermined by that John Calvin quote about God giving believers false hope. Their confidence is also undermined by not knowing for whom Jesus died.

Smart Calvinists would probably reply they don’t agree with everything John Calvin wrote, that’s the Matt Slick approach to Calvinism.
 
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God has common grace or common love for the world. He has specific love for his elect alone, whom Christ died for. As such, I never tell people that God specifically loves them and I've always hated the phrase God loves the sinner and hates the sin. Instead I think it far more important for people to confront the fact that they are evil and in need of a savior. Telling them Jesus loves them out of the gate gives people a reason not to repent, after all they're already loved.
 
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That’s a fair quote, @chad kincham. Here’s another about whether or not Calvinists know they’re saved...

and [if?] I am not one of the elect: at least for now I am thankful to him for letting me know him and admire and praise him, faulty as I might do so.

Explaining Calvinism accurately is as good as a refutation of the doctrine. We hardly need arguments against Calvinism because Calvinism is one big long argument against itself.
 
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Just reading through the chapter, the author of Hebrews in the next verse tied that comment about “the foundation of the world” to Gods creation of the earth, so, so far as I’m seeing, the comment isn’t about enmity or a decree to hate unbelievers before the creation event, rather it’s an argument by the author about A. whether or not the wicked are still able to enter into that rest made at the end of earths creation,

and B. The Christians making their calling and election sure by comparing our lives to the lives of the disobedience (being run on arguments they’re both pretty long.)

About argument A the author of Hebrews writes about the idea of days and setting a day and the Sabbath once more, comparing today to the Sabbath day: “God again set a certain day, calling it “Today.” This he did when a long time later he spoke through David, as in the passage already quoted: Today, if you hear his voice, do not harden your hearts.”

So it’s not a condemnation passage or an argument against the hope of a sabbath of rest for the workers of unrighteousness, if it were more along the Calvinistic train of thought there’d be no need to use the creation even or the sabbath day as point in time (rather he’d be angry from before the foundation of world and refusing the sabbath long before creation,) rather it’s an appeal to be reconciled and saved today, saved from the sin of “disobedience.”

That disobedience language leads into argument B about you and I not following in the disobedient example we have been set (which is less relevant to your question but also uses the sabbath rest day language too.)

There the author uses language to do with Joshua, so his entering into the holy land by Jericho, finding rest from their 40 years of wandering in the desert, adding that although Joshua gained the land he wasn’t really giving the Sabbath that we read about here in Hebrews (if he were bringing in the Sabbath God wouldn’t have made the “today” quote via king David.)

“For if Joshua had given them rest, God would not have spoken later about another day.“

That’s the impression I get just by taking a glance at the chapter, without going into the non Calvinist scholars. If I were short on time or patience I’d simply reply “it’s a run on argument and verse theology is bad, mkay.” :p

In general I agree that verse theology is bad theology but on some issues there are few and sometimes even just one verse.

In the case of foundation of earth verses, there aren`t many. Works from foundation, there is just one verse.

There is a theory that I found interesting, goes something to the effect that God created everything in 6 days -> past, present and future, including the works which are unfolding with the future, i.e.
Rom 4:17 "God, who quickeneth the dead, and calleth those things which be not as though they were"

Idea is, that this is the 7th day and God is resting and watching his movie play, i.e. predestination.

I`m prone to consider whacko ideas such as that one. Ok, I`m ready for the blow, what do you think?

PS, I also read once that some scientists looking into time travel believe it could be possible to travel to the future but not the past. That because for the past the energy is spent and gone, but the future is still out there.
 
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In general I agree that verse theology is bad theology but on some issues there are few and sometimes even just one verse.

In the case of foundation of earth verses, there aren`t many. Works from foundation, there is just one verse.

I suppose that single verse just carries more theology than the words alone can handle. God knows we’re very ingenious little creatures, inventing a volumes worth of theology and commentary on a lone verse or even single words.

