This thread is not really about debating the differences of what we believe, but it is about sharing what you used to believe was true and now this is not the case.
If you are interested in learning more as to why I believe the Bible teaches Non-Resistance under the New Covenant, you can check out the verses and explanations on common objections (like the one you brought up) in this CF thread here:
Nonresistance as Taught in the New Testament is Moral and Good.
The link referring to the verse that I brought up about buying swords doesn't work anymore.
I believe only past sins are forgiven, and that we have to confess and forsake sin in order to have forgiveness and or salvation. Others believe that they are saved solely by believing in the finished work of Christ and or something along those lines and they believe all their present sin and future sins are forgiven by this belief. If you disagree, this is not the place to debate it. Check out this thread here to learn more and or to discuss it.
The Bible teaches only past sins are forgiven us (not future sins).
Well, to put it in line with the topic, I used to believe that Jesus only forgave past sins, and that was another thing I was mad about God with, that you just outright lose your salvation if you sin after being saved which made it like it was best to wait until your death bed to get saved then. But no, I do believe that you're forgiven in advance since you can't sacrifice Jesus more than once.
Hebrews 10 goes into that.
I believe now that you're still forgiven by that same sacrifice even for current and future sins if you seek it. It's like not only are your sins forgiven and separated from you as far as the east is from the west when you're saved, but you're adopted by God. It's a relationship. In fact that's the most important aspect of being saved, you begin a relationship with God. that relationship is 2 way, it involves communication, mutual respect (such as God letting you walk away if you really want to), mutual love, submitting to authority of the Father in the relationship, and, seeking His forgiveness when you do wrong.
1 John is where I get that, even as a Christian, you WILL sin, you don't seek sin and you don't ENJOY sin, but you will sin. So you seek forgiveness from your Father, and your Father, BEING your Father, having established that Relationship with Him, will forgive it, there may involve chastisement as a disciplining action as in Hebrews 12.
I also think sometimes we sin in ways we're not even aware of, sins of omission like God may have provided a witnessing opportunity and you didn't seize it. James 4:17 would say that's a sin, but you might not feel as though you've sinned by not talking to a stranger in public unsolicited.
So would that sin not be forgiven because we didn't take note of a conviction at the time or forgot about it? That's not what I believe. Romans 8:26 shows that the Holy Spirit Himself intercedes for us and while we pray for forgiveness for our sins, the Holy Spirit is being an advocate and maybe filling in the blanks that we can't remember.
Mostly on forgiveness of sins I think the important thing is that you get saved and establish this relationship and that you do work to keep it a good relationship. You don't just walk contrary to your Father deliberately, you don't seek sin, you don't take pleasure in sin, and when you sin, you seek forgiveness and turn away from it, and, for the times our own fallibility doesn't remember every single sin, the Holy Spirit intercedes for us.
It's definitely possible to go prodigal and come back. No doubt about it. But was one saved while they were prodigal? Is one saved while they are abiding in sin? This I believe is the ultimate conclusion in Once Saved Always Saved and related beliefs that allows for a believer to think they can commit the sins that the Bible condemns and they do need to confess and forsake those sins, and yet they are still magically saved by having a belief alone on Jesus somehow. In either case, this again is another topic of discussion for another thread.
Check out this thread here if you want to continue to discuss it more.
Prove your case biblically that believers can willfully sin and still be saved while doing so.
Well, all sins of commission are willful, they all require will for us to do, and Christians do sin. We get tempted and we are not Christ able to withstand all temptation, we screw up, we decide to do that sin, click that racy image, take a second look at that scantily clad woman, get angry and maybe think about something bad happening to whoever we got angry at. But unlike someone who's not saved.. it's met without pleasure, but with immediate remorse "I shouldn't have done that".
There are a few ways that people look at sin as a christian.
1. I have to obey the laws and not sin or I'll lose my salvation, basically works salvation/legalism
2. I'm under grace not the law, hypergrace and lawlessness, which is where OSAS gets its bad rap.
3. It becomes a comparing your good works to bad works, which is also works salvation but do more good than bad.. kinda the catholic way of looking at it.
4. Sanctification is a
process it is a good work that the Lord
began in you and will continue, even if it takes your entire life (and frankly even then as long as we're in the flesh we won't be perfect)
For a time I believed in the balancing act #3, and then I believed in #2, and now I believe #4. It's a process, and part of that process is failing along the way, and being disciplined for it.
That's another belief that as I matured I was more correct in. I'd believed as I'd been taught when I was younger, that once you believe in Jesus everything was going to go well for you, God would always be for you and not against you.
Now after having read Hebrews 12, That's laughable, and it should have been laughable in the gospels themselves where Jesus outright says we'll endure persecution and hardships, Jesus was never a health and wealth prosperity preacher. But now I correctly see that you get disciplined by God and it can be quite severe. Disabling or even fatal in some cases. 1 Corinthians 5 has a person delivered unto Satan to be killed so that his flesh would die and his soul be saved.
anyway.. OSAS is kind of difficult for me to find a position on both within scripture and my own experience. I feel like I walked away, and there was changes. I took pleasure in sin, I sought sin, after not having been that way for several years when God was a bigger part of my life. Anger at God over some incorrect doctrines I think was the start of that downward spiral. Anger leads to doubt and rebellion. I do feel that in those times looking back, I was not the same person that I was before, nor have been after coming back.
But at the same time, He finally called me back, even though I was stubborn about it and the chastisement was disabling. But He called me back, and I can now see all the bad things that happened as disciplining actions, and trying to call me back.
So it's a really hard situation to feel out for a doctrine. Psalm 89 has some parts where God says He visits transgressions with the rod, and iniquity with stripes, but He won't take away His lovingkindness.
So on the one hand, evidence that I would have lost my salvation is that I changed as a person, took pleasure in sin, sought sin, loved sin, had doubts about God, and even voiced those doubts to people. Like Peter denying Christ over and over until the [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] crows and then feeling absolute shame. When I came back, I felt absolute shame most of all in my claiming to be agnostic and even mocking the faith.
On the other hand evidence I never lost it was.. even though I publicly denied belief in God, I still found myself talking to Him, still seeking Him, even though I was mad at Him and wanted to not be on speaking terms.. you know? If you get in a fight with a loved one you still think about them even though you don't want to return their calls. So how could I truly and honestly have not believed in Him despite WHAT I said to other people when I was by myself I was reaching out to Him and thinking about Him? Secondly He BEAT me with that rod of chastisement. Just a lot of "what are the chances of that happening?" "random" bad luck things happened to me. Which shows me now as I understand Hebrews that God was still dealing with me as a son. A disobedient son.
Now when I think about the times when multiple people did the same thing wrong and I'm the only one who got caught and punished.. now I think, all the guys who "got away with it".. they weren't saved... I wish I still knew how to contact them and get them saved now.
So.. on OSAS.. I don't even know, He called me back so it's not like He just let me go off and die in my sins. Did I lose salvation? Or was it just a wicked backslide and me being the prodigal son but I was always elected for salvation.