So, when I say "it's possible the tooth fairy exists, Santa Claus exists and the Easter Bunny exists. Not likely. Ridiculously unlikely. But possible. And that's my stance with God and miracles as well," we need evidence that these things exist. Lacking such evidence, as we do with God, the only sensible response is to not believe in them.
The Christian God might be “ridiculously unlikely” to you, but not for me. The likelihood of the other things you mentioned are highly unlikely for both of us and insignificant, so why pursue evidence either way for them?
This does not seem to answer, or even address, my question:
How do you love someone without believing they exist?
You do not, and I am not saying or suggesting anyone Love God without knowing in their heart, He exists. The first step to becoming a Christ does not require anything noble, righteous, worthy, holy or glorious. It requires a wimping out, giving up on self and surrendering to your enemy you are hating and still hate in surrendering. You do it for selfish reasons, but are just willing to accept undeserving charity from your enemy. The “Love” comes after God showers the undeserving surrenderer with unbelievable wonderful gifts which includes Godly type Love.
I do not see anywhere where you already answered why God would hide Himself from us. You have yet to explain why He would do this, since He was quite happy to reveal Himself in very public ways before, and since many Christians believe that He is quite happy to reveal Himself now.
This goes back to those questions you did not answer, yourself.
Unquestionable knowledge of the Christian God of the Bible existing (reveals Himself to you) means you know heaven, hell, and judgement exists. Judgement and hell are like putting a gun to your head, so how do you make a free will choice with likely alternatives?
God being hidden and uncertain to the nonbelieving sinner, allows that sinner to choose between: continuing to pursue the perceived pleasures of sin or
believe in a benevolent Creator’s Love to forgive them. Yes, if they believe in such a God, they are also believing in hell, but the believe in God saves them from hell. Knowledge is not believing, so knowledge of God does not save them from hell.
Yes, God in the past did reveal Himself publicly, but again that did not save those people, they had to trust Him over other “spiritual beings”, these “other” gods seemingly revealed themselves in the Sun, moon, stars, fire, water, mountains, crops and objects. Today, we have scientific explanations for this early thought to be miracles, so we do not naturally spiritualize all these before unknowns. God did many miracles for the Jews prior to the destruction of Jerusalem, which they would expect from the true God follower. The Jews did not have an issue with believing in God, but in accepting Christianity over Judaism. They felt just being a Jew protected them from judgement and meant they were heaven bound.
You said that it is not coincidence that God always "reveals" Himself through by answering prayers for things that might happen anyway. But if the only prayers that are ever "answered" are for things that might have happened by sheer chance anyway, maybe it was just sheer chance. I can see no reason to think that it wasn't.
Again: if God is real, as you claim, and if God answers prayers for healing, as you claim He does, then we should see statistical evidence of this. Christians have an edge on probability. The prayers of non-Christians will not be answered, if they even make such prayers.
Look at it like this:
Imagine we could collate the data of people recovering from sicknesses. Assume a population of one million atheists, one million Christians and one million believers of a different, false religion.
The atheists will not be praying. Therefore, their recovery rates will be strictly natural.
The believers of a false religion will be praying, but their prayers will be ineffective since they are praying to the wrong God. Therefore, their recovery rates will be strictly natural.
The Christians will be praying. Some of their prayers will not be answered by God but, as you your self have claimed, some of them will be. Therefore, their recovery rates will be unexpectedly higher, due to the fraction of prayers that God chooses to answer.
If your claim is true, this is the kind of thing we should be seeing. But we don't. Therefore, your claim that God answers some prayers for healing is demonstrably false.
Nothing is by “chance” or “natural”, since God or humans either allows or causes these things.
You are assuming randomness or things just “naturally” happening and leaving God out of it. God does not make our choices for us, but everything else is controlled.
Again, trying to use the science of statistics to proof the Christian God must exist, will not work, since the nonbeliever must believe.
Healing itself does not convert people.
Just as much and most likely more people can see God (Love) through true Christians serving those who are ill. That unselfish, unconditional, sacrificial Love is God Himself, being revealed through true Christians serving others. The Christian’s pray is to know how best to serve others, to have what is needed to cease the opportunities, to strengthen their own faith, to allow the Spirit to work through them and to Love others even more.
You are committing the "No True Scotsman" fallacy. Why should I believe that these Christians are not "true" Christians, when they state they are and tell me that it is you who are mistaken?
You are asking me to defend someone I do not agree with, which I cannot do. We are communicating and if I was communicating with them, I would have lots of questions of them.
Well, you've said it yourself. Hell benefits the new Christian by making them realise how bad sin is. Sin is a terrifying punishment, and many Christians have, and continue to, make the case that we should turn to God for fear of it. This seems perfectly rational to me, if you accept their premise that God, heaven and hell exist. And, as I have said before, there is a well-used Christian argument that fear of sin leads to love of a God who would save us from it.
Sin is not the punishment?
Someone has to first
believe God (Love) exists, to fear hell. God made Hell. If you believe God exists then you are heaven bound, so hell is not something to fear.
To realize what a big deal sin really is, does require a huge punishment for sin, but that is to help the Christian realize how huge God’s love is, which forgave them of this unbelievable huge debt of sin. The reason some people calling themselves “Christians” fear hell, is because they do not feel God could or has forgiven them of their sins, which is truly tragic. They also are either quenching the indwelling holy Spirit or do not have the Spirit.
The nonbeliever can be told about hell to realize his/her sins are a huge deal to God, but it is not going to impact them until they believe God and everything else might exist. They might swiftly want to have a believe in God to avoid the possibility of hell, but it is all still about faith/believe/trust and not knowledge.