Think how many books we’ve already composed on the subject of agape love, just the word can be filled up by millions of incredible illustrations and possibilities that we can cram into that concept (from suitable things to horrible queer erotic theology.) There’s no end to the ingenuity of man.

I`m prone to consider whacko ideas such as that one. Ok, I`m ready for the blow, what do you think?

About the wacko idea? :tearsofjoy: Well, Romans 4:17 has surrounding verses that remind me of a theme, a theme that argues you can’t stop God, He calls things which aren’t as though they were because He can do the thing He’s talking about.

“Without weakening in his faith, he [Abraham] faced the fact that his body was as good as dead—since he was about a hundred years old—and that Sarah’s womb was also dead.”
God calls things which aren’t, namely the promised child, as though they were, and if He wants to bring about a miracle birth that’s something we can’t prevent. I used to tie Romans 4:17 into Isaiah 9:6 because there it’s present tense too...

For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders.
So although Isaiah’s ministry was some time before Jesus God speaks things which aren’t as though they are, the prophecy carries a double meaning, and as a result the atheist I’m in conversation with just stands there in awe unable to refute my unfalsifiable style of reading the text. :ahah:

This answer on God and time probably won’t be as biblical as you’d like, Rick. Still, it could interest you nonetheless...

The notion of how God relates to time is speculative (really speculative,) but I’ve heard from his defenders call that Dr. William Lane Craig took several years out of his studies to review the relevant material. He shared the result in a book titled Time and Eternity: Exploring Gods relationship to time.

He explored both the A and the B theory of time, from memory I believe the A theory means that time is in a dynamic transition, so it’s much like how we experience time.

There’s moment 1 and moment 1 leads into moment 2 and it’s really happening as we experience it in our daily lives, like a train running along train tracks that are being dynamically built as we travel through time. Jesus (though timeless) enters into time and becomes part of this dynamic dance, experiencing time while simultaneously existing beyond it.

The B theory of time is more like time is static and that the entire scope of eternity is laid out before God. Like a snow globe depicting the 1980s, the times never really went away, but rather, for the people in 1982 it’s still 1982 today, and for yourself in 2010 it’s still 2010 today. Gods above the entire timeline and in charge over the flow as a timeless being.

Whether it’s A, B or some combination of the 2 I’m not sure, I’ve never read the book! :tearsofjoy: I know what Dr. Craig concludes because of his Defenders classes, still there’s no point in spoiling that here.

Maybe this will inspire someone to go out and pick up a copy of time and eternity themselves, then they can tell us.
 
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I suppose that single verse just carries more theology than the words alone can handle. God knows we’re very ingenious little creatures, inventing a volumes worth of theology and commentary on a lone verse or even single words.

Think how many books we’ve already composed on the subject of agape love, just the word can be filled up by millions of incredible illustrations and possibilities that we can cram into that concept (from suitable things to horrible queer erotic theology.) There’s no end to the ingenuity of man.



About the wacko idea? :tearsofjoy: Well, Romans 4:17 has surrounding verses that remind me of a theme, a theme that argues you can’t stop God, He calls things which aren’t as though they were because He can do the thing He’s talking about.

“Without weakening in his faith, he [Abraham] faced the fact that his body was as good as dead—since he was about a hundred years old—and that Sarah’s womb was also dead.”
God calls things which aren’t, namely the promised child, as though they were, and if He wants to bring about a miracle birth that’s something we can’t prevent. I used to tie Romans 4:17 into Isaiah 9:6 because there it’s present tense too...

For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders.
So although Isaiah’s ministry was some time before Jesus God speaks things which aren’t as though they are, the prophecy carries a double meaning, and as a result the atheist I’m in conversation with just stands there in awe unable to refute my unfalsifiable style of reading the text. :ahah:

This answer on God and time probably won’t be as biblical as you’d like, Rick. Still, it could interest you nonetheless...

