You understand that I was paraphrasing you, right? I wasn't trying to match what you said word for word.
The way I see it, is that you continually miss the point. When you paraphrase things on this topic, you consistently get your understanding of the other side, or the other person wrong.
It seems to me that you are trying very hard to make things consistent with your current understanding rather than to listen and to change your current understanding.
Even when I try to clarify, I don't feel you listen, I feel you stick with your current position and you do this by twisting or paraphrasing what I am saying rather than trying to understand why what I am saying is subtly different to how you think I should be saying it.
I said...
"You said white people are calling the police on black people because they've got racist beliefs..."
You said...
"They need to stop assuming a black in a white neighborhood is a criminal up to no good."
You understand that is a racist belief, right?
No, this isn't outright racism.
The person calling the police might not hate blacks and might not think whites are superior to blacks.
It's also similar to a person who sees white protesters carrying guns and thinking oh that's wonderful they are exercising their second amendment rights, but then seeing a group of blacks with guns and getting scared and locking their door and hiding under their bed.
I'd say it's more about niches. You could replace the blacks with people dressed as punks. With leathers and coloured mowhawks. They look different, they are part of a group that the observer sees as foreign. They have seen movies where Punk rockers are unruly and smash things up. Scary stuff. So, while they don't hate people, the don't hate people that like punk music, they are scared though. So they puck up the phone and call the police.
So what part of how I worded it is wrong? You don't think this is a big social problem?
Systemic racism is a problem, even though many of the people playing a part in it aren't necessarily racist. That is the point I am making and I feel you are twisting it to mean that I am saying all whites are racist. Which is not what I am saying at all.
I get that you and others think that....and if we were talking about racist policies or laws I'd agree. It seems like that's not what people mean though....
I don't feel that you understand our point of view.
When you claim that the left think USA is a white supremacist society, you take a comment one of two people have said, you twist that comment to mean something different and you apply that false position to the whole "left" as if it is a mainstream position.
When I say stuff to you here, you twist it to mean something different from what I am saying.
That's exactly the definition of interpersonal racism. It's a person treating someone differently because of their race.
Not really, a racist treats other races as inferior, not just different.
How is that different from a racist person? You aren't even talking about a system anywhere in that example....you're literally talking about a racist person with no mention of a system whatsoever.
The system is society and the shear numbers of times this stuff happens.
A white person walks through a black neighborhood, do they eventually get questioned by the police because one of the neighborhood people have called the police?
The black person gets the police pulling over next to them and questioning them. Why? They haven't done anything suspicious other than to be black.
Of course they're racist! You just said that the whole reason they got scared is because person is black. If you think a person is a criminal because of their race....that's a racist belief. You're literally making a moral judgement about someone based on nothing but their race.
If you asked that white person, or investigated their lives, you might find that they have some black friends, that they don't think whites are better than blacks, they they don't have any hate of blacks. But they were just scared because in their white neighborhood they don't usually see a black person and they weren't aware of their neighbors having any black friends.
Regardless though, let's pretend that two people are exactly the same in every respect, and their only difference is race, and like you said....the judge gave the black person a longer sentence.
Statistics give a high indication that this is happening in statistically significant numbers.
It's not just about judges but also jurors and also the police who also have a say in whether they will press for charges or let someone go with a warning. It's systemic!
Literally the only racist thing in this scenario is the judge. Again, that's interpersonal racism....it's got nothing to do with any system.
It has everything to do with the system and it doesn't mean that the police and justice system is full of raging racists.
You aren't wrong to say that this scenario discriminates against black people....but it also discriminates against every white person who isn't the friend of the guy hiring.
True, but it is a very common hiring practice to hire people through your contacts rather than to objectively look at CVs. Statistically it means the profile of those in hiring positions means that it is more likely for the majority to continue getting the good jobs and less likely for the minorities. This is systemic racism. But doesn't need full blown racists for this to happen.
It's not discrimination against people based on race...if this guy's social circle was mostly black people, then he'd be hiring a black person. It's discrimination against people based on friendship/social circles.
Yes, but statistically it shows up as systemic racism, that the whites appear to have a position of privilege and that the blacks are discriminated against. That is the 10,000 mile view of it. It is a problem and needs to be addressed.
But it doesn't mean that all whites are racist, and it doesn't mean that USA is a white supremacist nation.
To acknowledge this issues, you don't have to be constantly defending that you, as a white person, aren't racist. You don't need to defend that you haven't lived a privileged life.
I think when people hear about the terms "systemic racism" or "white privilege" or "black lives matter" they take it to the extreme and and get all riled up and want to fight back against these terms. Rather than to try and understand what these terms actually mean, and why there is a problem in society, and what can be done about it.
I don't know why you're having such a hard time coming up with examples.
It was easy for me to come up with these examples.
The problem is, that it is hard to get you to listen to them. You are negating them, avoiding them, and instead telling me that I haven't provided suitable examples.
I am just one person. I would recommend you talk to others in an exploratory way to find out what these terms mean to them and what good examples would be for them.
Don't get on the defensive, just listen and try to understand. Then when you have talked to quite a few people you can see which positions are the outliers and which are the common positions.
But don't try to construct your own view of what the other side is thinking. That will stop you from learning and understanding.