I would appreciate if someone took the time to help me. The title doesn't really do justice. My entire family are Christian's and we believe obviously that we must forgive just as Christ forgave the church.
Although, my family is facing some troubles and idk what to do. So my mum's brother in law and brother had recently convinced themselves that my mum had been stealing from them for years(which is 100% incorrect). My parents are church leaders and they are wonderful people. So these two men (brother in law and brother) along with their families have been spreading lies about my family and the rest of the extended family accusing us of stealing. And all my mother and family have done was support them throughout their lives, emotional and financially. We have always been there for them and so it broke my mother's heart and ours too see that. My mother, while battling cancer, would drive them around to banks, or to government buildings to make sure all their problems are sorted out and even through hospital and doctors appointments. Helping them to fight their battles too because shes a compassionate person to everybody.
So recently they decided to stop and we dont know why ( Jesus' grace ). They apologised to my mother. And we forgave them coz that's the christian thing to do and we did it sincerely and not coz we felt we had too
The issue we facing at home is that my dad is protective and he feels my mother shouldn't include herself back into their lives coz they hurt her and he wants to protect her. But whenever they phone my dad will say she doesnt need to help them anymore...but like not that she must cut them off..just like when I said she would do everything for them..he says now they need to learn to do things themselves. Especially when its comes to money after what they did.
I cant cover everything but if someone is willing to give advice. And i could give more details i would appreciate it alot. It's just too much.
After a long while of lies and torture emotionally, they de
Although, my family is facing some troubles and idk what to do. So my mum's brother in law and brother had recently convinced themselves that my mum had been stealing from them for years(which is 100% incorrect). My parents are church leaders and they are wonderful people. So these two men (brother in law and brother) along with their families have been spreading lies about my family and the rest of the extended family accusing us of stealing. And all my mother and family have done was support them throughout their lives, emotional and financially. We have always been there for them and so it broke my mother's heart and ours too see that. My mother, while battling cancer, would drive them around to banks, or to government buildings to make sure all their problems are sorted out and even through hospital and doctors appointments. Helping them to fight their battles too because shes a compassionate person to everybody.
So recently they decided to stop and we dont know why ( Jesus' grace ). They apologised to my mother. And we forgave them coz that's the christian thing to do and we did it sincerely and not coz we felt we had too
The issue we facing at home is that my dad is protective and he feels my mother shouldn't include herself back into their lives coz they hurt her and he wants to protect her. But whenever they phone my dad will say she doesnt need to help them anymore...but like not that she must cut them off..just like when I said she would do everything for them..he says now they need to learn to do things themselves. Especially when its comes to money after what they did.
I cant cover everything but if someone is willing to give advice. And i could give more details i would appreciate it alot. It's just too much.
After a long while of lies and torture emotionally, they de