The notion of how God relates to time is speculative (really speculative,) but I’ve heard from his defenders call that Dr. William Lane Craig took several years out of his studies to review the relevant material. He shared the result in a book titled Time and Eternity: Exploring Gods relationship to time.

He explored both the A and the B theory of time, from memory I believe the A theory means that time is in a dynamic transition, so it’s much like how we experience time.

There’s moment 1 and moment 1 leads into moment 2 and it’s really happening as we experience it in our daily lives, like a train running along train tracks that are being dynamically built as we travel through time. Jesus (though timeless) enters into time and becomes part of this dynamic dance, experiencing time while simultaneously existing beyond it.

The B theory of time is more like time is static and that the entire scope of eternity is laid out before God. Like a snow globe depicting the 1980s, the times never really went away, but rather, for the people in 1982 it’s still 1982 today, and for yourself in 2010 it’s still 2010 today. Gods above the entire timeline and in charge over the flow as a timeless being.

Whether it’s A, B or some combination of the 2 I’m not sure, I’ve never read the book! :tearsofjoy: I know what Dr. Craig concludes because of his Defenders classes, still there’s no point in spoiling that here.

Maybe this will inspire someone to go out and pick up a copy of time and eternity themselves, then they can tell us.

Years ago I was talking to a minister and he compared this world to the matrix in the Matrix movie.
I was taken aback at first that he was talking about a violent, secular movie. Still, as I thought about it
I really got the comparison he was making. Gods kingdom is the real world, this world is set up to decieve us into not thinking about or knowing that kingdom.

Couple years ago I was shocked when I read an article that said that some scientists are saying the universe might be a matrix, not nearly as big as we believe, they compared it to a computer program someone is running. I wish I had downloaded it and saved it.
 
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Yet their sureness is undermined by that John Calvin quote about God giving believers false hope. Their confidence is also undermined by not knowing for whom Jesus died.

Smart Calvinists would probably reply they don’t agree with everything John Calvin wrote, that’s the Matt Slick approach to Calvinism.
The problem with calling sovereign grace "calvinism" is that the 5 points that everyone is familiar with were not developed as a base point for reformed theology until after Calvin's death. You guys want to hold people to every thing Calvin said as though it's the gospel for us, which it is not nor has ever been. It took 100 years for the meat and potatoes of reformed doctrine to be stated in a clear and definite way. Luther believed in what we now know as Calvinism but he would have recoiled at being called a Calvinist.
 
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So reading all of this which I haven't, but some. We can say that Calvinists beliefs risk their very salvation? So far what I see you all saying is that their beliefs in predestination dooms them? I believe in predestination and it is biblical. have I missed the point of this discussion?
And where does the idea that
Calvinists limited love for mankind come from?
Briefly please as I get lost in the translation of paragraph upon paragraph.
Also, do you have any care as to how C's feel about your negatives in this thread. In my mind you should have more to say about Scientology then speculation of a beliefs love for their fellow man. I would grieve for my ultimate end if I believed all these posts. They are obviously very strong to see their beliefs being torn apart and can look past them. Has a C. posted here that they don't love their fellow man?
Just wondering. Hope the answers are in a nutshell.:) How would you sum it up in 100 words or less?
 
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So reading all of this which I haven't, but some. We can say that Calvinists beliefs risk their very salvation? So far what I see you all saying is that their beliefs in predestination dooms them? I believe in predestination and it is biblical. have I missed the point of this discussion?
And where does the idea that
Calvinists limited love for mankind come from?
Briefly please as I get lost in the translation of paragraph upon paragraph.
Also, do you have any care as to how C's feel about your negatives in this thread. In my mind you should have more to say about Scientology then speculation of a beliefs love for their fellow man. I would grieve for my ultimate end if I believed all these posts. They are obviously very strong to see their beliefs being torn apart and can look past them. Has a C. posted here that they don't love their fellow man?
Just wondering. Hope the answers are in a nutshell.:) How would you sum it up in 100 words or less?

The idea of limited love has come from the opponents of Reformed Calvinist doctrines. I believe it is an attack on the limited/particular atonement doctrine. Where as the opponents of Reformed say Christ died for all people from all times,including those who go onto reject him and reprobates,the Calvinists hold that the beloved son suffered and died for his friends only. This has been twisted into limited love and a general attack on God himself.
 
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The idea of limited love has come from the opponents of Reformed Calvinist doctrines. I believe it is an attack on the limited/particular atonement doctrine. Where as the opponents of Reformed say Christ died for all people from all times,including those who go onto reject him and reprobates,the Calvinists hold that the beloved son suffered and died for his friends only. This has been twisted into limited love and a general attack on God himself.
My original response didn't make any sense, sorry. I am glad you are here to refute their claims. I often wonder how He feels about those that leave him. In the old testament it was pretty obvious his feelings for the lost. How are their posts concerning predestination and C come into play? Are they correct?
 
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The idea of limited love has come from the opponents of Reformed Calvinist doctrines. I believe it is an attack on the limited/particular atonement doctrine. Where as the opponents of Reformed say Christ died for all people from all times,including those who go onto reject him and reprobates,the Calvinists hold that the beloved son suffered and died for his friends only. This has been twisted into limited love and a general attack on God himself.
Thank you for speaking up, It is hard for some Calvinist to give their beliefs on these threads. I am thinking it is because you are a reformed Calvinist?
 
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The idea of limited love has come from the opponents of Reformed Calvinist doctrines. I believe it is an attack on the limited/particular atonement doctrine. Where as the opponents of Reformed say Christ died for all people from all times,including those who go onto reject him and reprobates,the Calvinists hold that the beloved son suffered and died for his friends only. This has been twisted into limited love and a general attack on God himself.

I’m genuinely interested in your feedback here, @All Glory To God.

Writing “Calvinism limits Gods love“ is sometimes done in comparison to other views, views in which Gods love is equally offered to everyone worldwide without reservation. Even according to 5 point Calvinism God gives common grace to all, but his loving gift of salvation is only shared with some, this is limited love by definition.

The notion of Calvinism limiting Gods love isn’t false and it’s not an idea being fabricated in the minds of anti Calvinists, it’s something famous Calvinists have taught themselves (even being taught by posters in this very topic #342.)

On the other hand...

When Calvinists write You’re either a Calvinist or an Arminian by default” or when they insist Arminians believe you save yourself,” those are actual attacks and they’re a twisting of the truth, they’re false charges against other believers everywhere.

Disseminating those false claims repeatedly is an example of (well educated) Calvinists bearing false witness to their own community for centuries. They’re demonstrably false claims and are an insult to the beliefs of other people.

My question to you is how is the belief that Jesus died “only for his friends” not an example of limited love?

Only dying in love for your friends and not others sounds like limited love by definition, you’re limiting the ultimate act of love to your friends.

This means that the opponents of Calvinism aren’t guilty of twisting anything, they’re just shedding light on the truth of the belief system.
 
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Thank you for speaking up, It is hard for some Calvinist to give their beliefs on these threads. I am thinking it is because you are a reformed Calvinist?

Several other calvanist members are engaged defending their doctrines in different threads around the forum. So my guess is the lack of response is because they are occupied in other conversations.
 
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I’m genuinely interested in your feedback here, @All Glory To God.

Writing “Calvinism limits Gods love“ is sometimes done in comparison to other views, views in which Gods love is equally offered to everyone worldwide without reservation. Even according to 5 point Calvinism God gives common grace to all, but his loving gift of salvation is only shared with some, this is limited love by definition.

The notion of Calvinism limiting Gods love isn’t false and it’s not an idea being fabricated in the minds of anti Calvinists, it’s something famous Calvinists have taught themselves (even being taught by posters in this very topic #342.)

On the other hand...

When Calvinists write You’re either a Calvinist or an Arminian by default” or when they insist Arminians believe you save yourself,” those are actual attacks and they’re a twisting of the truth, they’re false charges against other believers everywhere.

Disseminating those false claims repeatedly is an example of (well educated) Calvinists bearing false witness to their own community for centuries. They’re demonstrably false claims and are an insult to the beliefs of other people.

My question to you is how is the belief that Jesus died “only for his friends” not an example of limited love?

Only dying in love for your friends and not others sounds like limited love by definition, you’re limiting the ultimate act of love to your friends.

This means that the opponents of Calvinism aren’t guilty of twisting anything, they’re just shedding light on the truth of the belief system.


In answer to the question, as far as I understand the situation God's love is not limited, it is perfect, but bestowed to his friends only. The people who receive this love are not universal but selective. So his love is not limited but the administration is particular.

In regard to common grace, depending on what confession or calvinist you refer to common grace might actually be confused with providence. This is not the same as common grace.
 
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as far as I understand the situation God's love is not limited, it is perfect, but bestowed to his friends only.

That’s limited love, @All Glory To God. Saying God perfectly loves the individuals he loves is a dodge and avoids the actual argument against Calvinism.

The actual argument isn’t that God loves the individual he saves insufficiently, the argument is God intentionally withholds that perfect love from the non elect.

Does God withhold (AKA limit) his perfect love from the non elect?
 
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That’s limited love, @All Glory To God. Saying God perfectly loves the individuals he loves is a dodge and avoids the actual argument against Calvinism.

The actual argument isn’t that God loves the individual he saves insufficiently, the argument is God intentionally withholds that perfect love from the non elect.

Does God withhold (AKA limit) his perfect love from the non elect?

Yes I believe he does. However I never claimed he did not. A member asked me why the thread was named the way it is and I told them. I also object to the phrasing of limited love as i think it's more accurate to say perfect love but administered selectively according to Gods supreme will. Just my opinion.
 
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It`s a problem if you are a Calvinist. My view (reflected in all my posts), is that we must endure to the end to have the security. Armini has same belief.

Falling Away in the Bible means to stop believing (Hebrews 6), Apostasy/sin unto death (1 John 5) means same thing.

Exodus 32, people are getting put out of the covenant par with falling away.
Revelation 22, destroying scripture is par with Apostasy.
Blotting out is par with Holy Spirit tasting people falling away (Hebrews 6)
Omniscience God will know who is going to get blotted out.

Just God gives all those who are called a chance. The blotting proves that He did.
In same manner, Jesus gave Israel a legitimate chance which explains some things He said and did.

Yes, Hebrews 6 and 10 refutes OSAS nicely.

In Hebrews 6 they believed, were clearly saved because they’d been enlightened and were partakers of (had received) the Holy Spirit, then apostasized completely into unbelief, and their unbelief is why they can’t be renewed again unto repentance, because they no longer believe.
 
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@All Glory To God: The idea of limited love has come from the opponents of Reformed Calvinist doctrines... This has been twisted into limited love and a general attack on God himself.

Me: Does God withhold (AKA limit) his perfect love from the non elect?

@All Glory To God: Yes I believe he does.
 
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My original response didn't make any sense, sorry. I am glad you are here to refute their claims. I often wonder how He feels about those that leave him. In the old testament it was pretty obvious his feelings for the lost. How are their posts concerning predestination and C come into play? Are they correct?

Your comments make more sense then you give yourself credit for. I like reading them.
 
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@All Glory To God: The idea of limited love has come from the opponents of Reformed Calvinist doctrines... This has been twisted into limited love and a general attack on God himself.

Me: Does God withhold (AKA limit) his perfect love from the non elect?

@All Glory To God: Yes I believe he does.

No, no aka, you are combining parts of two different posts.

What is your point anyway? The lady asked a sincere question about the thread title because she wanted information. I have answered your question and you are just challenging my own words, so do you really wany an answer or is there a debate about something? So what do you want or what is your real point?
 
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